My man and I were chillin in our crib yesterday and he asked me if I would like to have a 3some. When I said yes he flipped out and called me a lesbian. Why do you think he got mad? and why do you think he doesnt want one? (shaking my head in confusion)
2007-05-31 06:36:10 · 10 answers · asked by bronxbella1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Most guys who suggest such things are into them...odd for him to suggest it hoping that you'd say no.
He apparently doesn't know anything about homosexuality if he called you a lesbian. It may well be that someone so narrow minded and judgemental isn't a good match for you (and not simply because he doesn't want a threesome).
2007-05-31 06:40:12 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He only asked you about a three some to test your character, by you answering "yes" made him feel disappointed and to respect you less. If you really are into threesomes and he is not then you and him are not a match. I myself would also be very upset if my guy even suggested to a three some. Love to me is between two people inlove and makes it very personal. Otherwise it is just a circus for all to share and see.
2007-05-31 13:41:10 · answer #2 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ultimately guys like to think about that kind of stuff, but they do not actually think that his girl will go for it. The guys I have known talk the talk about stuff like that but when it comes doen to it, they want a good girl.. So you probably just caught him off guard....Talk to him about it...
2007-05-31 13:40:17 · answer #3 · answered by blubidy_blub 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because men want to call the shots on stuff like that and when you said yes it kinda wasn't up to him anymore.
2007-05-31 14:17:54 · answer #4 · answered by Sandy Sandals 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should of said i thought you meant an extra man.tell him time to slither because he sounds like a snake
2007-05-31 13:41:46 · answer #5 · answered by derrycat69er 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's just scared he wouldn't know what to do... but sounds like a total setup. either tell him you only said that because you thought that is what he wanted, or ditch him because he's a loser.
2007-05-31 13:40:33 · answer #6 · answered by las2507 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is gaming you. Ask him.
2007-05-31 13:39:13 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably because he wants it only to be between you and him, i wouldnt want another girl when im with my gf, theres nothing special there its pointless in my opinion.
2007-05-31 13:39:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that you hoped a threesome with two men! and then add that you were laughing if it makes him feel bad....
2007-05-31 13:39:27 · answer #9 · answered by lisasimpson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmm. Dunno. It's every man's fantasy, from what I hear.
2007-05-31 13:39:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋