Family & Relationships - 30 May 2007

I am putting this together for a friend of mine as a joke at her bridal shower. So far I have thought of Fruit rollups, syrup & Redi-whip. I'll be getting a really trashy nighty also. I would like to have more items. Many thanks!

2007-05-30 08:24:05 · 27 answers · asked by afriendofGod 2 in Weddings

I'm 38 with 2 teenages and a 4 year old. My daughter won't live with me because she say's she don't like my boyfriend. The 4 year really likes him. I miss my daughter but not working right now and my x gives me no child support! Move home with mom and dad or try to work it out with the x or stay with my boyfriend even if i'm not sure if i love him?!

2007-05-30 08:20:32 · 7 answers · asked by Deja Blue 2 in Singles & Dating

her husband constantly harps at her that he wants to be with her and another girl in the bed at the same time. My friend doesn't know what to think about her husband wanting to do this. Does it mean he isn't into her anymore? or she is too dull for him or what? Will he start liking the 2nd girl better than the wife if they do it once? Also, the husband doesnt know where to find a 2nd girl to put in there with him and her, its just always been a fantasy, so where would he even find someone to do that with him and her?? I have never thought about this situation, so I did not know what to tell her! Should my friend be mad at her husband for wanting this? Should my friend want to do this?? HELP??

2007-05-30 08:20:18 · 24 answers · asked by JJ 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My husbands father lives with us... my husband is very close to his father... well this happened this weekend... my husband left to work early saturday morning.... I never lock my bedroom door... well as i was sleeping my fil came in my bedroom lightly took of my top and started caressing.. kissing and s ucking my breasts.... but i liked it...cause hes hot!!! then he took my panties off and started giving me oral s e x!!! i liked it though... what should i do???

2007-05-30 08:19:38 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

a 4 year old girl when he was 14yrs old. they have been married for 15 years and have 4 children; ages 10, 7, 5 and 3. The mother went on a 3 day trip and caught him molesting the 7 year old. What do you think she should do?

2007-05-30 08:19:36 · 22 answers · asked by woptie 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been married f/ 6 years. We have a daughter. My husband never left me for any reason until his mother past away recently. She left him money (checks for $1,400 mo.), which he's receiving for the rest of his life. I was the sole provider for the last 2 yrs. Not my choice. As soon as he received the first lump sum of $10K several mo.'s ago, he walked out on us. He claimed we fought much. He sais he needed a change. We separated f/ about 1.5 mo.'s. We got back together, but he was worse than b4 in behavior, attitude, etc. He was mean, abusive, arrogant, boastful, selfish/greedy to the extreme & deceiving. He did things that landed him in jail . When he got out, he ended up in jail again for the same things. B4 going to jail, he commited adultery w/ a prostitute at a massage parlor. He's been out for a few months. Since then he's been remorseful - begging me to let him come back. He has a job now. He says he will do whatever it takes to make it work. What do you think I should do?

2007-05-30 08:17:50 · 9 answers · asked by metalgods 4 in Marriage & Divorce

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Alrighty-then. Sooo.
I've been single for awhile now.
And Ohmygod.
I hate it.
It makes me feel so lonely, sometimes.
Like no one cares.
I need help with this.
I believe.
I don't know what to do. Sometimes I get so depressed.
I don't know. ]]=

2007-05-30 08:17:35 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my crush found out that I thought he was cute..AND we have classes together..and in one of the class he walked by me and he would look down,he was suppose to give ME some papers , BUT he gave it to the person behind me. NOW THAT HE KNOWS i♥him, HE'S SHY AROUND ME....b/c before he would talk to me, and kind of hang out wit me. then he found out that i like him!!!!.I USE TO CATCH HIM LOOKING AT ME (and i would look at him and still wouldn't stop looking)AND these are some thing that have HAPPENED AFTER he knew i liked him,my CRUSH SAT ON ME, he lets me touch his arm, i try to walk by and he doesn't let me through and if i try to get through he'll stick his butt out STARES AT ME, askes me for help MOSt of the time and is always play fight with me i got his # and i've txted him and he never asked me how i got his # (a friend) BUT HE HAS A GIRLFRIEND and does he like me?I THINK HE DOESN'T BECAUSE HE'S KNOWN FOR ABOUT A MONTH NOW!!!!and hasn't MADE A MOVE YET?

2007-05-30 08:16:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

please give decent suggestions i would appreciate it..

2007-05-30 08:13:43 · 32 answers · asked by SenSored 2 in Family

well how can a wife make sure that her husband wont cheat on her?in other words...how she should act to prevent her husband from cheating?is this possible?

2007-05-30 08:12:08 · 72 answers · asked by caramella 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my husband and i seperated after him cheating and getting someone pregnant i left him and moved 2000 miles away he moved down here so we could try to make it work for the kids but i see that i can not move past this i have a friend who is a guy we have talked about pursuing a relationship but my husband says if i do he is moving home and i dont want my kids to lose there father any advice?

2007-05-30 08:05:19 · 26 answers · asked by hcj25 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i've been married for a little over 2 years and i might be confused but i dont think i'm attracted to my husband anymore. i never want to have sex with him. but i do sometimes because i'm afraid he will cheat on me. i love him very much. how do i make myself attracted myself to him again?

2007-05-30 08:04:59 · 13 answers · asked by wantoknow 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 15 and my cousin is 9. Why does my mom have a big issue with me hanging out with her sometimes. Sometimes I like to sit down with her in the dark and tell her ghost stories. She loves hearing my ghost stories and I scare the bejeezus out of her. Hahahahaha! She is a girl and I also have another girl cousin around my age who is 13 and sometimes we play bingo and stuff. My mom will be like, 'why don't you play with Aaron?' Aaron is there brother, my boy cousin. I mean, I hope my mom doesn't have such a sick mind as to think her own child would commit incest. What other reason is there? She hit the ceiling last week just because she saw me and Alicia hanging out. Alicia always begs me to tell her ghost stories and stuff or just play other games and have fun. I also like playing with my other cousin, Andrea. I just like playing with Aaron less because the only thing he likes to do is watch boring movies and play boring video games.

2007-05-30 08:02:21 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have been married for 4 years. Last year, my husband was caught having an 8 mos affair w/my cousin. The relationship w/her and I is over for good. I tried working on my marriage, until Monday. I opened his creditcard bill and saw that he has been renting hotel rooms, on weekdays. He said he put it in his name for somebody, then I went to the hotel for a print out and saw that he paid cash in March, and credit in April. Then on back in Feb. Now he is pissed at me and said I shouldn't have went through his mail, and to grow up and it's a shame he can't have privacy in his home. So we both agreed to end our marriage, and for him to move out. Then he asked me to give him $1,000 to help him move out. I told him H*ll no, he is leaving me with 3 kids, and no job (stay at home mom). I did everything, and gave him freedom. He said he is grown and can do what he wants on his free time, and that he does not owe me an explanation for anything b/c I should have never went thru his mail

2007-05-30 08:02:07 · 22 answers · asked by sassy lady 4 in Marriage & Divorce

We got married in July 2006 and were happily married until October 8th 2006 when he came home late and said he wanted a divorce. It took me by complete surprise but after some time and healing we are friends. I would like to remain friends but we would also like to get this divorce finalized so we can get on with our own lives.

2007-05-30 08:00:48 · 2 answers · asked by psychoticxleo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My step dad is always putting me down. I have a really close friend and I we say I love ya, but we mean it like sisters. So my step dad in turn always is calling me a lesbian and stuff. I tell my mon about it but she just says he's joking. I don't take it as a joke because my sister is a lesbian and it really bugs me. We don't have a good relationship as father daughter already and he just makes it worse.

2007-05-30 07:56:28 · 15 answers · asked by DJ 1 in Family

He is turning 17 and says he doens't want anything but to spend the day with me...well we have been together 2 and 1/2 years....just to let you know....and i was going to get him a necklace but his mom bought him one....so any idea's what i should get him??

2007-05-30 07:55:02 · 5 answers · asked by Leila 2 in Singles & Dating

I had a family party and did not invite him. I just did not feel comfortable with having him in my house, around my kids and the kids of my guests. Was this wrong, or should I have invited him anyway? I feel bad because it seemed to have bothered my aunt & uncle (though I had already told my aunt how I felt several weeks ago and she totally understood and was ok with it).

2007-05-30 07:54:19 · 9 answers · asked by julesl68 5 in Family

Do you find stretch marks unatractive? They aren't too bad, and they are just from growing up. I'm not fat or anything (not super skinny either), but do you consider it unatractive?

2007-05-30 07:52:57 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

but it's been almost 2 yrs that I've had s e x. should I plan the night, the whole candle and romance thing or should I just let things happen? If I hadn't stopped him the last time, we would have done it in his car....

2007-05-30 07:51:06 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

would you have kids again?

2007-05-30 07:50:32 · 10 answers · asked by girl24gr 3 in Family

my friends cant stand eating in frount of guys. y? if im hungery i eat in front of ne1. is that wrong?

2007-05-30 07:47:34 · 33 answers · asked by ~*PiRaTeQuEeN*~ 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been married for 1 1/2 years to my wife. She is currently pregnant the baby is due in July and she has a daughter from a previous marriage that is 7. For about 1 year now i have been dealing with my wife's verbal abuse toward me and my family. She thinks we are all alcoholics cause we enjoy drinking on occasion. My wife calls my mother and father drunks and iresponsible along with me. SHe yells at the top of her lungs in front of her daughter and cusses like a salior, down grading me and my family. Last night i came home from work and got me a glass of wine. 5 minutes later she starts her yelling and slaps me good and hard across the face. Now all this happens in front of her daughter.
This is not the first time this has happened. Only 5 days ago she pulled the same thing in the car.
What do i do... i dont want to be around her and i am tired of walking on egg shells worried when she is going to go off.
Now i know this is not a good enviroment for her daughter.

2007-05-30 07:46:39 · 17 answers · asked by bigsaltydog11505 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I have been together for about 1.5 years. He's the best boyfriend I've had in some ways and the worst in other ways. He's always respectful, never calls me names or curses at me, even when we argue. He pays for everything, opens doors and caters to me all the time. He gives me space when I need it and he's extremely understanding. He's a gentleman in almost every way and he loves me very much. He sounds like a dream man to have but...occasionally, he's cheated. I'm so confused. I've had boyfriends who have never cheated but treated me like crap in almost every other way.

My question is, is there an explanation for that kind of behavior? Any at all? Treats me with the utmost respect...wants to kill anyone who hurts or upsets me...wants to give me the world and start a life together, can provide a good and stable life for me...but has cheated and of course it's possible he will cheat again.

Is it worth it? Has anyone here experienced this?

2007-05-30 07:43:38 · 20 answers · asked by Me baby Me 3 in Singles & Dating

All the questions are about women who have children and their boyfriend doesn't want to get married now. Why are all these kids getting pregnant and THEN wanting to get married? What have I missed? Better yet, what have these kids missed?

2007-05-30 07:43:34 · 21 answers · asked by lady 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I live bymyself I have a girlfriend I have a job but my family is piss broke all the time my other 6 brothers and sisters are starving ,always calling me they they get a check from ssi retirement fund but they have no good money management skills so they call and call and it makes me sad ! My mom refuses to cook and my dad never helps out they wont leave me alone and they will make me feel bad for not bringing them a pizza everyday!! They call me an ********e brother for not helping them out while Im working my butt off to pay my own bills should I worry???

2007-05-30 07:40:40 · 9 answers · asked by harlingenguy_2000 1 in Family

Please can I have peoples honest opinions. I am currently separated with my husband. There is a shy man at work who I have caught looking at me and smiling at me. We have joke emailed each other before but no all the time. He speaks to me when I am alone and this has increase of late. He is nervous when he speaks to me and ask if I am still going to a concert with my friend as he might go to that concert too. Today he was speaking to me and ask how I said well you how it is and how are you. He ask me not the change the subject and asked again. I told him I might getting a D and he said well you have not been married long, I guess you rush into things to soon. I was a bit gobsmacked as he does not usually say much. He then said Well have to nothing else to tell me?? I did not really understand! He also said before that that he has no one to speak to about bikes so he has to lend me a bike mag so I can learn. What do you all think - Bear in mind I really really like him alot.

2007-05-30 07:40:27 · 5 answers · asked by KT 3 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend was on vacation for 2 weeks and now hes home. I saw him 2 nights ago at our work and he seemed really happy to see me but didnt say anything about calling. He didnt call yesterday and hasnt so far today. I'm worried...whats wrong? Its not like we are exclusive so if he did something while away he shouldnt be feeling guilty

2007-05-30 07:39:49 · 23 answers · asked by mike 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been dating this guy. He is great and I think we have chemistry. Anyway, this past thursday I have had my wisdom teeth removed (all four) and I have been resting since than...anyway, he never called me but have text me frequently. Usually at night after 12:30 or so..Anyhow, he is a very active and outgoing guy, has many friends and whatnot..and last night he called me since I feel better now I text him i wanted to hang out about today..so we were on the phone talking and he said one of his friends was having a bbq and pool party, and that we can go. I told him that I had my period so i won't be able to swim. So he brings the party up and wants me to go than after I said that he was like than what can we do?..etc than we talked about other things and he came back on the subject and asked me if "I was invited to this party?" and I said no i am not and he tells me than how are you going to go? I was really upset that he would say that bc why bring it up if i cant go right

2007-05-30 07:39:36 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My close friend whom I met towards the last of last year, is currently dating the guy that I've had a serious crush on for 2 years. He knew I liked him, and so did she. But in october or so, some things started happening with him and his ex, and my close friend just happened to be there for him. He suffered a lot, and she was the one who was there to pick him up from the floor. I have always been there, but in those months following, it seemed I was pushed out into the cold, and she was the only one he cared for.
He's led me on, and she started dating him officially some time in Febuary or so...

She and I have talked about the events and all, And I had a chance to get out most of what I've been feeling.

But I still have all of this anger and hurt built up, and I don't know how to deal with it, or get rid of it.
Any suggestions?

2007-05-30 07:38:45 · 14 answers · asked by AshAhLee 2 in Singles & Dating