I gave my girl fren a soft toy. I once told her i like her but she said she doesnt want a relationship as we are both studying. But since then we've been really close and she even tells me her personal things such has her pms. Now she is overseas and she took it along. What does this mean?Aww man i really miss her, what do i do?But few weeks back she asked me to go online and when i asked her why, she said we havent spoke to one another for a long time & felt distant. And i just found out she came back a few days back but did not even contact me. Is this because she thinks i dont care as i didnt email her?? Im very hurt now as i hold myself back everytime i want to talk to her as i think long distant relationship wont work and i dunno if she likes me. What do i do?
2007-05-30 18:31:37 · 8 answers · asked by Fr3e@K3D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeh, the first answer seems the way to go.
2007-05-30 18:40:13 · answer #1 · answered by Hoosyadaddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you be hurt if you are the one holding back? You say you don't think a long distance relationship can work but then say you miss her........... You have to decide if you want to take a chance. The chance that she really does like you, the chance that a long distance relationship might work, the chance that you may be just really good friends.
Call her or write to her, tell her how you feel. But you have to decide what that feeling is before you make contact.
2007-05-30 18:40:21 · answer #2 · answered by dizzkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, she probably is feeling neglected. She already told you that you felt distant. Go out of your way to make contact and listen to her next time!
2007-05-30 18:35:58 · answer #3 · answered by mosaic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seriously need to get a clue somehow. Any girl would be upset if she told the guy she cared about to email, and he didn't do it. That appears to her you do not care. So she comes home and doesn't call you. See how it feels?
2007-05-30 18:36:37 · answer #4 · answered by Sparkles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really sounds like she isn't wanting a romantic relationship with you. It also sounds like it makes her feel good to have someone around who feels the way you do about her whether she actually wants to pursue anything with you or not. I say move on, find someone who really wants to be with you as much as you want to be with them. You'll find it.
2007-05-30 18:35:53 · answer #5 · answered by Heather 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her... bottom line. Clear up any doubt she may have that you didn't miss her. That way, she knows that you DID miss her. I hope all works out for you.
2007-05-30 18:35:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut off your balls and join the girl scouts, Alice.
2007-05-30 18:35:06 · answer #7 · answered by smtilley 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
are you sure shes your????? girlfriend
2007-05-30 18:35:57 · answer #8 · answered by yukd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋