I'm chubby and no guys ever like me and it's really depressing because I don't see why skinny girls are so much better than me...do you find chubby girls repulsive?
2007-05-30 15:15:33 · 28 answers · asked by red_rose_kiss2010 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but it's better for you to know the truth and act on it. I don't care much for fat girls. I'm just not attracted to them. I wouldn't say that they're REPULSIVE . . . I just wouldn't date them. Girls don't have to be model thin to get my attention (actually, a few models are too skinny . . .), but I won't stand for obesity. If you're outside of the recommended healthy range for body weight, then you're probably not my type. Losing weight is easy . . . it's just a gradual process. There aren't any healthy shortcuts to it either. Just exercise will power and habitually eat the right amount and exercise periodically. Don't get depressed about it, it's easy to lose weight no matter what people say. You'll feel a lot better about yourself afterward too. I resent the hostility some fat people have for skinny people who don't fancy fat people. They act like the world owes them something. The fact is, obese people don't look right and they aren't healthy either. It's not natural. Good night!
2007-05-30 15:32:28 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. They don't call them "love handles" for nothing you know. I don't like girls that are very scrawny and a lot of guys agree with me about that. If she weighs three hundred pounds, that's repulsive, but if you mean just a little chubby, no way.
2007-05-30 15:19:25 · answer #2 · answered by fuzz 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how old you are but let me assure you, there are plenty of guys of all ages who find girls with "a little extra" very attractive. Don't give up on yourself and don't think you have to starve yourself. I am married to a girl (woman) who weighs about 175. I never dated a skinny girl simply because I loved fuller-figured girls. Always did, always will! I know it may be hard to believe, but just believe that the right guy will come along who will love you for you...tall or short, big or little.
2007-05-30 15:20:16 · answer #3 · answered by Gary E 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
no way! im chubby i have a boyfriend who finds me beautiful. I've had other boyfriends who have agreed. It's not whats on the outside that counts anyways, its whats on the inside. boys that find chubby girls repulsive are jerks, they dont know what they're missing! there is nothing wrong with us, i bet there are more chubby girls than skinny girls in the world, so men are gonna have to learn not to judge us by our looks, but how we truly are. learn to love your body, its with you forever. no matter how it looks, its you!
2007-05-30 15:24:38 · answer #4 · answered by meowmeow 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I felt that way for a long time. and you know what? don't let someone's opinions dictate how you feel about yourself. Confidence is beautiful and better than any number than you'll see on a scale.
And if you really don't like what you see in the mirror, try working out 3-4 times a week and eating healthy. Don't do this to lose weight, or for anybody else, but do it for yourself and to raise your self-confidence (and to be healthy).
:)
2007-05-30 15:21:46 · answer #5 · answered by thepeepster85 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, depends on how chubby we r talking... Kidding. Everyone likes someone. Someone out hter ehates sticks, and finds chubby girl hot. GL!
2007-05-30 15:18:08 · answer #6 · answered by Star 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sometimes being chubby is a sign of laziness or no self control. but every guy has his own taste, and i know alot of guys who are attracted girls on the heavy side. the way to a mans heart is threw his stomach and lets face it, chubby girls are good cooks.
2007-05-30 15:20:32 · answer #7 · answered by team hassolhoff 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well first, guys who don't take time to get to know you enough to like you are shallow. Two, you need to have more confidence and I agree with someone before me who said you sometimes have to have a great personality...just smile, be friendly, perky and fun...and make sure ppl respect you at the same time. Dress in clothes that are nice and fit you well..don't wear things that are too tight or not made for your body type. And don't put yourself down....be proud of who you are ok.
2007-05-30 15:23:06 · answer #8 · answered by Shae 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
some chubby girls just piss the **** out of me. I don't hate them for being chubsters I sometimes see a bad attitude in them. If you are chubby, but not a fag then thats cool!!!
2007-05-30 15:19:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hell no I don't find them repulsive, But when you say chubby, what are you actually saying. Alot or alittle. Not that it really matters to me. Let me know
2007-05-30 15:20:31 · answer #10 · answered by anthony r 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋