i work on a marine base and i met this drill instructor and we've been seeing each other for 10 months. there was a girl who said that she's the wife but then she said "oh no it's ok date him i wish u two the best" so i didn't believe what she was saying because she talked to me three times and always said the same thing and she's been stalking me by my job everyone told me (friends) & (family)that she's just his crazy ex girl...i've been to his place plenty of times there was no sign showing that he was married so i went along with what he and everyone of his coworkers and friends told me....until today i walked in the library and i see him and the girl that stalks me on a computer and she was yelling at him to do something on the computer....i looked on his myspace page and now it changed from single to married...my friend said that he may be married since i saw them together today i don't know what to do or believe?
2007-05-30 18:25:37 · 15 answers · asked by mrs. MJ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Jump ship! No, wait..that's the Navy....Be Proud! and get the h*ll outta the relationship now! You don't need that kind of frustration in your life. Whether she's an ex-gf or a wife...it's not going to stop. If his page states he's married..he definitely is in this case. Find a single, loving, caring man that appreciates you for you, with no 'attachments'. You deserve better for yourself and your future. 10 months is nothing compared to a lifetime of grief and stalking.
2007-05-30 18:53:12 · answer #1 · answered by Rocky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him. There's no point in jumping to conclusions.
Just walk up to him and be like, some really whacked out stuff is going on. For some reason this chick think you're his wife? Could you tell me what you think about that? If he says she's crazy, bring up how you saw him and her yelling and his myspace page. This is just too weird. You need him explaining what happened. Maybe it's a big misunderstanding. Maybe he really is married. Either way, you should get it cleared up and then kick his ***.
2007-05-31 01:32:08 · answer #2 · answered by SM 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG sweetheart! The obvious answer is to run and don't look back, but I know it isn't that easy.
I would find out the truth from that crazy girl. If she was open enough to tell you to date him, then find that crazy girl and ask her what the deal is. Just don't get your butt kicked.
I definitely think you should find out the truth before you move on because honestly you have to be FU(KING crazy to tell some other girl to date your husband...so maybe he isn't really married or he is, but they aren't together and are on the verge of a divorce!
Do me a favor and go to my profile, check out my latest question and answer it for me. I need help too....
2007-05-31 01:31:54 · answer #3 · answered by hotblondbabe420 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't see anywhere in your posting if you asked your man if he was married. Did you ask him????
From what your posting states I think he is married. But you need to talk to him.
Do you really want to date someone who has drama???? The crazy lady and all and then the library scene?????
I am sure you have a gut feeling about your situation!!!!
Talk to your man and then make your decision.
2007-05-31 01:36:11 · answer #4 · answered by Chipmunk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was seperated or divorced, why would he not tell you? Whatever the situation, he is not being upfront with you. I guess you have to ask yourself if you want this kind of made for TV drama in your life. I know that I would never let a relationship turn my life into a soap opera, but that's just me.
2007-05-31 01:31:04 · answer #5 · answered by Justin A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm sorry but this is just messed up. If his family said that she was his crazy ex i would believe them. But then again if he changed his myspace for her... idk. they might have been dating as the same time you and him were, but she could have convinced him to marry her, or at least propose. if your still with him i would just leave him and just figure it out later.
2007-05-31 01:35:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my advise would be just talk to him frankly n solve ur question instead of u eneding up into some conclusion or talk to a person whom u trust n seek their help n find out the truth.i hope i hv helped in some way. all d best
2007-05-31 01:31:37 · answer #7 · answered by kavya_priyanka 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop him like a hot potato woman. Do you think you deserve better?
2007-05-31 17:04:25 · answer #8 · answered by Joseph 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be awkward, but confront them both at the same time when they are together, and ask your questions....
2007-05-31 01:32:23 · answer #9 · answered by hpage 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump his sorryass!
The truth is not in him!
Doc Hudson
2007-05-31 01:43:15 · answer #10 · answered by Doc Hudson 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋