Ok, I've always fantasized about a threesome with my fiancee and another girl. It's always been just a fantasy, but after discussing it in the open with my fiancee, we are very interested now. We have even decided who we would like to have the threesome with, but we don't know if she does that. Actually, I would prefer for it to be her first time too because I don't want to feel like a "rookie" with a "pro". Should we just all hang out, party, and then I try to kiss her or something? I need advice please........has anyone done this before?
2007-05-31 07:25:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you are really considering this, you have to talk to her about it first. you'll need ground rules too. like, how will you feel if the two of them are making out in front of you, or if he releases due to her and not you... sounds crazy, but you might get hurt or offended if she pleases him better, or he might be upset if you give her too much attention... you're better off asking her if she's ever thought of it, if she seems open, ask her if she's interested, but make sure you and your fiance have already discussed everything so you can lay it out all at once.
this type of thing can make or break a relationship. good luck
2007-05-31 07:32:06 · answer #1 · answered by twosey ♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would give her a heads up and don't just start kissing her randomly, it might freak her out a bit. Start slower. Maybe bring up how she feels about threesomes first and get deeper and deeper into the topic until you feel good enough to tell her what you and your fiancee want to do. She might agree to do it, she might not. If she doesn't work out I suppose you can always hire someone. lol
Best of Luck.
2007-05-31 14:34:11 · answer #2 · answered by flutesp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask the party you are interested in. Have a good time with the 3 of you and just see what develops.
2007-05-31 14:31:12 · answer #3 · answered by Nothingusefullearnedinschool 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember as much as you think it is about you it is not it is always about the other two people. Your plan sounds good but I would bring the idea up in front of your friend while you are partying just in case she is agianst it and to give her heads up when you make your move so she knows what will be happening. Also as much as your fiance is into it make sure you give them equal attention.
2007-05-31 14:34:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds potentially messy and complicated and if she turns you down she's gonna feel creeped out and tell everyone. You're thinking about the sexual experimentation and not the consequences. If you really wanna do this, go on adult friend finder and have your fun with someone you won't see again.
2007-05-31 14:34:32 · answer #5 · answered by Sandy Sandals 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theirs nothing wrong with this fantasy and well i appluade you for telling you fiance the honest true that you have this before the big day there alot of people that share this and well find some one that is confortable to share this with you two .. and well ask .. and she if their bi because you girl has to be in this to
2007-05-31 14:33:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well fullfill ya'll fantacy cuz im guessing sooner or later it might just happen,i just hope this does not cause a break up in your relationship
good luck,and be careful
2007-05-31 14:38:30 · answer #7 · answered by treekgomon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest and open with her on what you guys want...... she will answer yes or no to the question.... then go from there....
2007-05-31 14:37:13 · answer #8 · answered by cruelgirl6915 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let your lady bring it up to her, if you try to put the moves on her, she will think you are a jerk and cheating. Worst case try using "ruffies"
2007-05-31 14:32:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have never done that, but your boyfriend is "One Lucky Bastard". lol
2007-05-31 14:30:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋