What should I do?? She has said that her new boyfriend is not serious, but then she called over the weekend saying that he and his parents were taking her to the Cayman Islands for a trip leaving sunday. I know the easy thing to do would be to ignore her when she gets back but I want to get some revenge for the way she has treated me.
2007-05-30 01:49:18 · 17 answers · asked by bhackle2 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, you can be Mr. Drama King and do all kinds of things mean and evil - but that will only make you look small and petty and not the man you are.
OR - you can get the sweetest revenge of all - Ignore her calls when she gets back.
Then - become successful in everything you do. Successful in business, in your hobbies, successful in finding a nice girl who deserves a nice guy like you - and appreciates it.
Then when Ms. Drama Queen sees how successful you are, and comes back wanting you to have casual benefits - you can tell her that you can tell her to hit the road. She had her chance. Too bad.
This one takes time - but it's the sweetest of all.
The choice is yours - lower yourself to her level for a few minutes of venting - or really smashing her to bits by being successful and powerful and with a much nicer girl than she ever could be...
2007-05-30 02:03:00 · answer #1 · answered by Barbara B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
revenge has a way of backfiring and at the end of the day u don't get real satisfaction.
now what revenge can u seek hey?? have sex with her in a demeaning way?? then tell her bf about it?? really wanna stoop that low?
keep ur self respect man, tell ur to f*-off!! rejection is the best revenge.
2007-05-30 01:55:34 · answer #2 · answered by Phoenix21 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to get revenge for the way she's treated you, just don't answer her calls. She can't have her cake and eat it too.
2007-05-30 01:53:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might consider a biblical approach to the matter:
Rom 12:19 Dearly beloved, avenge not yourselves, but rather give place unto wrath: for it is written, Vengeance is mine; I will repay, saith the Lord.
God knows a whole lot more about meting out justice than we do....leave it in his hands. If God said it, you can count on it.
2007-05-30 01:58:13 · answer #4 · answered by Mad Dog Martok 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find yourself a hot girl to date while she is gone. That sound annoy her. Living well is the best revenge.
2007-05-30 01:57:08 · answer #5 · answered by Randy G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Revenge is not the answer it a silly game and you shouldn't play it. Tell this girl your not interested and move on!
2007-05-30 01:57:05 · answer #6 · answered by KittyKat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her believe you have a new partner that keeps you really tired!!!! Dont answer when she calls. This is a play on the heart. Maybe the trip would be canceled if they knew she had another booty call.
2007-05-30 01:55:28 · answer #7 · answered by New Nana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
skip the revenge - the best revenge is living a happy life - but take her up on the sex, if she's any good.
2007-05-30 01:56:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's not worth it. Revenge won't get you anything in life so just ignore her.
2007-05-30 01:52:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
So your revenge would be to what? Have sex with her? She is an ex...LET HER BE THAT and move on!
2007-05-30 01:55:58 · answer #10 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋