Please can I have peoples honest opinions. I am currently separated with my husband. There is a shy man at work who I have caught looking at me and smiling at me. We have joke emailed each other before but no all the time. He speaks to me when I am alone and this has increase of late. He is nervous when he speaks to me and ask if I am still going to a concert with my friend as he might go to that concert too. Today he was speaking to me and ask how I said well you how it is and how are you. He ask me not the change the subject and asked again. I told him I might getting a D and he said well you have not been married long, I guess you rush into things to soon. I was a bit gobsmacked as he does not usually say much. He then said Well have to nothing else to tell me?? I did not really understand! He also said before that that he has no one to speak to about bikes so he has to lend me a bike mag so I can learn. What do you all think - Bear in mind I really really like him alot.
2007-05-30 07:40:27 · 5 answers · asked by KT 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, if you like him then go for it!
You do not need my permission for you to start dating him, it is all how you feel about him in your heart and in your soul, if your mind is telling you to go for it, then go for it.
If it feels right to you, then I would say go for it!
He sounds really nice and he sounds like he has a lot of respect for you, and it is hard for women to find a man who has respect for women.
The men are out there, but they are rare!
I have been married to mine for fifteen years and he is one in a million!
2007-05-30 07:51:37 · answer #1 · answered by carriegreen13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's obvious this man is really trying to get your attention. Why not ask him to go for a cup of tea or coffee after work. Read the bike mag and then ask him some questions. This will give him something to talk about and he will feel more sure of himself. After that, continue to smile at him and say a few words at work and see what comes of it. Don't rush him, but help him get to feel more sure of himself and comfortable about you. In time, you will have the answer to your question.
2007-05-30 07:48:57 · answer #2 · answered by Elaine P...is for Poetry 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
whats up--u already comprehend the version----see friendship never relies upon on what's the intercourse of the pal.Can any lady be greater advantageous than a pal for u??NO! basically tell him what u experience--if he says he does not like u--then basically tell him what made u think of like that. so hassle-free as that---and a secret study from me at present---"There can't be greater advantageous than friendship between a guy and a woman"---It must be emotional attachment no count if it somewhat is greater advantageous than basically friendship. once you tell frankly what u experience--then this greater advantageous than friendship gets a recognition and popularity in any different case it keeps to be as a misery many of the time---yet one element is for particular---it is not a friendship.
2016-10-30 05:46:17 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, I don't believe you should be dating until you are a divorced woman.
However, I have always been the shy type and some of my relationships would not have started if the women would not have asserted themselves and took some initiative w/o fear of my rejecting them.
2007-05-30 07:56:38 · answer #4 · answered by Michelangelo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shy people can say the meanest things. I was shy once and when I did say something, it was always mean.
2007-05-30 07:48:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋