2007-05-30 19:09:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He left to the army and I know that my heart is his. But it seems like all my guy friends like me. Some understand I have a fiancee, but some just don't give up.
2007-05-30 19:20:38 · update #1
the only reason why you should go out with a guy friend knowing that he likes you is because you are liking that person back or atleast that's the signal that you are sending back to them, be honest with them and tell them that you are commited to someone already and that you are only interested in their friendship if he insists it would be best to end things in a good way, you would be sending the wrong signal if you continue to be friends and him liking you, it's kind of "not now but maybe later on, insist a little more and maybe something will happen", get what i'm trying to say?
2007-05-30 19:46:41 · answer #1 · answered by bebitas1978 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it isn't wrong to hang out with anyone even if they like you or wish they could marry you. Because at the end of the day...You should know who your hearts belong to. As a friend they should jolly well understand you have a fiancee if they persist you should set the record straight and prevent further distraction or damage to your relationship especially being a woman.
2007-05-31 02:16:30 · answer #2 · answered by sheadrew 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there is any chance at all that they may try to get with you or you with them then leave them be. It is natural to want the attention but don't do anything you will regret. I didn the same thing when my now husband went to basic training and ending up getting a little to drunk and made a bad decision that I still regret today, 2 years later. I will always regret wanting that extra attention that my hubby couldnt give me at the time. Don't mess up like I did! Just try to surround yourself with all your girlfriends and go out as much as possible. It really helps to make the time fly by when you are surrounded by great friends! Good luck!
2007-05-31 02:18:14 · answer #3 · answered by Misty B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to follow you heart If you really love you fiancee then wait on his return if you dont then you need to tell him now the only relationships that last are the ones where both people are honest with each other. if theses guys you are talking about know that you are engaged then they should respect that and leave you alone find you some girlfriends to hangout with it will make it alot easier and when he returns you will both be happy
2007-05-31 02:27:40 · answer #4 · answered by vospolice1204 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Addy
Do you like to play with fire? If so keep playing because that is what you are doing. Just tell your boyfriend to date other girls because that is what you are doing being with guys that like you. One day you well have sex with one of them. Once the fire is lit it is had to stop it. I have never met a girl that did not have sex even though they all said they know what they are doing. Then when it happen they had all type of accuses.
2007-05-31 02:17:12 · answer #5 · answered by kiss4u 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Why tempt fate and why toture these guy friends when they know that you are not interested?
It sounds to me like you need to have your ego stroked and that is not fair to your fiance.
2007-05-31 02:21:30 · answer #6 · answered by blahdeblah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is but if I were in your place I would do it to.or should I say I have done it to.It's harmless fun and we girls need to feel special about ourselves nothing wrong with that.Sorry guys but that 's the way it is with us girls.
2007-05-31 02:16:54 · answer #7 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. why stock your cupboards with cookies if you're trying to stick to a diet? bad idea.
2007-05-31 02:13:32 · answer #8 · answered by christie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are asking for trouble.
2007-05-31 02:16:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
as...long as it is just a friend!!!!!!!!!!
2007-05-31 02:17:24 · answer #10 · answered by night_age_germany 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋