ok there is this girl adn she knew that i liked thid guy and she still went for him and right as he was about to ask me out then she comes up to him and says he do you want to go out with me and he said well i was just about to ask her out and she goes great then we are going out and i want to mad at her and i think she did it on purpose but would you be mad at her if she did that to you?
2007-05-31 08:45:27 · 21 answers · asked by coltschick34 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes they are going out but what really gets me is that she was my best freind and now she is defantly NOT
2007-05-31 08:53:37 · update #1
I wouldn't be angry at her. I would be more upset with the guy. If the guy was truly going to ask you out, then just seeing her shouldn't change his mind about that. I think the guy is easily influenced by whatever girl is in front of him first. That seems very immature and childish. The girl is more than likely really insecure and wants the thrill of thinking she is good enough to "steal a guy" from someone else. It is an act that shows a great deal of insecurity. In that sense, I feel sorry for the girl. You deserve better than a guy that is going to change his mind about what he wants in a couple minutes.
2007-05-31 08:52:26 · answer #1 · answered by One Odd Duck 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is she your friend? If she is, I would be mad. Did the boy go out with her? If he did, he was a dog and really wasn't interested enough in you anyway. If he was he would have said no thanks and asked you out. She may have saved you from a jerk. Find some one that wants to be with you only. Good Luck!
2007-05-31 15:51:02 · answer #2 · answered by frawlicious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course i would be mad at her! She knew you did, all she wanted to be was selfish, rude and mean to you. That is a sign that she likes him to plus its also a sign of her being a *****. Was this girl your friend? If so, you should get a new friend becuase shes not even worth it
2007-05-31 15:50:00 · answer #3 · answered by SEXCI_MAMA!!!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, you're 13, don't even worry about stuff like that. She's immature, he's immature if he went along with her, and you're immature if you let their actions regulate your emotions. Yeah, the situation sucks, but if he changes his mind about who he wants to ask out that easily, he's probably not worth your time anyway.
2007-05-31 15:51:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all she's not ur friend. friends don't do that to each other so yes i would be mad. but look i bet u it wont work out because for the simple fact that he did not want he in the first place. he wanted u.
2007-05-31 16:07:04 · answer #5 · answered by kay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a desperate tag-along "friend"
Shake this clingy, oblivious, inconsiderate off you now.
Everyone knows it's rude to invite yourself.
2007-05-31 15:49:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I would be pissed off!! She is just jealous of you and wants what you want.. You have every right to be mad at her!!
2007-05-31 15:50:38 · answer #7 · answered by MonaLisa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, she sounds like a horrible "friend"
2007-05-31 15:47:53 · answer #8 · answered by sleepyhead 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i would because she sounds like a horrible friend
2007-05-31 15:49:02 · answer #9 · answered by jessica r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can be mad at her, but he accepted the invitation! So why aren't you mad at him to?
2007-05-31 15:52:00 · answer #10 · answered by Tigerluvr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋