es how expensive a cafe you go to. Also, is it polite to ask on a first date to see medical records to see if date has any diseases of any type, or do you wait for second date for that kind of personal information?
2007-05-30 07:32:36 · 34 answers · asked by victorschool1 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NO NO, Ask in the first 30 minutes. We girls love to be asked this stuff it gets us really horny!
Dont be a pr@t!
2007-05-30 07:36:34 · answer #1 · answered by Psycho Chicken! 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ha that's like a fifth date type of thing... don't even think about bringing that up on the first date or even think about doing it that early... that needs to wait.
But it's a big slap in the face if you were to ask that, especially on the first date... it's important to know, and I think it's a great idea that you ask... But if you ask that on the first date it's 1) Saying "Hey I wanna have sex with you tonight" and 2) You seem like the kind of girl I have to question...
Neither one comes off great, for now just get to know this person and when it's time to bring it up... casually bring it up and just let her that you need to know before anything more happens.
2007-05-30 07:36:29 · answer #2 · answered by joedudez 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well with all do respects sir I think you sound like a pig. If you really cared about this person sex would never come up right away, especially not on the first date. You would sound like a slut or something. You should probably get tested for any things you could have caught if your having sex with people on the first date often.
2007-05-30 07:37:52 · answer #3 · answered by rebekah g 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
is sex the only thing on your mind when you spend time or money on a date?? this sounds pretty shallow of a thing to worry about on the first date. at least take the time to see if it's worth stressing over. If all your out for is a little action, protect yourself, condoms, spermicides and anything else on the market. if you need medical records, try to date someone who does not stand on the corner of central and washington streets at midnight. i do not mean to sound harsh, but take your time, get to know who you are dating.
2007-05-30 07:42:43 · answer #4 · answered by jenna 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont ask that on a first date!!!! I bet most the guys that youve dated dont ever call you again if these are the questions you are asking. The first question makes you sound like a slut, the 2nd..like a gold-digger, 3rd..makes you sound like a psycho path!!! Dont even ask that **** on a 2nd date!!!!!Do you go to your first dates with a manila folder in hand with all your medical records ready to show, and paycheck stubs to show?? GET A LIFE!!!
2007-05-30 07:41:26 · answer #5 · answered by RED SONIA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should put out on the first date and ask for the medical records on the 3rd date.
2007-05-30 07:35:31 · answer #6 · answered by THEMURPHSTER 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First of all you shouldn't even be thinking about having sex on the first date you don't even know them and they do not know you.
You should get to know them before you jump into bed with them and by getting to know them you hopfully should find out if they have diseases or viruses.
By waiting will also keep you from making mistakes such as getting someone pregnant.
2007-05-30 07:41:20 · answer #7 · answered by Baby Girl 65 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd say wait 30 minutes before discussing sex, and 60 before requesting STD release forms. The key is to make sure you don't engage in any sexual acts between the 30 and 60 minute marks. Good luck!
2007-05-30 07:35:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
first date, sex? You obviously haven't heard of the at least three date standard! most people wait at least that long! sex on the first date means it could easily be a one night stand, that's how most girls translate it! seriously, if you're thinking like what you wrote, I wouldn't date you if you paid me! What you wrote was incredibly shallow, you really need to get a clue. girls like romance. not, "do you have any diseases and if not will you screw me before you really know much about me?" Really think about what you said there!
2007-05-30 07:38:40 · answer #9 · answered by Supa is Supa 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should ask to see the medical records before you ask for the date.
2007-05-30 07:36:14 · answer #10 · answered by John 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you try to get to know the person you're thinking about having sex with first? That way, if he/she is a complete jerk, you won't have to worry about medical records, etc. Either that, or hire a hooker.....then you can just wear a condom and not worry about it all....none of that emotional garbage that girls bring into having sex with a guy and all that....
2007-05-30 07:35:30 · answer #11 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋