Family & Relationships - 30 May 2007

OK, This girl that I have known for 4 years tells me on Y!IM that she likes me, I dont know what kind of things to say or ask, becuase i like her back. Can anyone help me please?

2007-05-30 07:37:25 · 14 answers · asked by Dizzle Doo 1 in Singles & Dating

i don't have much money to pay for the lawyer, is there a place that i can just go and settle a fixed child support with him?

2007-05-30 07:36:55 · 14 answers · asked by cathy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

that you do not want a relationship w/him until he has all his stuff settled and he is off the rebound. He recently went through a divorce and I do not want to be his rebound, no matter how much I care about him and have known him for years. I want something serious and am smart enough to know that he isn't ready for that right now, but I know he is interested in me. I told him to give me a ring whenever he has kicked it, gotten everything out of his system, enjoyed the single male life, and got off the rebound. If he's happy, he's happy, and I am happy for him, but if he later down the road finds himself still thinking about me, I want him to call. Somehow this made me feel better b/c I do care about him, but was I wrong for telling the man this and letting him go just like that? Should I have handled this differently? I know that he has lots of qualities that I look for in a man, and that I would love to give it a shot, just not at this time.

2007-05-30 07:35:57 · 16 answers · asked by callie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am going through a divorce and have a 2 month old. By law his father cannot take him overnight until he is three. But does that mean that he can only visit him at my home by law or does that mean he has the right to pick him up for a few hours and bring him back?

2007-05-30 07:33:29 · 9 answers · asked by Adi 1 in Marriage & Divorce

es how expensive a cafe you go to. Also, is it polite to ask on a first date to see medical records to see if date has any diseases of any type, or do you wait for second date for that kind of personal information?

2007-05-30 07:32:36 · 34 answers · asked by victorschool1 5 in Singles & Dating

I'll just text, "not working out with us so it's over. Good luck with ur next date". Is that ok or harsh?

2007-05-30 07:32:10 · 26 answers · asked by JuDyLicious 3 in Singles & Dating

From watching tv and reading magazines it seems like EVERYBODY has or had a bf or gf in HS. Is there some people that started dating after HS? Is that okay to start dating after HS?

2007-05-30 07:31:21 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

were underage and we were caught druk by the school. my firend lied and made up a story. but i couldnt and told the truth. we have a meeting now and i dont want himt o be caught in the lie but at the same time i dont want it to seem liek i was the one lying.

2007-05-30 07:30:49 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I believe it should be more difficult to get married and easy to get a divorce. Right now its easy to get married and hard to get divorced. At least if it is hard to get married by the time two people are ready to make that decision they should have found out one of two things: 1) I should not marry this person for whatever reason. 2) I still want to marry this person.

2007-05-30 07:30:16 · 23 answers · asked by soulsearcherofthetruth 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Spent 7 years being part of a couple, have been single now for 8 months with the odd casual thing inbetween. Love the freedom of being single however, I have met someone who I would like to commit to... but I think I come across too carefree and independent!! Advice?

2007-05-30 07:28:41 · 4 answers · asked by Eileen M 1 in Singles & Dating

well, last night I went out with a friend of mine, we went to an art show, then we stop to a restaurant. We were enjoying everything 'til the waiter come to take our orders, he ordered, so did I, I ordered some stuff a grilled fish and I said "no spices''. When the waiter left, he started to look at me in a different way, I could tell it was a strange and weird, and I asked what was wrong. He said "I" speaking of me was the problem. I again asked how, and he asked me why am I acting so "white", and started to list everything that he thinks was wrong me saying: why don't I dance raggae or hip-hop but tango or merengue, why don't I like the rain, but the snow, or why don't I like nissan but volkswagen, so many other stuff.

my question is that ; what are the things that are reserved to the white people?

2007-05-30 07:28:28 · 4 answers · asked by Melissa 2 in Singles & Dating

men or women?

2007-05-30 07:28:25 · 11 answers · asked by memyslf&I 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My Mother Died about 12 weeks ago. We were pretty close. Lately I have been struggling to find out what this all means. Why the hell are we here and what are we supposed to be doing?

2007-05-30 07:28:25 · 4 answers · asked by johnny cal 2 in Friends

Is life worth living? Sometimes, I feel like my life is not worth living, and Im just wasting my time. Im not really happy and dissapointed in the life that I'm leading. Does anybody feel the same?

2007-05-30 07:28:16 · 4 answers · asked by shaul 2 in Singles & Dating

What is the best way to tell my best friend (26) of three years that I (25) am in love with him? I was with another man when we first met and that set us in a just friends pattern that I don't know how to break. I have been single for almost two years and he has not been with anyone the entire time I've known him.

2007-05-30 07:27:24 · 15 answers · asked by blindedbyred 2 in Singles & Dating

My friend who i've known since we were in highschool just broke up with her boyfriend and she might be flirting with me or just delusinal from the devestationm of loseing her boyfriend although she isn't exactly sad. She has been makeing alot more physical contact with me. And I kind of have feelings for her but i'm not sure if she has the same thing and i just can't handle rejection. she isn't exactly as beutiful as a princess but she isn't ugly either but I think she's just absoutly gorgeous and I have a good job since i graduated and got my masters. Is she flirting with me or just trying to get a shoulder to cry on.

2007-05-30 07:25:08 · 1 answers · asked by j.r. 3 in Singles & Dating

We were friends,we also kissed one night at his house,we had a fight and have not spoken for 3 months I am still in love with him and really miss him...and it gets worse we also had a business relationship at one time and he is one of my husbands friends...but for some reason ever sense we had a fight he has nothing to do with my husband????

2007-05-30 07:24:07 · 23 answers · asked by Sarah 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 14, 8 months ago I went through a bad phase. Bad crowd, I got disrespectful, fough ta alot w/ my lil bro. I regretted and apologized sincerely, but I got a harsh punsihment and for some months especially my mom tortured me emotionally, showing she didn't trust me though I had apologized and showed that had been just a bad phase, They didn't act like parents, showed they didn't love me. I got very sad and depressed, even has suicide thoughts. Fortunately some people , especially my grandma helped me, showed trust and understood me. She could convince them to let me live w/ her from July on and I was very happy about this. But now my parents came up w/ the bad idea we should try family therapy to fix our relationship. They decided against my will and I have no choice. What can I expect from it? I'm afraid the teherapist will be against me. I think a fair condition for me to cooperate is the therapist don't say anything I don't want to hear. This should be a contract.

2007-05-30 07:21:17 · 5 answers · asked by Mariah 1 in Family

My ex bf said I was pretty and thats it nothing more.. then he said that he wants someone gorgous... and that why he cheated on me... and the girl he is with isnt gorgeous.. shes just prettty but thats it.. with a dot and nothing more at least im my eyes... anywyas my question is Are there degrees of prettiness?? like can you be pretty but then a little bit ugly.. or can you be pretty but average.. or pretty but just pretty... or pretty and goregous... Like i dont get it... is there more to pretty then just a pretty face.. what makes someone prettier then just pretty.. Im soo confused... adivise plz? or share your experience

2007-05-30 07:20:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-30 07:20:28 · 1 answers · asked by stanley b 1 in Singles & Dating

My boss was hit by a car yesterday and everyone from the office is signing a card for him. Need to think of something other than get well soon. He & his wife are great to work for. Thanks for your suggestions.

2007-05-30 07:18:47 · 9 answers · asked by tjmoore83102 2 in Friends

In our society, sexuality is platered all over the news and advertising, almost everywhere you look or listen its there, so why are the men and women who enjoy porn being bashed for it. I personally enjoy watching porn and am turned on by certain scenes I see...

2007-05-30 07:14:34 · 23 answers · asked by Aware 2 in Singles & Dating

What makes a woman think she can use her children as a weapon to hurt their father? I have a child from a previous relationship and no matter how much I hate his father, I have never used my child as a weapon. As long as the father was doing well in his life and was able to take care of my son, he had every chance to see him. Now on the flip side, i have two step-sons and their mother uses them in EVERY way possible to hurt my husband. They had problems and went their seperate ways, meaning, he left her. He didn't feel it was a good environment for the kids to hear the fighting or feel the tension between them. And it is all stupid stuff, like if they want their hair cut like dads, or an earring or basically anything they want to do to be like their dad, she degrades and says it is stupid or they don't want to look or act like him. (He pays his child support, has never been in trouble and is a very, very good father) She tries to take every shred of their father away from him

2007-05-30 07:12:29 · 10 answers · asked by livin'life 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-30 07:07:36 · 13 answers · asked by TooHot4Ya 1 in Singles & Dating

Please explain to me why men in relationships want 3somes, will this help bring a couple closer together?

2007-05-30 07:07:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-30 07:05:19 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I AM A SPORTS TRAINING @ A LOCAL COLLEGE AND I AM ATTRACTED TO ONE OF THE STUDENT ATHLETES THAT I TRAIN. HE COMES IN EVERY DAY N I TRAIN HE MAKE SURE EVERYTHINGS ALRIGHT. THEN HE GOES AND TAKES A SHOWER AND COMES OUT IN A SMALL *** TOWEL. HE HAS A NICE ***, NO GIRLFRIEND, AND A GREAT APARTMENT. I WANT TO GO FOR IT BUT I DONT WANT TO BE SHOT DOWN!

2007-05-30 07:04:24 · 1 answers · asked by Andre L 1 in Singles & Dating

i already told this guy to stop and end his love for me..because we can only be friends..although we go out and and talk sometime and text each other..it doesn't mean i already love him..i always try to bring my friends whenever his asking me to go out..but he makes some alibi not to bring my friends..

we stopped seeing each other for a year and half..but his not giving up..i mean..he knows everything about me..all the things that happened to me the time we didn't see and talk..it creepy..!What pisses me is that i also told my family that he wants to marry me..!

his also asking for a second chance but i told him no more and never.,.but his still insisting..!..i already ignore him, told him that i dont love him, almost anything..but i dont want to be rude with him..

can somebody give me an idea/comment/suggestions what to do with this guy?

2007-05-30 07:02:49 · 24 answers · asked by kaye 1 in Singles & Dating

I want a child, she doesn't. I want to feel adored, if not by her, by a son or a daughter. If she adored me, I wouldn't care about being a dad. How do I get over this?

2007-05-30 07:01:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-30 07:00:36 · 37 answers · asked by bust15nutz 3 in Marriage & Divorce