Okay, since my boyfriend broke up with me, i really want somebody to replace the stupid monkey! My frineds say "Hook up with my cousin, brother...you know how friends are(well, actually my friends are horrible with hook ups & blind dates!) I NEED HELLP...What do i have to do to get a boys attention?!!!Remember....i know 13's a young age, but i tink i deserve a boyfriend!!
2007-05-30 14:49:02 · 14 answers · asked by Mz. KUTIE 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The younger you learn to be comfortable without a boyfriend, the better for you. If you wait until someone comes along who really knocks your socks off, it will be so much nicer! I'm sure you're terrific all by yourself.
2007-05-30 14:53:23 · answer #1 · answered by Terri J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby girl, let me tell you that it isn't good that you are so into having a boyfriend. You'll find out later in life that they really are quite a bit of trouble. You should be focusing on school right now. This doesn't mean that you can't like guys, just don't need one to be a boyfriend at all times. Focus more on yourself. Boys will be attracted to you because of who you are naturally, if you have to go out of your way to get one than hes not worth it. When you get a guy that is attracted to you because of who you are naturally then he's worth your time. Just don't ruch into things. Being single is fun. You're young. Enjoy it.
2007-05-30 21:56:16 · answer #2 · answered by mythicalmagics 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you want somebody to think about at night and have fun with then why not. If your parents are ok with it and the guy is a nice guy, go for it. Also as long as your parents dont find out about anything bad your doing with him, age has no limitations. You wont get to know him if you dont try. Try it and see if you like him. And to get a boys attention, just talk to him, but dont TRY and get his attention by like stalking him and whatnot (so not good), so just go up to the guy...
Good luck
2007-05-30 21:52:44 · answer #3 · answered by Jessica M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're too young, in fact you're my sisters age. Don't worry about boyfriends, realize you can stand on your own 2 feet first and you're future relationships will prosper.. You say you deserve a boyfriend? Is a boyfriend really goiong to fill that gap you have in your life? .. you don't need one trust me, you need to live life and experience it and the right bf will come at the right age.
2007-05-30 21:52:58 · answer #4 · answered by Nicolas O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, i think that ur gettin a little bf crazy, but im in the same position. im 13 and i went out wit a guy for a long time, like 5 months. well i wanted to c other people and he didnt so he blew up and were over. its really hard for me not to hav someone to talk to and to trust, but im takin this time as a me-time and i am gonna not hav a bf for like a month. that will make me appretiate my next bf a little more. then i will last longer wit him. so my addvice is, take a break so ur not all over guys and they start to think ur a sl*t.
2007-05-30 21:55:48 · answer #5 · answered by i_laugh_at_u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chill! Totally chill out about the BF. Start journaling and blogging and get into defining who you are. You can't get into a relationship with anyone until you know who you are. This is your time to get in touch with who you really are and what you are really about. Honey, bless your heart, slow down a little and get to know yourself. This isn't about anyone else but you. Find out what makes you happy and what you have to give. Everything else will fall into place.
2007-05-30 22:00:01 · answer #6 · answered by rb29440 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you think you deserve a boyfriend because...? your ex broke the engagement with you? that doesn't sound rational...
there will come times in your life where you will be in a relationship with someone. But it shouldn't be because you "deserve" it.
you earn what it is you keep.
2007-05-30 21:54:08 · answer #7 · answered by sum1_keeps_taking_my_name 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW, times sure have changed......
kids are too focused on trying to be grown
turn off that BET and watch some BARNEY>
It is almost ten o'clock and you are like the third CHILD I have to put in bed..goodnight..
2007-05-30 21:53:43 · answer #8 · answered by *HOT*GHETTO*MESS* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont waste your worries on that... im tellin you im in my young 20s and im in a realtionship that i wish i was with my ladies instead of my man,, i love him but your to young to settle down, and what if your sexually active, not saying that you are, but just in case what if you got pregnate at such a young age, your done for... not mentioning your parents???
2007-05-30 21:58:17 · answer #9 · answered by INDO 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should wait. A boyfriend is not something that you "deserve"...You either have one or not, but you DO NOT "deserve" it...pleeeeeeeeeeaaaaaaaase
2007-05-30 21:52:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋