Well,i used to be really good friends with this guy in my class.
& this year,he told me that he liked me :/
We've stead and broke up twice.
Which means yeahh,im single now.
He says that he still likes me,and i do have some feelings for him.
Just that i dont wanna make another mistake and later break up just as we patch back.
He's a few mths younger than me,same age though.
Kinda nice,but just cant imagine myself with him alone?
I dont know,im a shy person.
He's been liking me for 6 months now and i really dont know what to do.
I do have feelings for him,but not sure if its enough for a steady relationship.
He's caring&devoted.
But when he always find topics to talk about,it gets really boring.
He becomes really lame and tells me really uneccesary stuff which makes me feel that maybe he's not the one for me.
Well,i really dont know.
Advices please? :/
2007-05-31 06:30:04 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I admit i still have feelings for him.
But sometimes i doubt it.
Cause of his immature-ness&stuff.
When he cares for me,i feel really goood but doesnt express it.
Thus,sometimes he tends to be kinda uncaring.
& i'll feel really terrible.
I really dont know what to do.
Its a on off kinda thing.
What should i do?
Sigh.
2007-05-31 06:37:03 · update #1
Sorry that i keep adding details.
But,i've talked to him many times about our relationship before.
He just cant seem to understand what i want from him.
He doesnt really have the initiative and sometimes appear to be uncaring.
I've really talked to him many times but he just doesnt seem to get it.
2007-05-31 06:39:26 · update #2
I hate to pour cold water on you but patching up with him will just be a waste of your time. On-off relationships seldom work out and especially those at your age can only be described best as 'crushes' or 'puppy-love'. From the way you describe him to us, it seems your feelings for him aren't that strong either. If you can't even imagine yourself alone with him or strike up a good conversation, chances are both of you will just break off again after awhile. Couples should enjoy each others' company and communicate freely with each other.
Guys at your age are still not mature enough, that's why you tend to find him lame and no common topics to talk about = boring. It's better to stay as good friends and concentrate on your studies for now, rather than to have another failed relationship with him and lose a good friend in the process. If he's really that 'caring and devoted', he will respect your decision and wait for you to accept him, even if it takes years. Time is the best thing to test a person's sincerity towards you. Some people can claim they like/love you, but once you reject them... next day you'll see them wooing another girl. Some guys can be that shallow.
Ask yourself whether you really like this guy that much. Do you just want a boyfriend to keep you company or you feel you really can't do without him? You might think you like him alot now but there's always a chance that someone better will come along, someone you can click with and you'll enjoy his company. Girl, you are still young and there is no hurry to rush into a relationship. Take your time, enjoy your youth and quit worrying about these BGR stuffs :)
2007-06-01 03:43:36 · answer #1 · answered by plooshiepoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U shud tell him dat ur thoughts just dont match with his. Its better that u dont go for it again rather than break up. Since u hv already brought negativity to the relationship by thinking it wont work, It may really not work. I think ull can b really good frnds, but not a compatible couple. Just tell him the truth. I know it might hurt him but believe me it will save the two of ull time, energy and trouble.
2007-05-31 13:37:06 · answer #2 · answered by sash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think just tell him your not interested if he asks you again because the same thing happened to me and she didnt say no so i kept on going, but i stopped myself and now we are friends and we put that behind us
good luck i hoped this helped
2007-05-31 13:34:55 · answer #3 · answered by council_andrew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask yourself this question; can you imagine your life without this guy in it, and if you do, do you like it or miss him? if you miss him then get w/ him or you will always regret it.
2007-05-31 13:34:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
all you have to do is tell him what u dont like and him do the same for you
2007-05-31 13:33:37 · answer #5 · answered by corkydw89 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesnt sound like you have too much in common so i would just be friends.
2007-05-31 13:33:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋