what does she mean?

Question

alright so i told my best friend that i have feelings for her. and she said some things to me that confused me.
"yeah, but (last girl i liked) had no idea what shes missing out on" isn't this ironic because she doesnt want to date me either?

she also said "all those guys i talk about, i only like them, i love you." and you are going to be in my life for ever and ever and ever. I love you and always going to put you first over any guy.

and she doesnt want to date me? its confusing

is there anyway to make her want more?

Answer 1

well forget about other girls, focus on here more. She just said that you are missing out on that last girl you were with because she may have a really good personality.
But there is always the right person out there for someone. Just wait, cuz when time passes on, she and you will learn that you two were ment for one another, best friends become family not enemies, and once they become family, they become ONE.
You tow may get married one day, you never know. Best friends, ususally mean there is something there.

I hope you get what i mean

Answer 2

She loves you as a friend, but isn't attracted to you (i think). To make her want more? May not happen - she just may never have the necessary sexual "spark" for you that she does someone else.

Is there something about you that wouldn't excite a girl? Hygiene good? are you in good shape (not perfect, but reasonably good shape)?

Look at the guys she does date - the style of clothes they wear, what they look like, what sort of interests they have and then take an OBJECTIVE look at yourself.

Answer 3

Move on.

I had a girl like that. She told me I would always be in her life. That one day she would marry me and be with me forever.

I haven't seen her in 3 years as she moved to another state 500 miles away and is married to a guy she met while she was dating me.

Forget her she is using you.

Answer 4

well, all i can tell you is be bold, sincere and persistent. My then-friend, now-husband came up to me after finding out i liked his best friend and told me that he was falling in love with me flat out.

I was so shocked i just shot him down.

But he didn't give up. He kept asking me out and kept emphasizing that he loved me and as long as i was in his life that it didn't matter if we were together or not.

it took 7 months before i was willing to go out with him. But now 7 and 1/2 years later we are married and happy. and he was right. So be bold, be sincere. and be persistent.

Answer 5

Do not make her want more, do not even try. She is not worth it, she is just playing mind games and you do not deserve that.

A relationship is not based on mind games, it is based on love, truth, honesty, caring, giving 50-50, and no mind games!

You deserve better, you do not deserve anyone who will say all of these positive things to you and not want to have anything to do with you?

Answer 6

Yes agree with Carrie G, nothing but mindgames move on or you will get hurt many times over.

Answer 7

well if she doesnt want you, then dont pursue that relationship because there has to be something on both sides not just yours...go for another girl and just keep her as a friend.

Answer 8

ur gonna hve 2 b a little patient i supose. she probably doesnt want 2 ruin thngs rite now

Answer 9

Ask her why she won't date you. That's the only way to find out.

Answer 10

Shes a retard.
I cant stand it when my pathetic species tries to confuse the crap out of guys. Im pretty straight forward, im just like, "I like you a lot," or "Leave me alone," or "No thanks." LOL
Like I said, shes a retard