Family & Relationships - 30 May 2007

I'm having a debate with a female buddy of mine about this. Should a guy call back first after a first date or should a girl? Also, for the girls, do you take it as a sign of non-interest if a guy doesn't call back after a first date?

2007-05-30 06:01:18 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just got engaged and have started to think about my wedding, I seen a dress on line that I LOVED and it has some red in it, so I was thinking that the colors could be red and white...What do you think?

Also I need some help with planning and the decorations, pictures, all that good stuff. I found some magnets I want to get that you can personalize with the name and date but other than that I don't know. Anyone who has had to go through wedding planning before HELP please. I'm in this pretty much alone, no one has time to help and I don't know where to start or what to do first....

I want to have a wedding everyone will remember and that will make me happy but I don't have a lot of money or time to do it all....what can I do?

ANY IDEAS WOULD BE GREATLY APPRECIATED! THANKS...

2007-05-30 06:01:05 · 18 answers · asked by ~VampirePrincess~ 2 in Weddings

A woman works 5 days a week and brings home a paycheck. Her spouse does all house chores, the food shopping, all cooking and cleaning. Is this an inequitable relationship because the woman's spouse doesn't bring home a paycheck?

2007-05-30 05:58:48 · 19 answers · asked by What I Say 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Is this a blatent snub to my partner - we have been together for 3 years and they have met him several times!!!

2007-05-30 05:58:27 · 59 answers · asked by killakellers 1 in Weddings

OK my wonderful byf of 8 mo has a bit of a jealous streak. It is in no way out of control and he's very good about it. I never realized it because I never really had a very healthy relationship before, but I have a jealous streak as well. A few nights back, we went out together with some friends, he doesn't ignore me and he's okay with subtle signs of PDA & me too - nothing overboard. ANyways as we were leaving he ran into this woman he usto know and was chatting for about ten minutes and did not introduce me. I am sure that this woman is no threat at all & I am very confident in his love for me, but do men really do this. I was pretty jealous that he did not even introduce me to her & this is the first time it's happened, but I was surprised that I would feel this way & I don't know how to explain it or tell him how it made me feel, he knew I was jealous because I grabbed his hand and gave him a tug - so he knew, but whats up with it?

2007-05-30 05:56:17 · 9 answers · asked by martiek7 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been in several weddings and I am about to become the bride. I have always heard people stress not to lock your knees or you will pass out. I have seen people pass out at weddings but I was wondering if anybody knew if locking your knees can make you pass out and if so why????

2007-05-30 05:53:57 · 12 answers · asked by Sarah G 3 in Weddings

I have recently lost 100lbs and I want to ask a guy out. I know he wasn't interested in me with the weight on, but I was wondering if you people think I have a chance now... or will he always see me was fat?

2007-05-30 05:49:22 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I went out to drink last night with some of his friends. After a few drinks we left to go to eat to a nearby place. Once there, I didn't want the food I ordered but his friends fruit plate started looking really yummy. So I ate out of his plate. When we got home, my hubby was pretty ticked off about what I did. He said eating off another man's plate was a slap on the face for him. What is up with that? Should I apologize? But about what?

2007-05-30 05:44:13 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i am helping my friend plan her wedding an we dont no what colour to have her bridesmaids, her husband 2b is wearing a redish kilt so ne ideas plz.

2007-05-30 05:43:40 · 24 answers · asked by hol b 2 in Weddings

I have a crush with a boy from ny classroom. I have no confidence and i'm really shy. He talk to me , he has made lots of copliments about my clothes and my appearence but he sometimes ignore me and he just say a hi. He joke all the time with lots of girls... I know that months before he ask another girl out but she said no. Does he likes me ? What i should do ? I want him so much. I'm afraid to express my feelings and he will reject me ? Why things are n't obvious ? He has made me feel that i'm not good enough for him !!!

2007-05-30 05:41:33 · 5 answers · asked by ....................... 7 in Singles & Dating

for the local Goat!?!?!?!?!?!?! lol

2007-05-30 05:40:04 · 15 answers · asked by shafer 1 in Singles & Dating

I was with my ex for 6 years, lived together 4 of those, and married about 9 months of those, no kids. Its been a year since the Divorce, but she was the one who cheated and left and I still miss and love her, is that normal? How long will it take to get past it, I date alot, but it doesn't help....

2007-05-30 05:39:35 · 15 answers · asked by Mfred 1 in Marriage & Divorce

weekly

2007-05-30 05:36:52 · 9 answers · asked by J S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My twin sister put me on 3-way with a dating line on the phone. I was nervous as hell!

2007-05-30 05:34:04 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have a cousin.. [she is like my fathers , sisters daughter....]
and she is not even 16 like my age and all.. like we are almost 16..... she is studying in a far away school doing 11th standard....

and now she is like drinking.. and smoking. and somtimes watching porn and some stuff and all.. like kissing and all...

so she told me this.. and im like the only 1 she told excluding her friends in her school.. and they also do the same thing.. so i want to get her out of trouble...

pleasehelp me what to do..???

i dont want her to get all drug addicted and all..

2007-05-30 05:31:19 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

this is the 2nd freaking time he told me he is gonna meet up with me. First time I had to give him some school work, this time he was supposed to give me stuff for work. Both times he called me about 20 minutes after the meeting was supposed to take place, and said he was partying at night and just woke up. First time it was raining like hell, and today its sunny as hell and I waited like a total tool both times. What proper word can I call him to make my true feelings known?

2007-05-30 05:30:38 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Which type do you prefer ? Please be honest.
On a girl -

Thin or thick thighs?
Stick thin or toned arms?
Wavy or straight hair?
Long or short hair?
blondes or brunettes?
Yellowish or blue eyes?
Tattoo, peircing, or none?

These are some questions us girls have for you guys.
You dont have to answer them all but the more answers the better!

:)

2007-05-30 05:30:16 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-30 05:29:05 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Have you seen some close calls ?? or bad judgements ?? while cell phone users where driving ??

It is getting more popular every day to talk & drive.
Our safety is at risk.
I am fed up with the way the ones on the phones are driving.
Paying more attention to the phone then the rules of the road.
I use a cell phone, but not while I am driving.

2007-05-30 05:28:52 · 15 answers · asked by Jill ❤'s U.S.A 7 in Family

this morning i clearly i told him i had class at 10 o'clock (not unusual since i been in class since april 30). anyways he said ok while i am in the tub he leaves at 9:40 to drop one of his friends off. so i left and walked. then he shows up when i am about 5 minutes away offering me a ride. i did not get in i just walked.

this is not the first time he did this. did i over react? was i wrong? explain your reasoning please.

thank you.

2007-05-30 05:27:47 · 14 answers · asked by Blessed and Happy 5 in Singles & Dating

we have been together for four and a half years. live with him up to his time of death for two years. had a open , fun relationship that most yong people dont have . he literally spoils me.his mother fills most of the gap but i cant get over him, she really loves me. i still ives with her & im in our room.

2007-05-30 05:27:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-05-30 05:27:18 · 3 answers · asked by Twilight 1 in Weddings

while they had a meal at a close by restaurant. Has anyone actually told them that is really irresponsible. They are celebs now and their little girl is missing becuase of their incompetance.

2007-05-30 05:26:56 · 40 answers · asked by Claire 2 in Family

Do most women really want to wait until marriage but struggle under the social pressures to have sex?

2007-05-30 05:26:44 · 7 answers · asked by xjmtax 2 in Singles & Dating

hey>>>>>

2007-05-30 05:25:25 · 47 answers · asked by Iris 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-30 05:24:41 · 32 answers · asked by FINI 1 in Singles & Dating

I am about half a head taller than my husband without wearing heels. Most of the time i wear flat shoes, but i like wearing heels every so often. My in-laws are "small people" and i sometimes feel like a giant, but most of the time i don't care. I am about 5'8. How does other people see a couple like us ?

2007-05-30 05:23:55 · 9 answers · asked by Skariani 2 in Singles & Dating

i always right lol cuz i always see other people doing
written it what does it mean?

2007-05-30 05:22:56 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My new roommate is a beautiful and intelligent woman, with a great job and a great personality. Everything I've learned so far makes me think we're very compatible. We are sharing a house, just the 2 of us. We also both just got out of long relationships (hers more recently). Do I let her know I like her or play it cool since I have to live with her?

2007-05-30 05:19:13 · 8 answers · asked by TheEconomist 4 in Singles & Dating

Okay so everything is planned and we are getting married in July. We are having it in my dads backyard, its going to be all Hawaiian themed and just like a big barbeque. Well, we have one problem, my dads wife has a son that has 2 little kids. About 4 years old and 2 1/2 years old. They are horrible kids and they are very destructive! They have no discipline, and are still in diapers!! I had initially said, no kids allowed at the wedding! Well last night, my dad and his wife were making out the invitations, and she mentioned the kids. My dad said that we didnt want any kids and his wife went postal! In the end she pretty much said ' if you dont invite my grandkids, not only are my kids not going, well neither am i.. AND i dont want to be married to you anymore!' Well this is MY wedding, why is she doing this?!? So... i told my dad today.. fine, we will just go to the Justice of the Peace and get married with no ceremony... What do you think the right thing is to do?

2007-05-30 05:17:45 · 27 answers · asked by afireinsidexxx77 3 in Weddings