Family & Relationships - 30 May 2007

2007-05-30 02:40:05 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Dark soul wrote:

man **** u and ur cross dressing mama and sex change daddy. if u ever email me again u nut,i will personally find u....report that *****

Just wondering?

2007-05-30 02:38:12 · 9 answers · asked by pathfinder1992 1 in Singles & Dating

Does it make a difference what race a girl is?

I'm asian and I'm attracted to hispanic, black and white guys. Some of my friends are surprised at my taste and don't understand why I'm not into dating asian guys.

At work, a few guys (they were hispanic, white and black) revealed to me weeks or months after we met that they liked me, thought I was cute the first time they saw me and asked me out, I politely declined. By the way, for the first few months, they rarely spoke to me, just greeted. Then there's this guy who didn't tell me he thought I was cute until after I told him he was cute first. Like those other guys, he also said that he liked me the first time he saw me. He introduced himself to me at work a few months after he got hired. Then I asked him why he didn't make a move and he said that he didn't think I liked him and thought that I wasn't single. So the point is, these guys didn't approach me right when they wanted to.

2007-05-30 02:36:59 · 16 answers · asked by pureessence 2 in Singles & Dating

I am giving my niece and her soon to be husband money for their wedding gift. How much would be appropriate? I thought 50 bucks would be ok, but thought about 100 as well. The wedding is saturday, and I don't want her to be disappointed.

2007-05-30 02:35:27 · 13 answers · asked by jennifer 3 in Weddings

A friend has had a couple of horrible calls accusing her boyfriend of cheating....but the caller has been non specific about who, when etc...just that he is cheating. 1st call the number was witheld, second was a text from a payphone. Who is it likely to be, any ideas on how to find out ? ( he absolutely denies having cheated and says it's a trouble maker)

2007-05-30 02:32:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i still cant find a present and his birthday is on monday. he is turning 29. please help.

Thanks

2007-05-30 02:31:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My fiance and I have been together for almost 7 years. We are getting married in July. I've had problems in my past with alcohol since my dad is an alcoholic and when we first started dating I was upfront about it. We made an agreement to not drink alcohol when we're not together. After being sweet and honest to me for the past 7 years, he recently drank with the guys on the way home from work and then lied straight to my face when I smelled his alcohol breath. Now it seems like our relationship is falling apart. He promised he wouldn't do it again, but he stays away with the guys for work a couple of days a week (their motel is right next to a bar/club). I just feel like I don't believe him when he says he isn't drinking. We are supposed to be getting married in 5 weeks and I don't know what to do anymore I love him with all of my heart but I just can't seem to trust him anymore since he lied to me. Has anyone been through this before and how did it work out?

2007-05-30 02:26:03 · 37 answers · asked by sundragonjess 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Believe it or not the biggest reason my wife is giving me for wanting a divorce after 7 yrs of marriage and just having our daughter a year and 1/2 ago is because I went to a strip club for my bachelor party 7 yrs ago. We have been together for 11 yrs and she just found out 21/2 yrs ago that I went to a strip club for my bachelor party 7 yrs ago. Thanks to my friends big mouth she found out that we had gone even though she told me how serious it meant to her. She told me that if she found before the wedding she would have called it off. Now I almost wish she would have instead of putting our 11/2 year old daughter through this divorce. This all started 3 months ago when she sat me down and gave me the infamous line "I love you but I'm not in love with you anymore". I responded by saying wow ok this is definitely a surprise because I dont feel the same way, but I almost wish you would have cheated on me so I could have a good enough reason to let you go too.

2007-05-30 02:24:06 · 17 answers · asked by Bud 1 in Marriage & Divorce

After my first 18 years on this planet i have not experienced or seen any relationship that lasts "forever" with out one of them cheating, being unfaithful or just plain getting bored of being with the same person everyday... does anyone believe that out there exists a realistic acheivable relationship that wont end, and one that allows us to live comfortably with that knoweledge?

2007-05-30 02:18:35 · 29 answers · asked by Minx 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Going on 4 years in september.
He is 24, i am 23
we have a 2 year old and 41/2 month old
we spent 1 year separated when he had to serve in korea
he is a non talker,
i need someone to talk to
we are complete opposites
we got married after only knowing each other for 4 months
i am unhappy and depressed.
we hardly talk
we fight a lot
we never get out alone together.

2007-05-30 02:13:50 · 14 answers · asked by learnin_toluvme 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-30 02:13:27 · 3 answers · asked by dabeeo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-30 02:12:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i have met 4 and then i had to changed my nbr and email addr...lol

2007-05-30 02:06:55 · 9 answers · asked by dark soul 1 in Singles & Dating

2 wks ago, I broke down at my counsellors (I'm suffering post traumatic depression from childhood violence), she made an emergency app at docs who put me straight on anti-depressants. When I rang my boyfriend, he told me it was a nightmare going out with me, it's all in my head & I have no-one to blame but myself. So I dumped him. I then spent the next week begging him back, but to no avail. He's bullied me the whole way through our relationship, telling me I'm messed up in the head, that I'm embarrassing, bascially dampening my spirit and undermining my friendships. I'm v insecure, so this was very damaging 4me. No matter what my head says, my heart is missing him so much. I feel pathetic cos I know (&all our friends agree) that being with him has been destroying me. But I keep having bleak moments. Should I try and get him back? I want 2b everything to him, but felt I gave all that I had &it was just never enough. I feel like I'm never going to be enough for anyone :-(

2007-05-30 02:02:44 · 33 answers · asked by rollacoasta 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My fiancee and I have been making plans to get our own place and finish up college together, as well as getting married in the next year or so. So after we come home from his brother's wedding (who is in the military), he's telling me he wants to enlist in the military. And this is making me INCREDIBLY upset. Not only do I not want anything to happen to him, I don't want that kind of life for my family. He's making me feel really guilty for feeling this way about it. Am I being selfish? Anything I can do?

2007-05-30 02:02:01 · 11 answers · asked by brainstewie 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Any ideas folks?

2007-05-30 01:59:18 · 25 answers · asked by Jane 2 in Singles & Dating

What should I do?? She has said that her new boyfriend is not serious, but then she called over the weekend saying that he and his parents were taking her to the Cayman Islands for a trip leaving sunday. I know the easy thing to do would be to ignore her when she gets back but I want to get some revenge for the way she has treated me.

2007-05-30 01:49:18 · 17 answers · asked by bhackle2 3 in Singles & Dating

Was in bed with a girl i know. She told me to get out of the bed, so i did. She then told me to get back in, so i did. She did this like 3 times. What does this mean?

2007-05-30 01:35:53 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-30 01:35:41 · 32 answers · asked by ~Kim~ 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-30 01:33:35 · 11 answers · asked by tia_oita 1 in Family

2007-05-30 01:32:02 · 15 answers · asked by ahhhhhh 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-30 01:18:13 · 27 answers · asked by olusoji olayinka o 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Seems most every young woman now says they'd fool around w/ the "right girl". Fine for them, but lordy!

Any 100% hetero' women left? Just powerful curious....

2007-05-30 01:13:03 · 14 answers · asked by Fonzie T 7 in Singles & Dating

just before you drop him in the boiling water???

2007-05-30 01:11:19 · 10 answers · asked by gasparin 3 in Singles & Dating

is it a popular name? is it a cute name? etch. ..

2007-05-30 01:09:47 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well i was ******* in the **** tried to **** and so i went home.When i got there he was all **** you and **** this was cool.Now hes all ******* *** and i was like ******* ***** why don't you just ******* ****.
So he left
What should i do?
******* **** ***** *** idiot
Now he thinks ******* my sister will change the fact that *** ***** **** is nothing

2007-05-30 01:09:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My brother is unemployed and just got outta jail. He doent live with me but just kinda drifts from each family members house. He has been diagnosed with Bipolar disorder( crazy) any way if I let him use my address so he can get Food stamps will I be in trouble. I do not receive any govt benefits.What is out there help wise for people like him?

2007-05-30 01:03:49 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Look, pre-marital sex is promoted everywhere. Movies, TVs, etc. Is it actually right? Because I grew up believing that it is wrong and it is considered a sin. But, now the world says otherwise. Almost every movie coming out in theatre nowadays have got at least one obsece scene in it.

2007-05-30 01:00:56 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Could her and I walk down the aisle? Could my Dad give us both away? Any suggestions? The groom is not her father.

2007-05-30 00:52:43 · 17 answers · asked by eabaer03 1 in Weddings

Who is used to drive at the 'right' side of the road, which is the 'wrong' side, having the wheel at the left side...
?
Obviously, he is a continental ...

2007-05-30 00:51:03 · 2 answers · asked by Mariska 5 in Friends