i'm 20 and i lost my virginity last year, i had sex again during spring break, but both times the guys didn't seem to know what they were doing and both times it hurt and we didn't finish and the second time there was a bad odor, these guys kept trying to get it in but they both went soft but kept trying to finish, so what's soo great about sex
2007-05-30 18:26:39 · 21 answers · asked by ashley h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should get some feminine wash for the odor...
But look at it this way, you only had sex 2 times, with guys who didn't know what they were doing. What would you expect?
You should try it out with someone who knows what they are doing.
2007-06-01 07:26:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i cant even explain y it is so great but god do i love it!!! u will too give urself time. ur just choosing the wrong guys to have sex with. try finding a grad student. not a dorky one and not a jocky one. a nice sophisticated clean gentle MAN. dont go tryin to have great sex w/ this boys in their early 20's. the vast majority of them have no idea what theyre doing. not long someone more experienced would. as far as them going soft, was there alot of drinking before hand this can cause it. and the bad odor u shouldve went to the dr for. its a sign of infection. mayb he wasnt clean.
2007-05-31 01:34:09 · answer #2 · answered by Jen 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That's because you're having sex with dudes who just think of you as nothing but a really good blow up doll. They're just having sex with you for the hell of it and so are you. If you have sex with someone you really love and they love you too then it's great. So quit whoring yourself and go find a boyfriend. Oh and don't have sex with guys at Spring Break unless you want STDs and bad experiances. I bet they were drunk as hell and were just moments away from vomitting on you, or perhaps they did and that's what the smell was? Anyway if sex doesn't feel good to you then you're doing it wrong.
2007-05-31 01:33:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you just had sex with guys that didn't really love you. Unfortunately, you seemed to be their "experiment" instead of their partner. They were as inexperienced as you are with the situation and have no idea about the art of lovemaking. By the pain and smell, your body was not ready to receive. Their limpness shows that their bodies were not ready to give.
Sex is great only in the context of love, its a great pick-me-up when shared with a man that loves you as much as you love him.
When lust is involved, it may be fun but there is usually a lot of regret afterwards. When love is involved, the man will try to satisfy you as much as you are trying to satisfy him and will "finish you off" even after he is finished.
2007-05-31 01:40:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're just having a bad sexual experience hence you not being able to enjoy.
Sex is sensual, and makes you feel good. You just haven't found a guy that really rocks your world like kissing you the right way, touching and caressing you where the sun don't shine.
The best sex is usually with someone you love or someone you have incredible sexual chemistry with...
Good luck finding that!
2007-05-31 01:31:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sex is great when you do it with someone who knows what they are doing. Next time you decide to have sex maybe you should wait until you find someone you have feelings for. You are still young so there is no need to rush into these things.
2007-05-31 01:47:24 · answer #6 · answered by friendlygrr 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You probably haven't had an orgasm.
You need to either:
1. Find a guy who knows how to make a girl feel good.
2. Date another girl (this is the easiest method).
3. Learn how to masturbate. Don't be afraid to ask someone to show you how.
I hope I helped
2007-05-31 01:34:39 · answer #7 · answered by bobdanob 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell me, did you love the person you were having sex with? Sex is like another stage of love and should be. When your with a person you love and can't express it sex is a good tool. Think of the person you are in love with most right now. How do you feel having sex with him compared to others?
2007-05-31 01:31:03 · answer #8 · answered by Ugly Duckling 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you're problem lies with the fact that you've been sleeping with young men who are inexperienced, and also they do not have "stamina". You can't downplay the entire act of lovemaking due to your experiences with 2 amatuers. Someday you will meet someone who is a bit more experienced, and you will find out how much better it will be.
2007-05-31 01:31:11 · answer #9 · answered by C J 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
At 20 it wasn't good for me,but when I got older and with someone I loved and he took his time W I L E !! you will find out and when you do that's when you'll say ( now I no what I have been missing all this time )
2007-05-31 01:55:49 · answer #10 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋