Family & Relationships - 30 May 2007

2007-05-30 15:55:06 · 22 answers · asked by Darrell a 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I like this girl and am pretty sure she likes me but am having trouble deciding whether or not she does. I just went through a very difficult experience with another girl and am nervous that this might end up the same way. I would wait but I don't want to let this pass me by especially since I'm about to go off to college and this might be the only chance I get to find out. What should I do to find out if she likes me?

2007-05-30 15:53:47 · 7 answers · asked by wilycoyotewill 1 in Singles & Dating

I tried to give a message to someone through another person today. The only problem is, the person i gave the message to is from India. So i think he misunderstood what i said. I tried to tell him where someone was, and i said they were here (as in my area). I think he thought i meant at my house. I dont want everyone to think i lied because this guy misunderstood me. Please pray that it wont happen. I cant lose someone's trust over something I didnt do. I dont have a chance to defend myself either. Not to the person it would hurt the most.

2007-05-30 15:51:05 · 8 answers · asked by pocketful_of_sunshine 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

My friend's ex husband refuses to give back the child. He keeps making excuses to keep her longer. Can my friend take legal action? What can she do?

2007-05-30 15:49:19 · 18 answers · asked by draydraydajetplne 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Why, do girls always even if they say they look at personality but they always go by our(guys) looks,and when it is personality what ever happened to helping someone fix a problem not avoiding them because of their problem

2007-05-30 15:44:44 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-30 15:44:00 · 21 answers · asked by Peter 4 in Singles & Dating

Say you were forced to be geographically apart for almost a year and you hubby(or wife) had an affair for 5-6 months and had sex probably 10-15 times, would you say this was a fling, long term affair, or would you say your spouse cheated on you 10-15 times....this is my case and I just dont know how to answer when someone asks what happened. I want to be honest, but I dont really feel like he cheated on me 10-15 times...I know this sounds crazy but just womdering how to look at it. Yes, I did forgive him, and we are now together and doing well, of course he had a lot of *** kissing to take care of before I felt like I could take him back, I had to make sure he was sincere in his remorse

2007-05-30 15:42:58 · 51 answers · asked by lil ol me 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What do you all think about this relationship. The boyfriend is 21 and the girlfriend is 16.

They are each other's world. The boyfriend treats her like a queen, gives her advice on school, life, and would never hurt her for anything in the world. Her parents trust him and are 110% fine with the relationship. They look beautiful together. They are inseparable. It's such a beautiful thing. Pure inseparable love. You see them together and you just know ... they are in love.

Would you be ok with the age difference? Or go on ranting about the law, saying it's wrong, etc.

2007-05-30 15:34:23 · 26 answers · asked by Nicky_Nolstorm 1 in Singles & Dating

I resently got a phone call from an old friend. She said she was chatting on myspace and seen pictures of my children. My husband went threw the trouble to set up a seperate/secret e-mail address and logs onto myspace. I confronted him, he said he only goes onto that cite to talk to his old guy buddies. He said he didn't say anything to me about chatting with friends because he knows I over react. What should I take this as?I was upset because I feel he was hidding something from me. Also, I didn't care for my children's pics on myspace!

2007-05-30 15:32:33 · 21 answers · asked by kaylaandcam 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, so i'm of mixed ancestrey and stuff, like most people, but of course, i just consider myself black. so today in english class(i'm in 7th grade), we were giving our speeches. for part of my speech, i had to say "fo sho!" so after my speech, i go back to my desk, and this white preppy cheerleader says to me, "don't do that ever again! are you sure you were born black, cuz you sure don't act like it. psh- you're such an oreo" and then this girl sitting next to me says " yea, you do act pretty white" then people just start talking about how i'm white cuz i don't speak "ghetto" enough and i have "white girls hair". it's gotten me really pissed off! i'm sick of people always degrading me cuz i act like ME! what should i do? it really hurts! have any of you gone through this before? please help me!

2007-05-30 15:26:58 · 43 answers · asked by samantha chindy 3 in Friends

My husband is a very very attractive man, women have flirted with him in front of my face, but I try not to show my jealousy.. I just laugh.. but, inside I am thinking of taking off there face with my fingernails.. anyways... my husband is very loveable to me and tells me that he adores me and that he would never cheat on me ...that he is complete with me and that he has everything he ever wanted.. my question is .. that since women flirt too much with him.. can he fall in temptation?? I mean.. women have gone up to him and told him.. you don't know what I'd do to you in bed.... that does not concern me cause I fill him in every aspect.. but, can he fall into temptation... what can I do so that this does not happen?

2007-05-30 15:25:37 · 36 answers · asked by ; ) 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I don't know how to handle this. My son (13) kissed my daughter(12) in a way that made her uncomfortable. I found out he has been going into her room at night "just to talk" and he says that he kissed her by accident.. she disagrees and told him it made her uncomfortable. I know the obvious is to get him counseling. But I am just sick over this and his dad and I are at odds on dealing with it. Anyone else ever have this happen to them or their kids? I am just so lost on this.

2007-05-30 15:17:56 · 19 answers · asked by MomInPanic 1 in Family

My boyfriend and I aren't engaged, but we have been dating for 3 years. Everytime we attend a wedding together, I can't help but look at wedding stuff-dresses, reception, ceremony details in the days after. My friend joked that I have my whole wedding with my boyfriend planned out. I don't

Is this bad. I'm not nessacarily just obssessed with a wedding itself. But, I look online for houses we could buy together, etc.

Is my small obssession bad?

2007-05-30 15:16:27 · 48 answers · asked by Answer Girl 2007 5 in Weddings

I'm chubby and no guys ever like me and it's really depressing because I don't see why skinny girls are so much better than me...do you find chubby girls repulsive?

2007-05-30 15:15:33 · 28 answers · asked by red_rose_kiss2010 1 in Singles & Dating

Sad to say but it sure doesn't seem like it. I've done just about everything I can and can't seem to find any available girls worth having a relationship with.

Nice, personable and just all around quality girls all seem to be dating, married or far too attractive to be in my "average Joe" league.

All that I can ever find left seem to value riches, status and model looks and put everything else in an "unimportant" category. Most will lie and be cruel, essentially spitting on a man's feelings.

I wish I was wrong. But so far, this is what life has taught me.

If any ladies out there have the heart or ability to change this crazy cycle and perhaps change my mind, please email me.

2007-05-30 15:12:58 · 26 answers · asked by onlyget1shot 3 in Singles & Dating

My husband is emotionally distant lately. I am 5 months pregnant with our first child together. He has 3 by a ex g/f i have one by ex b/f neither of which are in the picture. When we got married all was well, he and I got along great all the kids got along great. I know the love is there, even now I tell him and he tells me. I have no idea why he suddenly became distant from me. I take on everything at home since hes the working one. i left him once b/c drugs, he quit doing it when we got bk together. Now hes "stressed out" and I cant figure out why. He used to talk to me about anything, now i ask questions and I get "dont know what your talking about". Now I have left him for the second time b/c he doesnt tell me whats on his mind so i can help him get through it. His kids call me mom and my kid calls him dad. How do I get him to open up to me?

2007-05-30 15:12:26 · 7 answers · asked by pchristine84 1 in Marriage & Divorce

we aren' going out anymore, but she said last night that she loves me and that she doesn't want to lose me when i go to Iraq in about 1 year and a half. i told her that i have had those same feelings for her for a long time. after that, we didn't really talk about much else because she is the first person i have really ever felt this way about. i haven't been able to stop thinking about her for about 3 months or so. and i saw her about 2 days ago, and we had a good time, just running around and playing leg slap tag, and now she won't talk to me. I was hoping to go out with her before i went to boot camp, and she said she would come to see me enlist this sunda, and she is coming up saturday night for the night, and leaving sometime sunday night. she means alot to me. if anyone has any suggestions on how to get back with her, it will be very helpful. much thanks!

2007-05-30 15:10:58 · 1 answers · asked by Scott H 1 in Singles & Dating

He always go on line looked at other woman picture to see then he write them lellter. How he wanted to spend the rest of his life with them if they realy with him. He dosn't know that I have read all his mail also I found his pass word some where around the computer, so I go in and read everything.

2007-05-30 15:10:43 · 13 answers · asked by bobo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My Ex broke my ♥ about 1 year and 9 months(i've been counting!!) Now my friends think i'm just acting silly with"not having a boyfriend thing". So don't say i'm a slut cuz i didn't have another boyfriend 4 a very long time!!!!, on my other question, it jus felt like he broke up with me.....so yea any suggestions on how to get a guy notice me;)......and i'm 13, so keep it rated PG!!! Mahalo!!!

2007-05-30 15:09:59 · 17 answers · asked by Mz. KUTIE 2 in Singles & Dating

I have known and been friends with this man for 10 years I had no idea he would be violent, he's 46 never been married, no children. At first every thing was great we share loads of interests but one day I was gardening {his garden!} when he arrived home from work no meal was ready, this was only 5pm and he slapped me I was so shocked and upset I actually went and cooked dinner and thats how it's stayed I do all sorts to try to not upset him and I try to be good but seem to fail, he dosen't always hit me but he can make me feel useless and can sulk for days at a stretch, reading this makes me feel pathetic, why can't I just walk away? I have my own house so we dont live together, I feel worthless.

2007-05-30 14:54:17 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Although she say very love me . but recently she keep asking me to let her go see the other married guys. That guy's wife is not with him now she is at her hometown. I dont know is it I am controlling too much of my girlfriend that she try to go out with some other guy. This man also always calling her (work at the same place with her).
They will go out together when I am working . coz she work to 5 I'm til 9.
They go out but dont tell me where but I know she went to his house too. Wat should I do . I only Love her does this have to end or I should do something about me coz I am a guy who ask her wat she do everyday where she go (cos I found out there like going out together). I am not marry to her too.

2007-05-30 14:53:55 · 3 answers · asked by Bren C 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Everytime I tell my sister something like shut-up. she sais no and I am about ready to be her ugly but but I now I can't. What should I do about this

2007-05-30 14:52:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My daugther is 4 and his is 8 and the try to play together and they do good for short periods of time, but the rest of the time the only thing they do is fight. We have tried to take them to places so they can share activities but nothing seems to work and I'm afraid that this is gonna affect my relationship with my boyfriend. I need some advice.

2007-05-30 14:51:35 · 9 answers · asked by Blazer Girl 1 in Family

Okay, since my boyfriend broke up with me, i really want somebody to replace the stupid monkey! My frineds say "Hook up with my cousin, brother...you know how friends are(well, actually my friends are horrible with hook ups & blind dates!) I NEED HELLP...What do i have to do to get a boys attention?!!!Remember....i know 13's a young age, but i tink i deserve a boyfriend!!

2007-05-30 14:49:02 · 14 answers · asked by Mz. KUTIE 2 in Singles & Dating

I like this guy james and he broke up with his girl of three years. and he came up to me the other day and he said he doesnt think we should do anything physical. and then i text him and told him that i wanted him. and he called me back and said i dont have any problem having s** with you. but i cant make a commitment because i dont want you to get hurt and cry and he said he doesnt think he could handle that. why did he all of a sudden change his mind

2007-05-30 14:47:38 · 10 answers · asked by valreemariecreed 1 in Singles & Dating

I can't explain but it seems i can't change.
I've lost hope with nothing to gain.
The pain hurts so deep that I can't abstain from feeling that I have brought on the rain.
The sun won't shine where I live and love won't grow if you don't give.
I try to place blame because of what I did.
Forgiveness is divine but the err weighs.
It's so hard to be human i want better days.

I've broken a heart I am such a fool.
I know that things will never be cool.
All i have are yesterday's to carry to tomorrow .
I hope it out weighs my grief and sorrow:(

2007-05-30 14:46:48 · 12 answers · asked by abstract_alao 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-30 14:44:59 · 24 answers · asked by Darla 5 in Friends

I made a few mistakes and told my fience's family some concerns of mine. He took off to his moms, after I said these things, and has been there for a month. This is technically his apartment and he has not been home. I love him so much but do not know what to do. He will not return my phone calls and I am only allowed to call his mom's once a day and before six. What do I do? His family said that they would call the police if I stepped foot on there property. I have no idea what is going on. Can someone help me

2007-05-30 14:42:29 · 13 answers · asked by Elicia 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex left me for someone way older, ulglier, inside and out, bald with a wig, rotten and missing teeth, I am so embarrassed. I hope everyone forgets him and I went out.

2007-05-30 14:41:58 · 4 answers · asked by jan s 1 in Singles & Dating

so our conversation (im) was like- i bet blablabla is better than you. he says- sure...., then i say- seriously, he told me he's really good. and i dunno about you..., and after a few hours he's like- well, then he's a bastard full of himself, and iby the way, i kicked *** today...
you see, he did get jealous but he also became mad and i feel awful. how can i show him that he means a lot to me?? he does. and i reaaaaally want to let him know that i didn't mean to be mean.
please don't be mean to me in your answers...!!
love,
alicia.

2007-05-30 14:41:58 · 2 answers · asked by damseljolly 1 in Singles & Dating