HELP..this guy is creeping me out.?

Question

i already told this guy to stop and end his love for me..because we can only be friends..although we go out and and talk sometime and text each other..it doesn't mean i already love him..i always try to bring my friends whenever his asking me to go out..but he makes some alibi not to bring my friends..

we stopped seeing each other for a year and half..but his not giving up..i mean..he knows everything about me..all the things that happened to me the time we didn't see and talk..it creepy..!What pisses me is that i also told my family that he wants to marry me..!

his also asking for a second chance but i told him no more and never.,.but his still insisting..!..i already ignore him, told him that i dont love him, almost anything..but i dont want to be rude with him..

can somebody give me an idea/comment/suggestions what to do with this guy?

>> I already change my number twice..and he still know my number and i don't know where he got my number.. i already told my friends not to give numbers or even mention me in case he asked about me..he ones text me that someone is telling him informations about me..

>> i have been avoiding him, hide away from him, makes excuses, i have also said rude and bad thins towards him..that why some of my friends thinks im so rude at him..ignore him and everything..

>> one more thing..his father is a police with a very high position..and this guy is a member of a well known organization..and almost all of the members knows me..

Answer 1

Stop being nice. You don't want to hurt his feelings, but you're leading him on. It's better for you to just tell him you can no longer see him, even as a friend, because he's not taking the hint. Trust me, once you get him out of your life, someone better will come along!

Answer 2

If you really want him out of your life.....then DO NOT contact him in anyway shape or form. Change your number, set everything you have on the internet to private, tell friends and family not to speak with him. Change up your routine in case he is following you. After all of this if you still feel that he is stalking you, go to the police and file for a restraining order. This dude sounds creepy and you really don't know what people are capable of anymore. So stop even talking to him at all and move on.
Good Luck and I hope this helps.

Answer 3

Sometimes, you cannot even be friends. If someone likes a person so much, their desire is too hard to control for mere friendship, so if you really want him out of your life, my suggestion is to stop any and all contact with him. Expalin to him that you don't think being friends will work at this juncture, because of his emotional ties to you. Stop text messaging him. Simply quit responding and MOVE ON. Obviously, if this becomes a stalking thing, or you are having concerns for your safety, then contact the authorities. It is not about being rude, but setting healhy, needed boundaries.

Answer 4

He's been rude to you, you should tell him straight to his face that you do not like him and that he's scaring you. If he turly loved you, he'd want you to be happy in any way possible. He's being very greedy of you.
If all doesn't work, call the cops and tell them that there's a man stalking you (which he is), or ask if you can file a law suit or get a restraining order. He's invading your personal space. There is something wrong with this dude, you need to get rid of him one way or another. If not, this probably will persist until he finally grabs hold of you and rapes you or something. You don't need to deal with that.

Answer 5

if its been that long you should not worry about being mean.... maybe that is the only way that he will pay attention.... you could invite him to coffee to talk to him .... tell him with detail why you want him to stop and tell him that if he does love you then he will let you do your life...without him... tell him if anything you guys can only be friends... but most importantly tell him you guys need to break contact for a short while just to give him time to get used to the situation.... but if none of that works.... there are always restraining orders :)


i hope this is helpfull :)

good luck!!

Answer 6

Tell him that stalking is a crime and so is harassment and unwanted advances tell him if he cannot accept being your freind and being on a friend level then he needs to move on and end your friendship dont talk to him dont text him nothing.. Tell him to forget you exist and if he gets really bad call the cops and have them put a scare into him.. Good luck

Answer 7

if i were u and it was this serious that he gets ur new fone number out of no where and u dont no who gave it to him and if u asked all of ur friends and ur friends said no i havent given anybody ur number than u should report to the police because one thing can lead to another and something bad could happened so report it cuz trust me i have a stalker @ my church and he doesnt leave me alone he emails me text me calls me and everything he doesnt leave me alone n i start theatening him saying im going to tell the pastor and everything ima go to another church cuz of him and everything it works for like a couple of weeks (i think im the heaves when he doesnt bother me on those weeks) it works and evrything but sometimes u have to get tough even if it hurts the person feelings cuz than they will understand wat not ever to do to a girl or boy

Answer 8

dont pay attention to him anymore dnt text him or call him or lok at him just pretend that he fell off the earth and if he confronts you then say you told him over and over again that there is nothing between you guys and if he doesnt want to accept that then you guys wont have a friendship either

Answer 9

Hmmm... do u have any close guy friends? Grab one of them and say that he is your boyfriend and that u have moved on with your life, and that if he truly loves u he should do the same...

Answer 10

Dude if he knows all that about you know matter how much you change your info, he is a stalker. Report him, the authorities will keep you safe and away from that jerk!