I have been dating this guy. He is great and I think we have chemistry. Anyway, this past thursday I have had my wisdom teeth removed (all four) and I have been resting since than...anyway, he never called me but have text me frequently. Usually at night after 12:30 or so..Anyhow, he is a very active and outgoing guy, has many friends and whatnot..and last night he called me since I feel better now I text him i wanted to hang out about today..so we were on the phone talking and he said one of his friends was having a bbq and pool party, and that we can go. I told him that I had my period so i won't be able to swim. So he brings the party up and wants me to go than after I said that he was like than what can we do?..etc than we talked about other things and he came back on the subject and asked me if "I was invited to this party?" and I said no i am not and he tells me than how are you going to go? I was really upset that he would say that bc why bring it up if i cant go right
2007-05-30 07:39:36 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that comment really got to me. he was the one to bring the subject up and told me about this party and than tells me what we can do there than all of a sudden asks if I am invited? I mean I am dating him can't he bring me along if he is invited
2007-05-30 07:40:19 · update #1
I always say turn the table on him and watch what happens. Don;t answer his calls for a couple days and do not answer text messaging and when he comes to your home, let him know why and let him know that the next time it will be forever. if he loves you , he will apologize and maybe he didn't mean ti the way it came out, if not, let him go because you are nothing but his good time girl
2007-05-30 07:44:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He just doesn't want you to go and he realized that a little too late since he let it slip that you two could go to that party, so when he realized what he had done he had to get out of it somehow, that was the best he came up with that you're not really invited. You shouldn't date someone with no imagination :) j/p.... But for real tho, he just doesn't want you to go, for whatever reason.....
2007-05-30 14:47:16 · answer #2 · answered by melimel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once he asked these questions, you seemed like you had no idea about the party, maybe he was just trying to see why you had no idea, setting things out. Doesnt make him an asshole, or does it? Did he invite you?
2007-05-30 14:45:10 · answer #3 · answered by Constipation 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should be able to just take you with him. If its a friend of his they shouldn't care. Maybe you should let this guy go it dont sound likes e cares about you very much. Good luck.
2007-05-30 14:46:28 · answer #4 · answered by shedevil1978 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like an idiot.
If you like that kind of thing, good luck to you.
Otherwise, see if you can find someone with an IQ over 35.
2007-05-30 14:44:07 · answer #5 · answered by khanofali 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a jack a$$ party to me. let him go to the stupid party. take yourself to a movie or go do something all for yourself -- pamper yourself. don't sit around waiting on him. life is to short to waste time on self centered butt heads like that.
2007-05-30 14:44:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is for the most part an immature a--hole and I would dump him. find someone better and better looking too that way you can make him jealous and it is sort of like throwing it in his face that he let you get away . good luck .
2007-05-30 14:44:14 · answer #7 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes to your original question, and no to your 2nd statement.
2007-05-30 14:45:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! And he has other chicks on the side for when you are on the rag!
2007-05-30 14:44:33 · answer #9 · answered by wondermom 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that's just typical thoughtless on his part young guys are like that you just need to let him know so he can start to understand
2007-05-30 14:44:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋