How do you get over someone you loved and gave you virginity to? I gave my ex-boyfriend my virginity and we broke up a month later and now i am having the hardest time getting over him please help me out¿
2007-05-31 07:15:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You will eventually get over him. The only good thing that's come out of this, it that now you know that until boys are real men and in their marriage years (mid twenties and older), sex is only a sport to them. Girls get intimate with their hearts and mind, men (especially boys) don't.
If you realize this with only one heartbreak, then you're WAY ahead of a lot of other girls. When a man is older and ready to be committed to a long term relationship, that's when sex will enhance things. This is EXACTLY why many women wait until they get married to have sex.
Recommit yourself to waiting until you're at least engaged before going this route again.
A man who loves a woman will not only wait for her, but will respect her standards. He will also appreciate that she didn't just hand it over to whomever.
2007-05-31 07:23:09 · answer #1 · answered by TJTB 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know its hard at first but within time you will surely get over him and later down the road you will think back and laugh about how foolish you were being upset about this guy. Besides he must not be that great of a guy if he took something special away from you (your womanhood) and a month later you guys broke up. Be patient and soon a new love will come your way and maybe you'll fall in love this new guy. =)
2007-05-31 07:21:47 · answer #2 · answered by Sweety Pie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i know what you mean i loved, absoloutly loved the guy i lost my virginity to, and about a year after all of that he went to jail, then came out and i was so happy, but then all of a sudden he became an asshole to me. well that was four years ago... and i still love him but i dont like him, if you truly love someone then you never stop loving them,.it only hurts when i think about him, but i hardley ever do so it will get better... just spend some time on you right now
2007-05-31 07:28:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time..it takes alot of time for you to heal. What doesn't kill will only make you stronger. Don't put yourself through extra pain by calling him excessively (not calling him at all is better). It will hurt so much if he ignores your call or if he's an a$$hole, when he do answer. When you get fully over him and reflect back, you're going to ask yourself what you saw in him anyways.
2007-05-31 07:27:17 · answer #4 · answered by Pretty Lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has a different approach, but usually keeping yourself involved is a good start. Mostly, keep doing your routine, what ever it is, but find more to do. If you have a friend or relative to confide in, do that.
Unfortunately, some people go to extremes, such as drinking, doing drubs, or becoming promiscuous.
If you belong to any kind of church, seek out your religious adviser.
Good luck!
2007-05-31 07:22:03 · answer #5 · answered by Nothingusefullearnedinschool 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-09 05:01:15 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time. Time heals all wounds. Eventually the pain will go away.
2007-05-31 07:17:40 · answer #7 · answered by jetskichick25 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It takes time, but eventually you will get over him. Good luck.
2007-05-31 07:26:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just try and move on... go to the mall with some of your friends and try and get over him... i understand where you are coming from that happened to me.... i went to the mall and now i am in love with this guy and it is all good!^_^
2007-05-31 07:21:58 · answer #9 · answered by tieu30thu 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you feel that way because it was your first time and some people want they first time to be special but it usually dont. i think you should delete him out of your mind.simple
2007-05-31 07:21:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋