Family & Relationships - 25 May 2007

I'm in college and i've been sitting by myself basically for a month now... i'm19 yr old male and i dress pretty good and i look decent i guess. But i dont know anyone here cuz i just moved here and i live on my own. I dont know if this is just in my head or if its real but i have the feeling that a lot of the girls in my class are checking me out... today when i was walking out of class a girl came up to me and said she liked my shirt?
then another girl from my class asked me what time it was when there's a clock in the room. Her friend also asked me if i was gay and i didnt respond i just walked away. Do these girls like me... i think they dont because none of the girls have asked me out or talk to me during class.

I went up to one girl i thought was cute and i said "hi" to her but she just looked at me and didnt say anything... can someone tell me what is up here? im so confused

2007-05-25 06:03:23 · 6 answers · asked by puablondes 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay so my fiance and I had a little girl not that long ago. The problem is, is our families are trying to run our lives. They are nit picking at every little thing. Like this, we talked with our doctor and we were discussed her feeding schedule and how much she eats and her doctor said she couldn't be better and she's getting the right about, yet my mother-in-law is going to my mother and telling her that we're feeding our child too much and that she's huge (which she's not even close!) so my mother freaks out and freaks out on me! It's getting rediculous, our families are not just helping us. They are running our lives telling us what exactly to do, when to do it, and how to do it. We know what we're doing and they need to back off. I know they want to help, but they're going way over the line, enough is enough. As much as I wanna tell them all to shut their mouths, I can't. How can I basically tell them that I am my daughters mother and they aren't, but in a polite manner

2007-05-25 06:03:08 · 24 answers · asked by shontai 3 in Family

2007-05-25 06:02:03 · 19 answers · asked by william m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-25 06:01:49 · 14 answers · asked by tweety 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am not that handsome but normal and slim. it happens that i like a girl who is very beautifull. I dont know if she would ever date with me when there are much more good looking guys around. Is that all about a man that you care?

2007-05-25 06:01:07 · 9 answers · asked by Johanpaul 1 in Singles & Dating

I just got married second time. I am 42 and husband is 51, he has a 9 years old son . I work full time as a teacher, he is self employed in construction. I have no idea how much money he makes, I am on a set income. I give him $700 a month towards the $2600 house payment, other that that we have separate money that we use at own discretion. I kinda like it, but it bothers me because it doesnt' sound right. We dont' even have a joint account, and I have no idea what is our financial situation like. He doesnt like talking about "issues". and never initiate any discussions. How shoudl i approach this issue? How do other other people deal with the similar situations?

2007-05-25 05:58:06 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my mother-in-law is very master minded.. and dont have hat mind to play such plans and games at home and i dont want even to waste my life playing politics with my mother-in-law or with my husband... my husband used to love me alot, i got married last year i dont have kids...my mother-in-law ia big liar... and she tells all lie to my husband about me... AND MY HUSBAND is such a SON that, he respect his mother fullest and blindly believe her.. when my mother-in-law tell some lie about to my husband, he believe it blindly and stop talking to me, diminishes his love to me which is obvious and he does not believe me at all.. although i'm good to every body with my all in-laws but all are with my mother-in laws nobody's on my side except my own mother and father ! i want my husband love back to me... and i want to live happily with him ! i dont want to waste my life playing all such games with my mother-in-law... my husband is always a tail of his mother. i will never believe me

2007-05-25 05:54:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I'm planning my wedding and trying to decide on a date. I've been told you should allow 12 months to plan the wedding. Does anyone have any tips for deciding the date or just planning the wedding in general. We've already decided on where the wedding will be. Also does the wedding party need to be even (i.e, same number of grooms men and bridesmaids)?

2007-05-25 05:54:04 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

What makes you want to put your thing in a girls b hole?

that is gross to me, but why do most men like it?

2007-05-25 05:51:34 · 15 answers · asked by Holly J 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a sister and she is younger than me. she is my only sister and I don't have any brothers. She was raised up correctly by my mother . When she got married , she cheated on her husband after maybe 2 to 3 years. I knew she realy ment it and I did not care to forgive her , but her husband did . So I spoke to her but our relationship was not the same . Now she cheated on him about two more times and still expects me to forgive her for that. She says it is a mistake. I told my parents that I did not want to speak to her again. They took her side and she is totally wrong and because she has done so much things that I didn't even mentioned here. I make good money and I have my own house and I don't owe for it . I built it myself and with my money. Now my mom said that the house they have they will give it to my sister because she feels if something happens to them I will leave my sister out in the road. I told them it is there house and that they could do with it what ever they want.

2007-05-25 05:49:02 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok so get this. I just had surgery two weeks ago on my foot. I am exhausted and this guy-a friend of mine is asking me to go for a 30 minute drive to come see him. He woke me up this morning at 7:30 trying to get me out of bed to go see him even though I don't feel good ringing my phone 5 or six times. 'Please, come see me I haven't seen you in 10 days.' What a jerk. He doesn't care about how I feel. I need to get well again and he wants me to hang out with him for a couple of hours. I feel like sh**. What the hell is wrong with him? What can I do to get him to leave me alone and get off my chest? He is so irritating and he is hurting me because he does not understand how I feel. I had to get my mom to call him so he would stop calling me and begging me to go out with him. I am hurt now but I sware with my anger that will come later, I am going to get so pissed off at him that I will possibly end the friendship and I hate acting like that to anyone.

2007-05-25 05:48:47 · 8 answers · asked by brighid 2 in Friends

My husband works with this female "Robin." At the place where he works there is only 5 people that work there as counselors at a mental health retirement center. It is a very laid back enviornment and they just sit around a room and talk. I have told him that I have problems with his and Robin's relationship. They will call each other on their cells while at work and she calls him while he is at home for questions that she should be asking her husband--like car trouble and kids problems. They sit right next to each other at work even though there are four tables with over 30 chairs. I have also found out he has ytaken her home from work several times without telling me. They talk constantly about very personal stuff. I am just fed up. I don't know if he's cheating or if they're just friends. Any ideas??

2007-05-25 05:46:57 · 48 answers · asked by steeler_chic 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-25 05:45:49 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and I've found out that he's never gone out with anybody and he's not like secretive or anything we're like really good friends and all of the sudden I'm liking him A LOT and I'm not really sure what to do about it.

2007-05-25 05:42:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband went to the lake for this week leaving me here working full time and also taking care of our eight month old daughter.He had also just taken a week to go to the lake at the end of april.His aunt heard about land for sale there for a reasonable price, and feeling sorry for me, she asked me to take a day off of work to go visit him with her.She said, "I'm sure he misses you both."(He is with his parents)They knew what time we would be there, yet we couldn't reach them on their cell for over an hour.(they were on the boat)When we finally got them to answer the phone, his mother tells me that they are catching so many fish that they are going to fish a while longer.It wasn't as if we were going to stay a while....we drove 4 hours just to get there and could only stay for that day. I have never been so heartbroken and furious. Do I have a right to be angry? Do you think that it's wrong for me to recent my husband for loading all responsibilities onto me?

2007-05-25 05:39:57 · 11 answers · asked by flowerbug26 3 in Marriage & Divorce

She is great, we have a wonderful relationship. The word I that describes my mom is simply love, true, unconditional love. Like most moms like that, she is however overprotective and sometimes I wish I could make my own decisions. Sometimes I do'nt gree w/ her, and even other parents say sometimes she goes oveboard w/ her protection. But since I am maybe weak, I never succeed, I don't fight, she wins me w/ her love and sweetness. She has a tactic that always work. When we disagree on something and she sees that's really bothering me, she comes to y bedside at night and with her love and sweet words explain to me her decision. I want your best hun, I love you I'm more experienced, please trust me. I guess she won't back off, but anyway that love takes my anger away and even if I don't agree I end up promising her, w/ all my love, as she asks me, tghat I'll do as she wants. So, I'm defeated, and once I prmise I won't break the promise. I never get resentful, bt sometimes I'd like to win

2007-05-25 05:39:17 · 26 answers · asked by Marta 1 in Family

2007-05-25 05:37:29 · 8 answers · asked by had enough 1 in Marriage & Divorce

She has run away and stayed gone for weeks at a time, has violated her propation and only gets a tap on the wrist from the judge. She comes in wee hours of the night. Years ago she gave false alligations to CPS about abuse(which was founded) meaning dropped. There's much much more, we are christians and believe we cannot give up on children because God did not give up on us in our sin. My question is: she wants my help by signing a parental slip so she could work. She makes it to school when she feels like it and I honestly don't believe this job at papa murphy's will last because she is not dependable and not serious about her life. What should I do, how shoud I look at this whole situtation with her needing my help and she doesnt care two cents about us and our rules?

2007-05-25 05:34:03 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I've discovered that the wife of this mate of mine is cheating on him. Now, it has always been my policy to keep my mouth shut---in fact, I've covered for my mates when they've cheated and they've done the same for me, but this is one's wife who is cheating, and I'm tempted to let him know. The only problem is that usually in cases like this it's a matter of "shoot the messenger" and I don't want to have a rift with my friend. I was in a similar situation years back and when I told then I was accused of trying to break up the marriage, wanting the wife for an affair myself, etc. You can see the pickle I'm in---any advice?

2007-05-25 05:33:48 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

there will be a dinner and reception. Just wondering what the etiquette is...

2007-05-25 05:28:38 · 15 answers · asked by d_ann_c 1 in Weddings

2007-05-25 05:27:26 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-25 05:27:04 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this guy i am with has an orgasm like 1 minute after putting it in...his excuse is that 'i am too tight'

i have been with other guys, and though it didnt take them very long either...they never mentioned anything like that...
does this new guy have a point, is there a too tight possibility or is he just a 'minute man' with a bad excuse?

2007-05-25 05:20:40 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do they have same meaning or its different?

2007-05-25 05:19:32 · 15 answers · asked by Sara007 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-25 05:18:13 · 13 answers · asked by Stoked 2 in Singles & Dating

did not want to hurt me. Does he really want to be with me and eventually marry me ?

2007-05-25 05:16:46 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-25 05:15:07 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I aske a previous question pertaining to my mom over reacting about me having sex.....I did not include an age, i am 17....alot of you asked that in your anwseres....in case you did not get the question it was this:

I finally trusted her enought to tell her i had sex, she totally flipped out screaming crying yelling, and to top it off, she won't let me see or talk to my boyfriend. He loves me, and says he doesnt care he'll wait for me but hello! she was a teegaer too at one time, she made her own mistakes, me being one of them, What gave her the right to react this way. Now I don't trust her at all, and I can't talk to or see the person I do trust. What can i do to mak my mom see that she is really over-reacting?

2007-05-25 05:14:20 · 13 answers · asked by Angel Wilson 1 in Family

He likes me alot....
does anything i want him to...
buys me what i want...
it's really nice....
calls me every night...
but...
he is an awful kisser...
and he loves kissing me...
(cause i guess i am a good kisser...?)
i donno...
but omg...
he trys to impress me all the time...
but i'm always use to being treated like crap and having an amaizng kisser boyfriend...
should kissing really matter that much?
i don't want to hurt his feelings because he is really nice...
i mean we have been dating for a few days and he is already whipped...
what should i do???

2007-05-25 05:09:30 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My neighbours son is just 19 years of age and intends to marry his girlfriend later in the year.
When he was just 12 years of age, he sexually molested his younger sister, who was only 4 at the time.
He had extensive counselling after it occurred.
Should his fiance know about this offence and should he be allowed to marry and lead a normal life?
We all make mistakes and I suppose we are entitled to a happy life.
Do you think it will affect his future with his wife and possibly, children, if they have any?
thanks.

2007-05-25 04:57:36 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce