did not want to hurt me. Does he really want to be with me and eventually marry me ?
2007-05-25 05:16:46 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No, he'll eventually stop feeling sorry for you and start hating you for abusing his emotions with your little tantrums.
2007-05-25 05:19:57 · answer #1 · answered by Pledge_or_Die 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Truthfully, I seriously doubt it. Hes only telling what you want to hear so to calm down after getting all emotional. If he really want you, dont you think hed do it without having you cry all over the place. Personally, I wouldnt trust this guy as I really dont think he even knows what it is exactly he wants and cant deal with you emotionally. In other words, why is he waiting til you get all emotional before he says something? Doesnt make any sense. Theres more here than meets the eye, be ral careful. Good luck
2007-05-25 05:25:37 · answer #2 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, why do you cry a whole lot? If it is what I am thinking, you cry when you feel that he wants to leave. Let him leave. He does not want to be with you anymore. It is going to be really hard and hurtful, but it will pass. You will find someone else better.
2007-05-25 05:23:12 · answer #3 · answered by sweet21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My personal opinion--if you're having to cry to keep a hold of him (something I’d never do because I have more pride than that), then chances are he's only staying out of pity. You deserve better than that. You deserve someone who actually wants to be with you.
Deal with this like an adult (and how old are you, anyway?). Discuss it calmly, *without any tears*. Get an honest answer from him. If he doesn’t want to be with you, then move on.
2007-05-25 05:28:23 · answer #4 · answered by kp 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No and unless you plan to spend an increasing time with an onion in your hankerchief, even the tears won't make him not want to hurt you.
Many men don't like to see a woman cry, it makes them uncomfortable, men don't marry women who make them feel uncomfortable.
A man can like you and not want to hurt you, but not want to marry you, I think this may be what you have here.
2007-05-25 05:24:59 · answer #5 · answered by justa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He can't stand to see you cry and you're using your tears as a form of control. If he wants to be with you he will and if he doesn't and you're crying to make him stay you will lose him anyway. He will take up with someone who isn't that much of a cry baby.
2007-05-25 05:22:00 · answer #6 · answered by justaboutpeace 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like all that crying is guilting him into staying with you. Could be wrong. Not a lot of info in your question.
2007-05-25 05:24:42 · answer #7 · answered by JB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No he does not want to be with you if it takes you manipulating him with tears to get him to say what you want.
Stop crying, let him go and make a life for yourself with someone that wants to be with you.
2007-05-25 05:21:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
No he said he doesn't want to hurt you is basically hes saying its better for you and him not to be together sorry.
2007-05-25 05:20:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it sounds like he's already moved on to someone else and that you manipulate him into either coming back or saying that he wants to be with you. Get over him and find someone better.
2007-05-25 05:19:44 · answer #10 · answered by hekate6164 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋