cause she lied on me and my mom cause of what she said and did so what do i do?
2007-05-31 05:41:07 · 22 answers · asked by Ciera W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
record that b**ch! Then let your mom listen... They have digital voice recorders at walmart for fairly cheap.
2007-05-31 05:44:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your making a big mistake your getting your step mom and your real mom fighting more than they do already. Don't do that! trust me you will be sorry. Dad will not have you over there anymore and they will fight and then she won't like you and when that happens your dad won't either.
I have played that game and it was a lose lose situation.
It won't get you good attention only bad and it makes your mom sad and your dad sad and your step mom will hate you.
When your mom goes somewhere you get to stay with dad right? Keep your mouth shut about anything that goes on there. anything! I know your mom grills you when you come home and it seems like this is fun and I am getting attention and I even made up stuff for this.
Now, I am living with my grandma. and grandpa.
I rarely see my mom and never hardly see my dad and my step mom hates me. don't do it it isn't worth it.
2007-05-31 12:47:53 · answer #2 · answered by cloud 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You stay out of it. If your step-mom is bashing your mom you can stand up to her and say I don't want to hear it but you have no business tattling.
There's an old saying that goes somethign along the lines of it takes two to make an enemy, one person to talk about you and another to tell you what was said.
Point is, I understand your concern but you shouldn't be telling your mother.
Telling on someone because they are in danger or will hurt another or doing something illegal is fine. Tattling is telling someone something to get them in trouble. As I tell my daughter-if someoen isn't dying, injured, or commiting a crime I don't want to hear it.
2007-05-31 12:45:25 · answer #3 · answered by chickey_soup 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your stepmom is jealous. Tell her, that 1) you are on to her 2) that because she said something untrue or hurtful about the woman who brought you into this world, you can't trust her again, ever.
Now, your step mom has some serious making up to do.
2007-05-31 12:45:04 · answer #4 · answered by Madame Y 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the recording but i would play it for my dad first and then let the fun begin . your dad will most likely be angry at step mom and then real mom will be angry too . then your mom will know you did not lie and will be ashamed that she believed the step over you . and then step mom will have to apologize .
2007-05-31 12:47:47 · answer #5 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm interesting. Obviously your mom must have gone back and confronted the new mom. Well, did you hear her say something directly about your mom?
well if she denies it, she denies it. I am sure she will be careful the next time she talks about your mom. but believe me she is going to give you the evil eye for a while.
2007-05-31 12:44:43 · answer #6 · answered by Honeyluv 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your mother knows you better than your step-mother does so she should believe you....your never said who your mom believes.....when people lie they look down and to the left,,anyway that's what they teach the police.. next time carry a small tape recorder and tape her lies...one way to do it..but I would just trust my mom knows me and I don't lie to her... if she belives your step mom over you don't tell her any more
2007-05-31 12:48:31 · answer #7 · answered by joyce s 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Let your mom know that you are not lying and if you want you can buy a tape recorder and when you hear her talking about your mom just record her doing it and then when you see your mom let your mom and dad hear it.
2007-05-31 13:28:57 · answer #8 · answered by jamaicaladydread 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well there is nothing that you can really do. she shouldn't have talked about your mom and then lied about it and you should not have run to your mother telling her about it trying to cause problems
2007-05-31 12:44:54 · answer #9 · answered by carly sue 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
At Radio Shack they have very small digital voice recorders for around $20. Record her talking bad about your Mom. Or just get over it and remind yourself that she probably has issues if she needs to talk smack about your Mom.
2007-05-31 12:45:50 · answer #10 · answered by joseph's brain 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell your step-mother you would like to have a very clear boundary in your relationship with her. In that you do not feel comfortable with her making commentary regarding your mother. You don't want it to hinder your relationship with you and the step-mom, yet you don't feel right with her speaking of your actual mother.
2007-05-31 12:44:35 · answer #11 · answered by adam c 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋