Family & Relationships - 30 May 2007

I have a Mother in law who is always in our buisness. And telling me stuff shes very insistant and demanding Lately shes been just showing up at our house without calling and yesterday she showed up all pissed off because we turn our ringer off when we dont want to be bothered so the minute I open the door she tells me in a mean voice" I called and since you dont pick up I had to come I know you are probably mad but Oh well!" and she wanted to take my son. I was upset but I told my husband to please talk to her it was drama he nicely told her to please call next time and she flipped supposedly she was missing for 12 hrs because she felt so offended. Shes always doing opposite of what I say with my 6 month old son she wants to feed him 2 jars of baby food and 3 ounces of milk in one feeding I cant take it anymore Ive talked to her its usless the other day she told me that my son looks like my other kids dad when he looks exactly like her son and you think I didnt feel upset HELP!!

2007-05-30 20:57:58 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-05-30 20:51:58 · 24 answers · asked by chatterboxrools 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-30 20:37:48 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I've been having a feeling that my husband is cheating. I couldn't investigate on my own because I'm not that sneaky. Should I go on that tv show or just leave it alone?

2007-05-30 20:26:30 · 13 answers · asked by JuDyLicious 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-30 20:22:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Please suggest.

We got married one year back. We both are Hindu. For the last few days I have noticed one strange thing. He started keeping his foreskin always pulled back (i.e his head is exposed all the times). When I asked he told he feels good with it.

I am curious to know whether it is normal. Will there be any side effects of his new habits.


WHAT ARE BENEFITS OF KEEPING FORESKIN ALWAYS PULLED BACK?

Thanks

2007-05-30 20:08:58 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My dad doesn't put me down directly but with subtlety. I think he's trying to make me be a better man. Is this typical in most dads?

2007-05-30 19:55:34 · 13 answers · asked by Fancelll79 2 in Family

My bf has had his share of relationships whereas this is my second one. He wants me to let go of some of my ways. I've been trying but I haven't grasped the concept yet. Am I making excuses if I told him that I thought that I should be single so that i could get myself together? That maybe I wasn't ready to let go of my ways just yet because to me it's a part of who I am or I haven't had the opportunity to experience certain things for myself and learn from them. I hope that wasn't too confusing. THANKS!

2007-05-30 19:51:58 · 17 answers · asked by Tan H 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband is in Iraq and I am staying with my MIL. I tried opening my mail on her computer and accidently logged onto my husbands as a password was saved. I was confused as I was looking and realized that it was his email and there was a letter to a woman and he had writter back while he was deployed. He signed it as "Love". I don't know what to do? Do I wait til he calls.. file for divorce? please help!

2007-05-30 19:40:35 · 31 answers · asked by Elizabeth B 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband of 10 years made plans for a 2nd honeymoon for us. I thought it was sweet of him...at first. He made reservations at a hotel, and got flowers delivered to the room. When we arrived at the hotel, he went in to check us in, and took our luggage up to the room while he had me wait in the car with a blindfold on..because he had a surprise waiting in the room for me. He lead me to the hotel room. As soon as we entered the room, he told me to keep the blindfold on, and that he couldn't wait to make love with me. So he started to undress me, which I thought was really sexy-like the way he did it. I still had the blindfold on.....and he said he wanted me to keep it on the whole time, so I was surprised with each one of his moves. I agreed to it. After making love he took the blindfold off of me...and the surprise was 4 other men in the room VIDEO TAPING US! They played the video for me, at one point my hubby had the camera and one of the other guys was with me! YIKES!

2007-05-30 19:34:18 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

what skills do guys use to get a girl or to flirt with her?

2007-05-30 19:33:18 · 6 answers · asked by bbyboy759 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-30 19:32:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-30 19:27:48 · 3 answers · asked by sonu 1 in Friends

We are both 22yrs old and have been together for 5 years now. We both want to wait to get married once we are totally done with school and can put some money down on a house. But at the moment he lives 5 min away from me. I find myself staying over there 5-6 out of 7 nights a week and constantly running back and forth between his place and mine. It's become annoying because he works from home a lot and when he's working I have nothing to do there so I end up driving home for a few hours only to go back over when he's done. I have clothes/food/tolietries in both places..some things that I don't want to have to buy 2 of I have to cart around with me constantly....So on top of the need to move forward to the next logical step in the relationship I just wanna move in already due to the fact I am practically moved in already... please help...I am not sure that he's ready for that step. I recently brought up the idea of keeping my computer there and he got all freaked out....

2007-05-30 19:13:23 · 3 answers · asked by crazysxykoolgrl8 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-05-30 19:09:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

if some one hurts me than what can i do?can i break the relation?

2007-05-30 18:59:49 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

The guy I am dating drinks all the time! His mom died of cancer last fall and it has been down hill since. the other day he was supposed to have lunch with me at work he text me at 11:30 am and told me he was too drunk to drive and his friend was going to bring him to me. I had to tell him no because I can't have him at my work like that. He is only 26 and has custudy of his 13 year old sister and is dealing with the bills his momleft so I try to give him a break but it is getting to bad!

2007-05-30 18:42:40 · 13 answers · asked by deeply happy 2 in Singles & Dating

i saw my ex the other day on my way home.. i know that she saw me too but we pretended we dont saw each other at all..
and i couldnt stop thinking about her after that.. i wanted to send her message and ask how she doin but i dont have her number..and i dont think she know my number as well..
shes still all that.. and i miss her..
but she dont feel the same..
and shell never fell the same..
dont tell me to move on... cuz its not working for years that i am trying..


what am i supposed to do? well,.. instead of moving on and asking her out again.. hmmm..

i do not have options do i? err.

2007-05-30 18:39:41 · 10 answers · asked by watdahell 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband is always trying to get me to say some dirty things to him during sex and I can't ever think of anything. I usually can before the deed but I can't think of anything during. Any suggestions will be great?

2007-05-30 18:38:08 · 35 answers · asked by kittyxxx123 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I gave my girl fren a soft toy. I once told her i like her but she said she doesnt want a relationship as we are both studying. But since then we've been really close and she even tells me her personal things such has her pms. Now she is overseas and she took it along. What does this mean?Aww man i really miss her, what do i do?But few weeks back she asked me to go online and when i asked her why, she said we havent spoke to one another for a long time & felt distant. And i just found out she came back a few days back but did not even contact me. Is this because she thinks i dont care as i didnt email her?? Im very hurt now as i hold myself back everytime i want to talk to her as i think long distant relationship wont work and i dunno if she likes me. What do i do?

2007-05-30 18:31:37 · 8 answers · asked by Fr3e@K3D 1 in Singles & Dating

It seems to be the only way I can get turned on...is there anyone out there the same way?

2007-05-30 18:30:37 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-30 18:28:37 · 32 answers · asked by mrs. MJ 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i'm 20 and i lost my virginity last year, i had sex again during spring break, but both times the guys didn't seem to know what they were doing and both times it hurt and we didn't finish and the second time there was a bad odor, these guys kept trying to get it in but they both went soft but kept trying to finish, so what's soo great about sex

2007-05-30 18:26:39 · 21 answers · asked by ashley h 1 in Singles & Dating

I am an old man (70) in very good health, sexually active, am making a young (42) woman sexually very content.her mother does nt like it.she is very happy with me in many ways.i make her laugh,we dance go to movies.her mother is (64) and tells me that i am robbing the child from the crib ? What To do,Plz help.

2007-05-30 18:26:00 · 16 answers · asked by kunde. 2 in Singles & Dating

i work on a marine base and i met this drill instructor and we've been seeing each other for 10 months. there was a girl who said that she's the wife but then she said "oh no it's ok date him i wish u two the best" so i didn't believe what she was saying because she talked to me three times and always said the same thing and she's been stalking me by my job everyone told me (friends) & (family)that she's just his crazy ex girl...i've been to his place plenty of times there was no sign showing that he was married so i went along with what he and everyone of his coworkers and friends told me....until today i walked in the library and i see him and the girl that stalks me on a computer and she was yelling at him to do something on the computer....i looked on his myspace page and now it changed from single to married...my friend said that he may be married since i saw them together today i don't know what to do or believe?

2007-05-30 18:25:37 · 15 answers · asked by mrs. MJ 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-30 18:22:07 · 6 answers · asked by lotto092000 1 in Weddings

you go to bed @/sleep??

2007-05-30 18:20:57 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend was my bestfriend for 2 years before we started dating. I met him at 13 we started dating at almost 16, we are now both 20. He used to love me so much i am sure of this. However lately he is so distant from me, we never talk on the phone except for 5 min. conversations. He always chooses his friends over me, we only hang out for 1-3 hours the times we do hang out *once a week or so *. he only works weekends so it's not that he is busy in work. i confront him and ask him if he wants to break up, he says no. But his attitude seems like he is not into me or our relationship. Do you think maybe he just does not want to be the one who breaks up the relationship, we are teenage sweethearts, and he was my first in everything. Should i dump him?

2007-05-30 18:14:40 · 11 answers · asked by Sam 2 in Marriage & Divorce

We don't sleep together or anything like that. We have told each other we don't even like the other one. So we don't argue any more. He knows I'll be moving soon. We speck, talk about regular things but that's all, we spend maybe 3 hours a day with each other, Do you think this is unusal?

2007-05-30 18:14:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

So, when a guy asks you "what's wrong, you bf just break up with you?" what is he really saying?

2007-05-30 18:12:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating