ok well this is what happend. i had cigg's in my room only 3 since janurary i didnt remember they were there but i know i was holding them for someone then the same day i skipped the last 2 hours of school because one of my friends that skipped with me said they dont care since u already lost your credits for missing so many days and we only have like 5 days left so the kid says they dont care now so i was stupid enough to go along with it and me and 3 other kids left and they called my dad and told him then my dad was in my room and found those cigg's so 2 huge things happend today and i havent talked to my dad yet i just know hes mad.. also i got a brother in the marines so hes pissed at me to. they princible said they dont want me back so i guess im expelled i dont know so today has sucked and my parents wont beilve that those ciggs arnt mine because they already think i smoke because of the kind of kids i hang out with any tips on what to say or anything cause they said continued
2007-05-31 07:22:50 · 14 answers · asked by Chris Webb 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
they said im gonna have a boring weekend since they said i cant do anything i think they will let me cause they arnt that strict but i dont know what should i do about his should i drop out or kill myself or what i dont know right now but i got use some tips or help.. thanks.
2007-05-31 07:24:05 · update #1
First, if those are your ciggs, apologize to your parents for having them and for lying about it and if you have been smoking, STOP now. It's an expensive, smelly, dirty hard-to-break habit (speaking from experinece). If they are not your ciggs, then try to make your parents understand why they are in your bedroom.
Second, skipping the last two hours of the school day during the last 5 days that are left might be OK for seniors who have already taken and passed their finals but certainly it is not something that a 15 year old should do.
Third, being expelled from school could mean that you end up without a proper education which lead to a "not so good" job and general unhappiness.
Finally, stop and look at where you are in your life and where you really want to end up. Make a plan, set some simple goals and JUST DO IT!
2007-05-31 08:47:55 · answer #1 · answered by Ollie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, w/ the school thing, dont drop out. Everyone that drops out of high school regrets it. Get ur A** in order n graduate. As for the ciggs, tell them to prove otherwise, eventually they will back down. One boring weekend dont mean ****, vs the future kicka** weekends. Suicide is not the answer. Droppin out is not the answer. Fight for your right to live n have a life. Let the cigg thing blow over n get that diploma
2007-05-31 07:33:30 · answer #2 · answered by Sick of F*ckwits 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you was wrong and you put yourself out there and now you have got to accept that your parents are only trying to help you and not hurt you if you are hanging out with the wrong kind of people believe me before long you will be doing the same things they are doing if you aren't already doing them. Come on now what are you doing with ciggs hid in your room?
2007-05-31 07:36:50 · answer #3 · answered by heavenlli_61 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will just take time...in a couple years-this will seem like small potatoes...and in the grand scheme of things, things could be a whole lot worse! Just be honest and talk with your parents...they will learn to believe in you and trust you. By the way, it's probably not a good idea to "hold" anything for anybody.
2007-05-31 07:30:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...seems all these problems were cause by the friends you have and your inablity to make decisions on you own without putting them before your own well being. Therefore...get new friends, or learn how to make your own choices regardless of what your friends say or think.
But definetly recognize that following along with your friends is what got you in this mess.
2007-05-31 07:28:57 · answer #5 · answered by Frank V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hunni - have you thought your mum might have a very valid reason for not having put him on the birth certificate?? You are 18 and grown to all intents and purposes - if this man would have wanted to be in your life he could have been but he ran - like alot of sperm doners do..... I understand your need, but I would say please relax, stop searching for a while and maturely examine your reasons for wanting someone your mother fought to keep out of your life back... ASK your mum what happened, maybe he beat her, wanted you terminating, or worse.... come to her as a mature young woman and not a distressed stamping teen - you are a young woman - time to be mature and ask the questions you need to of your mum in a calm and balanced way.
2016-04-01 07:21:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow i guess ths knda sucks. i guess u can try 2 plz them by doing sumthg around the house 4 them & @ least try 2 talk 2 ur dad. if u need to talk 2 sum1 u can IM me
2007-05-31 07:28:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the first thing is..quit feeling sorry for yourself!!pick your little butt up and talk to your parents...this is how we grow and learn sweetie....we make mistakes and choices..the thing is..if we learn by them..maybe theres a summer school ya ca attend to get backs ome grades..and if your parents ground ya for the weekend thn youve admitted you deserve it basially for ditching school... dont ever think about suicide dear..lolo..itll get better..your growing up and will make tons more mistakes along the way..but at least tlak to your parents and see if this doesnt help..also to th principle about summer school..and the main thing??get new friends...your the one getting punished ..their not..with friends like tat??who needs enemies??
good luck and heres a hug...
2007-05-31 07:29:27 · answer #8 · answered by bettym 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u told them those ciggs weren't urs, explain y u ditched school...ur being honest! take some punishment...do chores around the house! and dont' do it again!!!
2007-05-31 07:36:44 · answer #9 · answered by girlygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just explain agian what happened and from now on be on your best behaviour, show them that you're not like all your friends, and maybe find some better people to hang out with so you're parents will know you're not around bad influences..
2007-05-31 07:31:50 · answer #10 · answered by urstruly8604 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋