we moved last October and I have been traveling 14 miles one way to transport my two sons to school, ages 14 and 10. Now that I am in a different town, is it ok to move them into that school, they are not really happy about. But it seems sensible with gas prices and its a good school.
2007-05-31 06:19:49 · 12 answers · asked by red29 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Sometimes what's best for the kids and the family's finances, as a whole, isn't the most popular decision. You shouldn't feel guilty about switching schools at all. It's a hard decision you've got to make as a parent for the best interests of the entire family. With all the money you're wasting on gas, all of you could do more activities together, have an easier time paying bills or save it for a vacation this summer.
2007-05-31 06:27:15 · answer #1 · answered by misguidedrose18 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you are not! I luckily breastfed longer than probably needed but that is something you always take into account - your diet. I remember with my first that I probably ate everything wrong the first week (tomatoes, chocolate, oranges) and learned very quickly how it affects the baby. You sound as if you have also put your body through an ordeal and this is not good since really your body is still trying to recover from pregnancy and birth. You have given your baby plenty of the necessary nutrients, colostrum and the necessary first milk. Your child by now should have been introduced to first foods so know that breast milk isn't the only necessary thing in his diet. If you want a second opinion you can contact a lactation specialist or La Leche League. However, just know that your body is struggling and a baby needs a healthy mom, too. I think you are wonderful for all of the sacrifice you have given to your child. There are formulas that mimic breast milk, are allergen free and are very good for your child, too. Please take care of yourself and know what a great start you have given your little boy and what a good mom you are. It's time for you to think about you, too.
2016-05-17 21:53:16 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They may not like it - but they'll get over it.
By the way - who's in charge here? You or the kids.
Oh, but they'll say that they hate you. Well, good. That way they won't hate you for some other perceived injustice later on.
If there's a good school close by then move the children. You're paying taxes for that school district.
You should have been doing that since October when you moved. Or at least at the beginning of the Spring Semester.
2007-05-31 06:30:52 · answer #3 · answered by Barbara B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change is always difficult for everybody. Maybe let them finish the school year at their old schools (since it is over in June right?). But let them know that they will be changing to the new schools at the beginning of the new school year.
If the school district finds out that you have moved out of district you could be in trouble for keeping the kids in the old school. They have specific boundaries of where you live and where the kids can go to school unless you get a permit to attend the other school. It may not be an option for you once they get your new address.
2007-05-31 07:06:18 · answer #4 · answered by hr4me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, my son is now 15 and he has switched schools twice since the second grade. Just switch them at the start of the new school year. The will met new kids, and will be fine. Change is never easy, but we all get through it.
2007-05-31 06:27:33 · answer #5 · answered by Susan R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm having the same problem. My daughter will be starting 2nd grade in the fall and she really doesn't want to change schools. I've decided to keep her in her current school because she has really excelled there and has lots of friends. Its a hard decision to make but its one you should all make together. My daughter is not good with change so that was another reason for my decision.
2007-05-31 06:36:30 · answer #6 · answered by L Boogie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My son started his junior year in high school at a new school becuase we moved in June. He hates it. I understand why and I feel so bad but in life there is some pain some times. This is the worse thing he has ever endured so all factors being equal he has a good life.
We try to do the best for our children but being accomodating, but sometimes they have to suck it up.
2007-05-31 06:59:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should definately put them in the local school. It not only will eliminate the drive problem for you it will give them a chance to make friends that are closer to home. In the long run they will be better off.
I assume you are talking about for the next school year if you are on a schedule like my kids who finish school this week.
2007-05-31 07:35:14 · answer #8 · answered by SoccerClipCincy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its tough for the kids to move to another school cause that means they have to start all over again with regards to meeting friends and getting use to the school. If you give them a reasonable explaination as to why they have to move to another school, they will understand. It will just take time.
2007-05-31 06:24:45 · answer #9 · answered by Jon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By all means if the quality of education at the new school is comparable to the present. By all means for economic reasons. By all means if it cuts down the commute to and from school. By all means so you'll have extra time for yourself...and by all means do not, I repeat, do not feel guilty about making the transfer. By all means explain your reasons to the teens, they'll warm up to it eventually. By all means good luck.
2007-05-31 06:37:40 · answer #10 · answered by gusomar 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋