Family & Relationships - 31 May 2007

who had a baby, yet she was
just the girl you were looking for?

2007-05-31 06:37:20 · 16 answers · asked by Total_Pineapple_forever 2 in Singles & Dating

i am 19 and i want to leave the house and start a life. my family is arrogant and they don't believe in me. i live in colorado, and i have like about $400. what do i need to start a life? i just can't take it anymore.

2007-05-31 06:37:14 · 6 answers · asked by tomy s 1 in Family

My man and I were chillin in our crib yesterday and he asked me if I would like to have a 3some. When I said yes he flipped out and called me a lesbian. Why do you think he got mad? and why do you think he doesnt want one? (shaking my head in confusion)

2007-05-31 06:36:10 · 10 answers · asked by bronxbella1 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay, please don't judge me by this but my dad gets upset with me when i like people of a different race...he isn't racist or anything he just thinks its more healthy not to get involved with them in a relationship/sexual way. I mean, I am attracted to hispanic people and he just doesn't get it. I mean I like other people to, but this one really makes him mad. How do i react to what his wishes are. I don't understand why he gets so upset! Should I obey him? I mean, he is my dad after all. PLEASE HELP ME. I'm sick of being judged because of my interests.....i need advice!

2007-05-31 06:32:19 · 7 answers · asked by **Amanda** 3 in Family

Father of only daughter came to rehearsal and gave daughter away at the wedding. He gave no gift and offered no explanation at the time. Should some one find out why he did this, or just let him off the hook?

2007-05-31 06:31:34 · 29 answers · asked by SAD MOM27 1 in Weddings

Well,i used to be really good friends with this guy in my class.
& this year,he told me that he liked me :/
We've stead and broke up twice.
Which means yeahh,im single now.
He says that he still likes me,and i do have some feelings for him.
Just that i dont wanna make another mistake and later break up just as we patch back.
He's a few mths younger than me,same age though.
Kinda nice,but just cant imagine myself with him alone?
I dont know,im a shy person.
He's been liking me for 6 months now and i really dont know what to do.
I do have feelings for him,but not sure if its enough for a steady relationship.
He's caring&devoted.
But when he always find topics to talk about,it gets really boring.
He becomes really lame and tells me really uneccesary stuff which makes me feel that maybe he's not the one for me.
Well,i really dont know.
Advices please? :/

2007-05-31 06:30:04 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-31 06:28:51 · 11 answers · asked by cooliceyrose 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-31 06:27:57 · 13 answers · asked by sexyroselover 1 in Singles & Dating

I am good friends with this girl, I care for her, I listen and help her with whatever is troubling her, I always help her to think positive, I give her gifts on special occasions such as her birthday, valentines of this year, sometimes i would just show up @ her work and surprise her with a small gift and a hello w/ a big hug along with it. She once told me about 9 months ago that "Its not possible for you and me" I never understood why...Her and I hang out a lot and I make sure to comfort her when she is feeling exhausted and/or depressed. I was there for her when something happened to her father, I was there when she got a flat tire and I replaced it to her spare, I was also there for her when she was sick and I gave her a recipe on a soup that will help her get better fast. How do you make a girl who says "it'll never be" to start a relationship with you?? I need help. I really want to be with her. Help.

2007-05-31 06:25:09 · 14 answers · asked by PlayinDaGame 2 in Singles & Dating

I am moving in with my boyfriend at the end of June, we have been together 5 years. I'm 28, he's 34, we get along really well, hardly fight, and always work out our problems except for now. Five months ago, there was a situation with his neighbor, who is about 24. She knew he had a girlfriend, and she had a boyfriend. She sent him alot of texts of how she wanted to "do" him, how she had the house and kid and now wanted a husband and wanted it to be him. She didn't want to accept he loved me and told him to try and get rid of me, which of course he didn't. She also threatened him, and tried to get him in trouble with the cops. She said she'd move (at the time) but never did.

The houses are very close together where he lives. Now that I am moving in, he wants me to let bygones be bygones and be friends w/ her. I hate that he still talks to her, and I have NO intention of trying to be her friend because of what she did. Am I overreacting? How do I handle this? I hate arguing w/ him!

2007-05-31 06:24:59 · 21 answers · asked by Very Confused 3 in Singles & Dating

we moved last October and I have been traveling 14 miles one way to transport my two sons to school, ages 14 and 10. Now that I am in a different town, is it ok to move them into that school, they are not really happy about. But it seems sensible with gas prices and its a good school.

2007-05-31 06:19:49 · 12 answers · asked by red29 1 in Family

I need a good prank that i can play on my sister. She is really annoying and plays pranks on me all the time. I need a prank that is funny and will really get her back.

2007-05-31 06:15:33 · 13 answers · asked by ♥Luv Me 4 Me♥ 2 in Family

My boyfriend is very cheap. However, I've been trying to understand his situation since he supports himself 100%. He never buys me anything nor do I expect it but there is one thing he does that really bothers me. He always asks me to buy him clothes and says he'll pay me back but when i give him the receipt, he brushes it off. And recently, he bought 2 weeks worth of laundry to my apt for my maid to clean and I encouraged him to leave her some extra money since she doesn't charge much and she has other jobs she has to attend to. The funny thing is that he'll agree and even says that he should give her $15 more but when I told him to just put the money in the envelope for her, he blows up at me. It's not about the money but more the principle. I just want him to be a man of his words. If you say you are going to pay back, then pay back. If you don't intend to then don't say anything. we've been together for a year and now it's at a point where we should break up or resolve issues.

2007-05-31 06:14:51 · 11 answers · asked by sweetsparkle 1 in Singles & Dating

NEVER HAVE MET ANYONE I CHAT WITH!!

2007-05-31 06:13:18 · 52 answers · asked by lupe 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my bff is mad at me.cuz her mom asked me if i really wanted her to sleep over i said i dont care(because i having hard times right now).So she couldnt sleep over she said dont contact her.because were done wth being best friends(we have been bff for 3 years).How can we be be bff again wth out contacting her on the phone?

2007-05-31 06:13:14 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

We have been together 7 years, and will be celebrating our 1 year wedding anniversary next Monday. What can we do fun and memorable on work night? I want to give him suggestions on sweet things to do, but I want him to think that he is the one coming up with them!

2007-05-31 06:00:00 · 10 answers · asked by sonotech02 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Hey, I'm mixed. I am half Filipino and half American-Indian. Does that make me less unattractive? I think I am unique... and somewhat attractive... what do you think?

2007-05-31 05:55:13 · 15 answers · asked by Sooo. 3 in Singles & Dating

My cousin has hated every guy I've ever dated. The funny thing is, she's only met two of them. My boyfriend is everything to me and treats me like a princess (I return his affection so I'm not a spoiled brat or anything). He's been nothing but nice to my cousin (and the rest of my family) but she still tells me she doesn't like him. I've always said I would want my cousin as my MOH when I got married as we grew up together, but I wouldn't want her holding that honor or responsibility if she doesn't even like the guy. My boyfriend and I have been dating for over a year and are pretty serious and have talked about marriage.
What should I do in this situation? My cousin means a lot to me so I can I get her to see that my boyfriend is actually a great guy?

Also, as a matter of clarification: the rest of my family (including my parents) love my boyfriend.
My cousin is 26 (currently sleeping around with a 2-year-old daughter and another baby on the way), my boyfriend is 23, and I'm 21.

2007-05-31 05:53:16 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

He finished with me six weeks ago and i was absolutely devestated, he ended it because it was too full on for him as he's 22 and i'm 24 and he didn't think we wanted the same things and he felt he was too young to get in a relationship. We were together for 18mths and lived together. I moved out and rented a studio on my own (where i am now) and went on a few dates to distract myself but nothing serious. i met a nice guy who has overwhelmed me with his interest and i can see serious potential but i met my ex last night and he's now saying he doesn't know what he wants anymore he thinks he wants me back. i'm so in limbo, how do i make a decision on what to do???

2007-05-31 05:52:58 · 24 answers · asked by Laura B 1 in Singles & Dating

Hello! I need a guy opinion here, he told me that he girlfriend cheated on him, after they were 3 years together, and now he doesn't want any serious relationship...We've dated once, instantly develped eye contact, made out, but didn't sleep together, and since then talk on the phone almost every day. I like him and he seems to like me as well. We're going to meet once again and talk about his past expiriance...Do you think he's afraid of being lied and cheated once again?

2007-05-31 05:45:44 · 13 answers · asked by Maria D 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-31 05:45:18 · 5 answers · asked by Bradley 1 in Friends

cause she lied on me and my mom cause of what she said and did so what do i do?

2007-05-31 05:41:07 · 22 answers · asked by Ciera W 1 in Family

My fiancee and I have been living together for 3years. We've had our ups and downs and I've always been right when it comes to intuition about our relationship. Well lately I've been feeling like he's gonna leave. I'm a little upset not that he wants to go but b/c all my 5year old and I have know for the past 5 years is him. I love him but I don't want him if he is unhappy and jumping down my throat every 5 seconds...but how will I start over I don't think I can function without him. financially and emotionally. He was my best friend but I do believe his heart has wondered. Where will I go what will I do I live in a state where I know no one and I don't believe I can support me and my son if he leaves. Any ideas?

2007-05-31 05:40:58 · 18 answers · asked by ~GiRLiE~ 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I have completly opposite tastes in music. I don't like the bands he likes and vice versa. It's not really a huge deal but it would be nice if we liked the same stuff so we could go to concerts together. How important is it for you and your spouse to have similar taste in music?

2007-05-31 05:40:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Oh no this is very bad.
I have written previously about a guy I know is bad for me and has too many red flags.

Still I am being swayed by this toxic boyman.
He is nearly mid 30s and his issues are as follows:
1. -Self proclaimed vanity & shallowness. He wants lipo & hair plugs even though he is more handsome than Ewan Macgeror & a young Brad Pitt.
2. - Bad with money. Cheap and an overspender.
3. - Drinks. A lot. Regularly. 4-7 times a week.
4. - Had a horrible heartbreak when his exFiancee left him before wedding. Has admitted missing her even though its been a year.
Why on earth am I being smitten by him ?
Because he says all the right sweet things and is very charming, has shown vulnerability, somehow spins his faults to sound sad and endearing, we think the same way, same humor, both want marriage/kids, same religion/politics and I find him hella hot. And then I justify liking him because I'm aware of my own faults and still think I am worthy of love, so why not him.
I AM so screwed. I just looked in the bathroom mirror and yelled at myself how f^cked I am.
And it's not that I don't have self esteem or other options. I have several really great guys who want to date me but I feel cold towards them.
I've gone out on two dates and thought about mr. toxic the whole time.
One guy kissed me and i honestly imagined mr toxic's face instead.

If one of my friends or a daughter, if I had one , told me about this guy I would freak out on them.
I'm just comforted at least that he keeps wanting to see me and I'm putting him off. But dont know how much longer I can.
Can anyone talk sense into me ?

2007-05-31 05:39:36 · 26 answers · asked by shirishria 1 in Singles & Dating

well when I was secretly spying on my wife last week on saturday and I caught her meeting some guy in a party planning store, she went in there for almost 2 hours!!!! then on sunday i caught her buying a cake for that asshole at a different store, she went to her friends house and dropped the cake off there for some strange reason, and just yesterday I checked her phone and she has almost no minutes left, she has been talking to that a hole at work!!! i checked her call history and she made a call to almost everyone on her contact list, I think she is trying to throw me off!!! i have no actually evidence of her cheating on me but I dont know how to catch her in the act, my birthday is coming up soon and she hasnt been herself lately, she has been keeping to herself, I think it is because she is seeing that a hole at the party planning store, and for some reason some money is missing from our joint checking acount, she is cheating on me, should i divorce her?

2007-05-31 05:32:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-05-31 05:24:14 · 3 answers · asked by Skippers 1 in Weddings

hello my name is andrea and well i need some help ive tried to explan to my bf that sometimes im really busy but he just doesnt understand and stuff you can tell her all the time but he doesnt lisen i dont want tobreak up with him but i dont know what to do about it and this summer im going to the usa and he wants to go but its only to b e family and even if i tell him no he gonna anyways that just how he is!but i want to know how to get away from him so i dont get mad anymore he like wants to know my ever step where i am why im there how do i fix the problem???

2007-05-31 05:19:46 · 5 answers · asked by it never ever ends 1 in Singles & Dating

ok so I've been dating my boyfriend for 10 months now. and well he has a drinking problem. Not that he drinks too much but when he does drink he goes crazy. He gets mad at everybody around him and it's caused him to get jumped a few times. anyways he got rough with me a couple times but he's just totally different person when he drinks. He has told me he won't drink anymore because i told him that if he does i'll leave him because he's risking him flipping out and hurting me or someone else. Well I love him very much but I like to go out. I don't go out often probably just once every 2 months or something, and I feel that I don't have a problem with drinking and it's only gonna be so long b4 i can't go out to clubs and stuff so i want to enjoy it. since he would never let me go alone I want him to go but not to drink. Does that make me a *****? I really love him , but when he's been drinking he has hit me, hit other people, got arrested, beat up, and busted my windshield

2007-05-31 05:19:21 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok so he loves me. I know because he cries when he is happy. but the thing is he is mad about money. He wants to save all our money for the next 2 years so we can have an Audi S5! that means no going out or anything. Another thing is he has no idea about being romantic. He said that flowers are a waste of time and money because they die. He has never really had a girl friend B4 so i am the fist. (wife) he keeps asking me if things are normal for a relationship like not agreeing on things. I do love him but just need some help to sort him out B4 he drives me crazy its like having a kid for a husband. I thought it was the wifes job. lol!

2007-05-31 05:15:43 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce