My boyfriend was on vacation for 2 weeks and now hes home. I saw him 2 nights ago at our work and he seemed really happy to see me but didnt say anything about calling. He didnt call yesterday and hasnt so far today. I'm worried...whats wrong? Its not like we are exclusive so if he did something while away he shouldnt be feeling guilty
2007-05-30 07:39:49 · 23 answers · asked by mike 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
kate...i feel for ya...but hey sometimes guys are THAT weird...they just need like a breather...he just came back...give him some time..hes what i like to call " re-adjusting to his previous form" which is being with u ....trust me...if anyones boyfriend/girlfriend goes away for a day or two or 2 weeks in ur case...there is going to a different attitude hes going to show..so just be patient he'll snap out of it
2007-05-30 07:46:05 · answer #1 · answered by Ash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a day or two because he might have some valid reason for not calling.Why dont you call and talk to him? If you think he is lying then its probably time to get a new guy.
Cheers!
2007-05-30 07:44:30 · answer #2 · answered by Ajay C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends so much on who he is and on his current situation. Maybe you are right that something happened, but it may not be what you think. He may need you a lot, but something inside prevent him from expressing or even realizing it. Who knows? Wait and see. Be independent as well.
2007-05-30 07:48:03 · answer #3 · answered by My account has been compromised 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
..may be he has some one on the side .where is you best friend .did you see her??????where is his best friend may be he is gay !!!!!but that OK ..he is gay .. but that is not on you .that on his mom an dad .do not call him up .call up some new baby you do not need that .an if call tell him . sorry i have too go now .tom is here bye. get a new man .i am 41 yrs old an a man..an i am telling you to say good bye too him..
2007-05-30 07:49:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You aren't exclusive. He's not your b/f, you aren't his g/f. He has no obligation to you. He doesn't have to call. I'm sure the thought hasn't even crossed his mind. I know I never called girls I wasn't excusive to.
2007-05-30 07:48:27 · answer #5 · answered by angel of death 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you work together, why not just ask him why he hasn't called? Get it out in the open and go on from there.
2007-05-30 07:43:27 · answer #6 · answered by Elaine P...is for Poetry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not exclusive than how can you say he's your bf? He is not that into you if he hasn't called you by now.
2007-05-30 07:44:02 · answer #7 · answered by mayihelpyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, chill out. he's probably busy. doing things.
don't depend on him to always call you.
you have to make an effort as well.
trying giving him a call.
im sure he'll be happy to hear from you.
2007-05-30 07:44:07 · answer #8 · answered by teddyGisgreat! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be you can make the first call, asking about his trip!!!
then you will know......
Or you can wait a few days, then try talking at work...
2007-05-30 07:43:22 · answer #9 · answered by Adam D. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're not exclusive then there's not obligation to call you.
2007-05-30 07:42:40 · answer #10 · answered by John 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋