Family & Relationships - 31 May 2007

i am 16 and wondering if i can still be adopted? Not happy at all living at home i'm not getting on with my mum or stepdad very well and can't cope anymore things are making me ill, i have had councelling and it didnt really help me. any ideas on what do next?

2007-05-31 07:47:07 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

If she needs to borrow money or anything to chapstick she goes through my purse, doesnt even ask! She goes in my room and borrows makeup, which is fine but she doesn't put it back right and she doesnt ask!
I always ask before i borrow something.
I've confronted her about this before and her and my dad thinks im being stupid about. I think they think im hiding something.... Anybody know any ideas to make her STOP!

2007-05-31 07:44:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-05-31 07:44:16 · 12 answers · asked by barbie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I know I'll sound like a loser. but my 20th birthday is coming up soon and i want my friends to get together for it... not really a party just people hangin out. Only problem is, all my friends are flaky and i think they will all say they are going to show and then not.... how do i get them to be there?

2007-05-31 07:43:29 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-05-31 07:40:21 · 20 answers · asked by angel 1 in Singles & Dating

well,i'm an egyptian guy,i met my american wife when she was in egypt,we stayed together there for a while she used to yell at me all the time about stupid stuff(real stupid stuff),and when i got disppointed becuz of that she told me she is just unhappy becuz she is far from her country and family,we moved her and the first day again she yelled at me for something stupid,and then after a while she told me she wanna (lose weight and get another boyfriend),beside she keeps accusing me for using her to move to the states,i dont know what to do,i just feel so helpless and i really hate being controlled by her,and i was just wondering if that was just a bad decision of me or that's how all the american women r!!!

2007-05-31 07:39:37 · 28 answers · asked by neo n 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

What should I have played? Not country music! Otherwise, we're open. Old rock stuff...some fun new stuff too...help!

2007-05-31 07:38:12 · 6 answers · asked by Kim B 2 in Weddings

My hubby works 40 hours a week and me I work 40-55 hours a week and I bring home $4,500.00 a month sometimes more sometimes less...but it averages out to around $4,ooo A month.Our rent is $2,000 a month and we have 2 car notes and insurance and of course the utilities and other bills and groceries etc...He told me that i was to pay with my money 100% of the rent and then 1/2 of all the other bills because i make this much money...oh and with my money i have to pay 100% of day care for our son too. My hubby makes $33.00 an hour and works 40 hours a week and some over time time and a half..he makes more than me but since 1000 buck is taken out of his check a month for child support on his 17 yr old daughter he feels i should pay more of the bills. i also have to dress nicely and i am a very consevative and frugal person. he will not even alow me to go get a $15 manicure or even buy a new skirt or blouse on discount..nor a pair of comfy shoes that are on discount! continued....

2007-05-31 07:37:09 · 27 answers · asked by NEWPORT BEACH GIRL 4 in Marriage & Divorce

he uses a seperate computer and i dont know his password

2007-05-31 07:37:06 · 7 answers · asked by rock star 5 in Family

2007-05-31 07:33:40 · 40 answers · asked by pink rose 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Example: Let's say you've moved to a completely different city and state and have no friends or immediate connections there.

2007-05-31 07:32:51 · 9 answers · asked by Tom's View 2 in Singles & Dating

and what would happen to their mixed baby? Plz, I'm not asking about what usually happened to the black men. I already know.

2007-05-31 07:29:08 · 14 answers · asked by artsy_lovely_lady 5 in Family

She doesn't know I know. What should I do? I am really concerned for her.

2007-05-31 07:28:23 · 5 answers · asked by -Sarah- 4 in Family

alright so i told my best friend that i have feelings for her. and she said some things to me that confused me.
"yeah, but (last girl i liked) had no idea what shes missing out on" isn't this ironic because she doesnt want to date me either?

she also said "all those guys i talk about, i only like them, i love you." and you are going to be in my life for ever and ever and ever. I love you and always going to put you first over any guy.

and she doesnt want to date me? its confusing

is there anyway to make her want more?

2007-05-31 07:26:40 · 12 answers · asked by dwickleworth 4 in Singles & Dating

Ok, I've always fantasized about a threesome with my fiancee and another girl. It's always been just a fantasy, but after discussing it in the open with my fiancee, we are very interested now. We have even decided who we would like to have the threesome with, but we don't know if she does that. Actually, I would prefer for it to be her first time too because I don't want to feel like a "rookie" with a "pro". Should we just all hang out, party, and then I try to kiss her or something? I need advice please........has anyone done this before?

2007-05-31 07:25:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-31 07:25:54 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

FAMILY GUY

2007-05-31 07:24:53 · 3 answers · asked by Anthony M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

why do men/guys like to leave there girls then play with there minds well if your a guy then you should tell me!

2007-05-31 07:24:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I see that she has been talking to older people but I don't if I should trust her or not... I would just like to see what she is doing. Maybe even erase some of those websites so no one knows what she is doing. will someone please help me!!

2007-05-31 07:23:24 · 5 answers · asked by Bronco_Fan 1 in Family

ok well this is what happend. i had cigg's in my room only 3 since janurary i didnt remember they were there but i know i was holding them for someone then the same day i skipped the last 2 hours of school because one of my friends that skipped with me said they dont care since u already lost your credits for missing so many days and we only have like 5 days left so the kid says they dont care now so i was stupid enough to go along with it and me and 3 other kids left and they called my dad and told him then my dad was in my room and found those cigg's so 2 huge things happend today and i havent talked to my dad yet i just know hes mad.. also i got a brother in the marines so hes pissed at me to. they princible said they dont want me back so i guess im expelled i dont know so today has sucked and my parents wont beilve that those ciggs arnt mine because they already think i smoke because of the kind of kids i hang out with any tips on what to say or anything cause they said continued

2007-05-31 07:22:50 · 14 answers · asked by Chris Webb 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Shiftiness, loss of eye contact, etc.

2007-05-31 07:19:15 · 23 answers · asked by Tom's View 2 in Singles & Dating

How do you get over someone you loved and gave you virginity to? I gave my ex-boyfriend my virginity and we broke up a month later and now i am having the hardest time getting over him please help me out¿

2007-05-31 07:15:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My fiance and I are planning this enormous wedding and my parents are paying for it all. It going to be beautiful, exactly what I dreamed about since I was a little girl. Everything is perfect, and I want my wedding party to match. My maid of honor and bridesmaids are all very pretty, and are the best man and groomsmen. We are using my cousin's son as our ring beare and he is adorable. The problem is the flower girl, it's a tradition in my fiance's family to use kids from actually inside the family, something about passing on fertility or something. I don't know. The only little girl of the appropriate age is my fiance's brother's daughter (she's seven) and she is just ugly. Not just plain, but just an ugly little girl. I don't think she can even fit in the cute dress I want her to wear. She weighs close to a hundred pounds already!!! My question is, do I really have to keep her in my wedding party? I think she is going to ruin the day! Or should I just keep her?

2007-05-31 07:14:18 · 35 answers · asked by papakose777 1 in Weddings

My boyfriend and I are taking a 'break'. I'm heartbroken, but I understand why he wants this break, and genuinely hope that by taking a break we will be able to start on a new slate, and improve our relationship.

We have been together for a bit over a year, and I truly think he is the one. I'm working hard to give him his space, but I miss him, and I want to talk it out instead of not talking at all. To make matters worse, his dog died the same day after he said he wanted a break, and now he has to handle the stress of the break and of his loss.

Has anyone had a break that ended up benefitting the relationship? Please no negative or cruel answers, I really don't need that right now.

2007-05-31 07:13:51 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My GF is 6yrs elder. I am 27 & she's 34. we've been goin around for 4yrs now.I love her lots & she loves me too. But whn we fight our fights are very ugly coz we both are very headstrong. Our chemistry is very strong. Our relationship has gone thru some serious ups & downs. She cheated on me once,but she apologized & i forgave her for a fresh start coz i luv her too. We've been talkin'bout marriage. Our families are against this marriage coz of the age difference & our fights. They think this marriage will not survive long. However my GF is ready to fight out everyone to settle with me. My friends & my family pressurized me to rethink & ultimately i chickened out coz now i was unsure if age diff will work & refused her for marriage. I think about her everyday & havn't been able to move on. Sometimes i feel very strongly to go against the wishes of everyone but am not able to gather the courage thinking my friends & family will laugh at me for marying a girl 6 yrs elder. What shud i do?

2007-05-31 07:12:30 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

For free! I am looking for old classmates that are not on classmatess.com

2007-05-31 07:12:26 · 6 answers · asked by bootrice2001 1 in Friends

Ive been with her for 2 months now, i know its short, but from the first day we met we really hit it off and we really feel like we love each other, most people would disagree im sure. But lately, its been really bad, when we talk on the phone its like hell, I'm really trying to make conversation but it just feels like our relationship is dying, she doesnt really even seem interested in me anymore, atleast thats how i feel. But she suffers from depression, bipolar really, and its so stressing on me, cause everytime i ask her if shes happy and still wants to be with me, she says shes really happy and loves me, but the way she acts doesnt convince me, and she gets mad at me when i dont believe her, but when we are together in person, its usually really great and we love it, except for the last time, which was really good, just at the beg it was...wierd, i didnt really know what to feel. I love her and dont want to run away from her problems, but it really screws with my head wat do i do?

2007-05-31 07:11:26 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was once loved a young lady who had been taken through a lot of dramatic events in her early twenties. I married her and let her have her way for years. When we began dating I took it upon my self to listen to her problems and be a good friend. We ended up being together for almost a decade. We recently split because I wore down. I was diagnosed with type 2 diabetes I was only 30. I had to make changes to survive for my kids. I spoiled her so badly that she didn't want to change anything. I tried to live her way. The stress and frustration was too much. I was in great physical shape when I meet her. In fact Infact I was linebacker in college. I would be a fool to blame my ex for my problems. I honestly feel in a situation like this no one is to blame. Our relationship began and remained the same way but had to change. I had to change to survive but my ex still wants to have her way and not change. I couldn't handle her anymore. I tried for 3 years to make things work.

2007-05-31 07:10:16 · 20 answers · asked by Big Sam D 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I have bin with this guy for over 6 months but we are not bf and gf at 1 point we did but shortly broke up. He has a girlfriend and i get so mad win she comes around he's my boss and she even comes in and works sometimes i want to fight her so bad! but he used to call me and we use to have sex and spend time together untill recently when i told him he hurt me 2 much and i could no longer do it he tells me he needs me but if he really wanted me i think he would of left her but he didn't i luv him and it hurts so bad but it hurts worst when i see them 2gether wat should i do i luv him SOOOOOOOOOOO much and i would do anything for him. I honestly think he loves us both!

2007-05-31 07:10:08 · 7 answers · asked by shhh 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I need help On What i Should Do.
Was it bad?
or can i have some advice?
i feel guilty

2007-05-31 07:06:18 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating