My Ex broke my ♥ about 1 year and 9 months(i've been counting!!) Now my friends think i'm just acting silly with"not having a boyfriend thing". So don't say i'm a slut cuz i didn't have another boyfriend 4 a very long time!!!!, on my other question, it jus felt like he broke up with me.....so yea any suggestions on how to get a guy notice me;)......and i'm 13, so keep it rated PG!!! Mahalo!!!
2007-05-30 15:09:59 · 17 answers · asked by Mz. KUTIE 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know it's not what you want to hear, but... at your age, you don't need to be worrying about b/f's. There are a lot more important things to worry about, like school, grades, ect... and growing up. You'll have plenty of time to worry about boys/ guys later, and trust me, they are enough of a handfull as it is to want to start worrying about it now.
2007-05-30 15:16:12 · answer #1 · answered by Faith . 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think the first thing you need to do is to slow down, take a deep breath, and make your questions a little clearer to read...
The first thing you need to do is forget your ex - two years is more than enough time to forget someone even if you were married to them for 10 years!
Unfortunately, I don't have any advice to give you on HOW to do this...
It may be hard to do, but just ignore what your friends are saying - true friends would never talk smack like that... Once you have gotten over your ex, you will be ready to start looking for someone new.
I haven't been 13 for a while (I'm 29) - so I'm not sure what you can do to get someone to notice you...
The first thing you can do is to NOT try too hard. Guys (and girls) of any age can smell desperation a mile away - and they will run for the hills if they sense that you are desperate.
2007-05-30 22:22:13 · answer #2 · answered by kr_toronto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, first of all, I'm sorry that nobody is treating you seriously, and writing stupid
make-you-feel-little and inferior comments. Don't listen to them.
Anyone can fall in love at any age. When I was younger, (12), I really felt I was in love with this girl Melissa. I loved everything about her. She was the funniest girl I'd ever met, she had a sarcastic, smart personality, and nobody was like her. She had freckles, an elf nose, and this short, blond, messy head of hair that was something similar to that of a mop. I loved her though, until she admitted she like this kid Nick. I went home that day, and cried for hours upon hours on my bed.
The point is, if you really dedicate yourself to a person, you typically have heartbreak. Just be friends with the people you want to date, and they'll like you back. Whether it means you'll start dating or not, it won't matter in the end. TRUST ME, you will find much more joy in being friends with him then dating him. But let boys come to you, and don't let yourself become desperate, because guys don't like that.
If you want to start dating now, go ahead. It'll prepare you for the rest of your life, and it will make you happy. Unlike the beliefs of most people, being in a relationship isn't always a bad thing. It can be fun. It doesn't really matter the age, besides, this is the age you start dating anyways, so go ahead.
2007-05-30 22:35:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, so let me get this straight. You are now 13, & you had your heart broken by a boy when you were about 11 or 12 ?
What you need to do is SUCK IT UP, & move on.
If you can have your heart broken, & mourn the end of a relationship for more than 21 months then you just aren't ready to have a boyfriend. Just on the basis of your age, you aren't ready to have a boyfriend. This is the EXACT reason why 13yo girls should keep on playing with their Barbies, & stay away from boys until at least 16.
So no, I don't have any suggestions on how a 13yo girl can get a guy to notice her, because YOU AREN'T READY for that.
2007-05-30 22:20:32 · answer #4 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Um... what clubs do you belong to? What did you have for homework today? Why are you trippin' off guys at your age?
On the real, there's no reason for you to be dating this young. Having a boyfriend doesn't make you who you are. It know it's cool and the in thing to do but it's not necessary and you don't know jack about love.
Keep your head in the books. There's plenty of time for boys and by then you'll have the brains enough to choose a good one.
Oh... one more thing. There's no such thing as a 'serious relationship' at 13.
2007-05-30 22:16:14 · answer #5 · answered by da6dark6angel6 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay, so you're 13 and you haven't had a boyfriend for 1 year, and you think this is a problem? Maybe you should take time to figure out who you are before you start worrying about if you need a boyfriend or not.
2007-05-30 22:13:22 · answer #6 · answered by Cheesy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, to get boys to notice u, u wanna b sweet and nice to alot of ur friends. if a boy that u like see's u blowin up on wanna ur friends, he'll think that thats the way u will threat him. that will totally turn a guy off. And dont act like a sl*t. Even though alot of girls that are sl*ts get bf's really fast, they are just used and thrown away. then u really will hav a broken heart. Juss b sweet and nice but not a goodie too-shoes. and have fun wit ur life.
2007-05-31 09:53:30 · answer #7 · answered by i_laugh_at_u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boys will come and go. Don't waste your time trying to get boys to notice you. You are only 13! Enjoy going out with your friends and shopping instead. You should start dating after high school when you've actually matured and the boys you are interested in are no longer just boys.
2007-05-30 22:15:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please, please, PLEAZZE start acting your age. I don't know what kind of dating a 13 years old does and I hate to be the one to tell you, but you are just a kid. Enjoy your childhood. Hang with your girlfriends and do silly things. The carefree days of childhood are too few to cut them short by things like an unexpected pregnancy or a sexually transmitted disease. It broke my heart the other night when I read a posting of a 17-year old who hadn't told her parents she was pregnant because they were sure she would be going off to college because she was an honor roll student, etc.
2007-05-30 22:16:56 · answer #9 · answered by Darby 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
13, wow.
ok hawaii.
well boys should be the last thing on your mind.
you should have fun.
keep it "pg" as you said.
the stress of being in a relationship is so much leave it for later when you're older and can manage more.
2007-05-30 22:13:34 · answer #10 · answered by [insert something clever here] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋