2007-05-30 05:24:41 · 32 answers · asked by FINI 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
bootycall
2007-05-30 05:27:10 · answer #1 · answered by lickonsumhonee 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'd be pissed but give him the benefit of the doubt. Just because she wants him doesn't mean that he wants her. Don't over react just yet. Let things play out and see where things go. He has no control over her calling him unless he asked her to call. Which if thats the case he must be pretty stupid. Either way I'd ask him, "I noticed your phone ringing at 3am is there anything i need to be worried about?" See what he says. If he's never given you a reason to not trust him then you should take his word. But I'd still keep my eye out for any "interesting" behavior.
2007-05-30 05:31:43 · answer #2 · answered by Fox 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think either he has a psycho woman stalking him (that somehow got his phone #??) or he's cheating. Sorry, but I'd say there's a good chance he's cheating. Even if it is just a case of a psycho stalker, how did she get his phone #? Maybe it's a crazy ex-girlfriend. My ex was calling me in the middle of the night long after I divorced him and had remarried. My advice....try to figure out who the girl is and if she is an ex. If she's just an ex, then I wouldn't worry about it too much. If she's someone new, then you may have a problem. Then, I would ask him who the heck is this woman calling at 3 in the morning? Good luck.
2007-05-30 05:29:42 · answer #3 · answered by Amy27 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'd think "what the hell are you doing calling my man at 3am?" And then I'd be asking him, what the hell is going on? It had better only happen this once or you can answer your phone anytime alone in your bed...
2007-05-30 05:28:08 · answer #4 · answered by Innisfil g 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't jump to any conclusions. Do you trust him? If so, give him the benefit of the doubt.
Perhaps they're good/old friends, and she's just suffered some sort of loss and needs someone to talk to. I tell you from experience that platonic relationships do indeed exist. Half of my very close friendships are with women, and no sexuality whatsoever is involved.
If you don't trust this guy, why are you with him?
2007-05-30 05:27:44 · answer #5 · answered by Mike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think that one, there's an emergency and I would have answer that said "If this is an emergency please call 911 and not my man" 2. she wants my man and me and my man are bout to get in an argument. or 3. the broad needs to put her phone on keylock cause she probably rolled over it and it just called a number (I used to do that, people hated me)
2007-05-30 05:31:50 · answer #6 · answered by Lexi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless it is his mother no girl should be calling him at 3 am...actually nobody should be calling anyone at that hour. If you have trust issues with your boyfriend you need to talk to him about it, tell him you dont like girls calling at 3 am. I think that women can be friends with men, and thats all. I have a few guy friends and my boyfriend has a few girl friends I know who he is coming home to and vice versa. We have a trust in eachother that personally I think every couple should.
2007-05-30 05:33:07 · answer #7 · answered by Heather 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either he is getting a late nite booty call, or has received one from her in the past!
You know how that is. You come home all drunk from the bar, and go thru your phone list thinking who you can get some *** from! Unfortunately for you, she might have gotten some from your man in the past!!!
2007-05-30 05:29:09 · answer #8 · answered by Babycakes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on what the message was and if she was drunk or not. my fiance's ex called the other night drunk and left a message about wanting some guys phone number so yeah i wasn't concerned. If she would have called sober and saying oh honey give me a call back i miss you i would have had to have a talk with him. good luck! chances are if he's not trying to hide it from you it's not a big deal!
2007-05-30 05:28:55 · answer #9 · answered by Supermommy!!! 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
More information is needed really. But dont jump to conclusions. It could be a wrong number for one!
Dont confront your your man till you have solid facts either.
Personally I would get her number and call her back, get to the bottom of it and dont let it stew.
Do whatever it takes to find out who she is and why shes calling. Its the only way.
2007-05-30 05:32:04 · answer #10 · answered by TRACY H 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think I need to slap his azz awake and find out what's going on!!! 1st call the number and find out what is her reason for calling your man and especially in the early morning.
2007-05-30 05:34:39 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋