what to do?

Question

hello my name is andrea and well i need some help ive tried to explan to my bf that sometimes im really busy but he just doesnt understand and stuff you can tell her all the time but he doesnt lisen i dont want tobreak up with him but i dont know what to do about it and this summer im going to the usa and he wants to go but its only to b e family and even if i tell him no he gonna anyways that just how he is!but i want to know how to get away from him so i dont get mad anymore he like wants to know my ever step where i am why im there how do i fix the problem???

Answer 1

OK, He already sounds like a control freak. This my dear is NOT good. Tell him something and then stand by whatever it is you told him. As far as the USA goes, you go and just don't tell him where you're going. If he does somehow manage to follow you then make sure you ignore him totally when you go. And if need be call the cops and tell them he is stalking you. He WILL be arrested. At least here in the states he will be. I think at this point you might want to look at dumping him. I know you might not want to hear that but believe me, at this point it IS going to GET WORSE. Good luck with it.

Answer 2

as long as you can stand with all his attention, i think that is normal for a guy who deeply in love with someone and wanna keep her forever his. tell him that you already grown up and know how to choose what's best and good for you. if you decide to break up, will you ready to lose all those huge cares ? you answer now babe

Answer 3

tell him he either needs to back off or everything between yooh 2 is over. tell him that the way hes acting he resembles your mom more than your bf. and that you don't need another parental figure in your life! 2 is enough!!!!

Answer 4

the best thing is to prolly break up. sorry ♥

Answer 5

Break up.