We are both 22yrs old and have been together for 5 years now. We both want to wait to get married once we are totally done with school and can put some money down on a house. But at the moment he lives 5 min away from me. I find myself staying over there 5-6 out of 7 nights a week and constantly running back and forth between his place and mine. It's become annoying because he works from home a lot and when he's working I have nothing to do there so I end up driving home for a few hours only to go back over when he's done. I have clothes/food/tolietries in both places..some things that I don't want to have to buy 2 of I have to cart around with me constantly....So on top of the need to move forward to the next logical step in the relationship I just wanna move in already due to the fact I am practically moved in already... please help...I am not sure that he's ready for that step. I recently brought up the idea of keeping my computer there and he got all freaked out....
2007-05-30 19:13:23 · 3 answers · asked by crazysxykoolgrl8 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yeah, I thought of the being less availible..I don't kno how long I can keep that up for though or if I can keep it up long enough for him to get the point
2007-05-30 19:52:29 · update #1
He's not ready. He wants you to have a place to go to when he doesn't want you around or he's mad at you. After 5 years he may never be ready.
2007-05-30 19:18:06 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you know for a fact he's not ready. The computer incident gives you light onto that issue. But you do need to let him see that even though he's not ready for it, he has you running back and forth between places.
If he's not ready for the big move, then have HIM do the back and forth.
2007-05-30 19:19:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to stop going over there and see if he calls you.
Don't you want to no if he really loves you,just because he says he does doesn't make it so.Muster up all your stealth
and put him to the test.Stop making yourself so available to him .I no you won't do it,but if you want to move in with him
you will need to do something different then what you have been doing.I'm a lot older then you and i no what will make him come back for more so what do you have to lose by trying this?
2007-05-30 19:30:03 · answer #3 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋