well when I was secretly spying on my wife last week on saturday and I caught her meeting some guy in a party planning store, she went in there for almost 2 hours!!!! then on sunday i caught her buying a cake for that asshole at a different store, she went to her friends house and dropped the cake off there for some strange reason, and just yesterday I checked her phone and she has almost no minutes left, she has been talking to that a hole at work!!! i checked her call history and she made a call to almost everyone on her contact list, I think she is trying to throw me off!!! i have no actually evidence of her cheating on me but I dont know how to catch her in the act, my birthday is coming up soon and she hasnt been herself lately, she has been keeping to herself, I think it is because she is seeing that a hole at the party planning store, and for some reason some money is missing from our joint checking acount, she is cheating on me, should i divorce her?
2007-05-31 05:32:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
This is funny. But what's funnier is that some people are seriously attempting to answer this question. LOL Way to pass the time!!!
2007-05-31 07:20:25 · answer #1 · answered by That Deal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa, slow down there. You say you actually have no proof. I understand your suspicions, but you need to be mature and levelheaded about this. Sit down with her and ask her how she's feeling about your relationship, if there's anything she would like to talk about, etc...don't jump to conclusions, and DON'T point fingers until you have concrete proof. You never know- maybe she's enlisting someone's help at the Party Planning store to plan a big party for your birthday!! Maybe she's being quiet because she doesn't want to give anything away! The best you can do, without proof, is to communicate with her. Best of luck with this.
2007-05-31 13:08:29 · answer #2 · answered by Starry Eyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummmmmmm....actually think about it she has been going to a party planning store......and buying a cake from a different shop........... and yiou say she has called most people from her phone list.. and your birthday is coming up. have you evr thought she is trying to organise a surprise birthday party for you......... as for the cake she may have dropped it to the party supply shop for these reasons too.. lets hope that it is this...... and then wont you feel silly for thinking she is cheating............. but on the other hand if you recieve no surprise birthday party when ur birthday is due then id be asking her straight out for explainations..... and if she is cheating then yeah divorce!...... but wiat and see first coz it just sounds like a surprise party for u is being organised!
2007-05-31 12:41:29 · answer #3 · answered by littlemisssaigon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not cheating but is planning a surprise birthday party for you and the a hole may really be one of your old friends that you haven't seen in a while and she just might want to surprise you.
2007-05-31 13:32:41 · answer #4 · answered by jamaicaladydread 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I Think You Should Just Let Her Know That You Love Her First
2007-05-31 12:35:36 · answer #5 · answered by lilmissbearcat 1 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wow, wont you feel shitty for even thinking of divorcing her when you find out she's planning a party for you! wow you are really insecure to be spying on your wife.
2007-05-31 12:37:37 · answer #6 · answered by redneckgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
James, First thing is to just honestly and openly tell her what you told us ! Then just follow your heart.
2007-05-31 12:40:49 · answer #7 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, tell her you want a divorce NOW. It seems that, maybe, she's too good for you.
2007-05-31 12:38:07 · answer #8 · answered by dulcrayon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please don't waste our time with joke questions - or if you must, at least put a (j/k) in the title so we have the option to know what we're reading.
2007-05-31 12:36:46 · answer #9 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's either bangin the dude or he's a gay party planner...remember, your birthday is coming and all this might be for you...in the interum, start checking her panties...
2007-05-31 12:36:27 · answer #10 · answered by john 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋