I would say my husband and I are equal in attractiveness. I think people, men or women, who focus on looks primarily are shallow. One day they will grow up and look for real love.
My sister used to have certain ideals for a man: Very handsome, very trim and fit, no kids, no previous divorces, great wage. etc.
She had many unhappy relationships with shallow men. 3 years ago she met a man who is quite overweight, divorced with two kids and makes a modest but decent salary. She threw her ideals out the window and now has a husband who loves her and treats her right.
2007-05-25 06:06:37
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answered by DSL 4
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Well, a lot of times that happens. A pretty girl is only attracted to handsome men - and the other way around.
But what makes a man attractive to a girl? Is it just the handsome face? or does he genuinely like her? Is he just arm candy or is he successful in business, sports, hobby, etc.? Is he a trophy or perhaps pretty girl is interested in something more?
There's a Will Smith movie whose title escapes me - where Smith plays sort of a match=maker. One of his clients is a goofy kind of guy who is in love with a socialite. With a few nudges from Smith, the man actually gets the girl.
OK that doesn't help you specifically - but what about your love interest - What kind of a girl is she? What are her interests? What classes does she take? What kind of people does she have for friends?
If she's beyond the whole "look at me!" thing - then you have a chance at getting to know her as a good friend (first)- maybe girlfriend (later). If she's still pretty superficial - then let her go and look for someone with more depth of character than Miss Saran Wrap.
2007-05-25 06:13:33
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answered by Barbara B 7
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Well! Frankly speaking, I would not for a simple reason, because "IF" he is handsome, then there are chances that after we get married girls will flirt with him and that would make me jealous and insecure, "OR" maybe he would cheat on me.......:O you can never know.
That's the reason I had rejected good looking guys and married a man, who was not at all handsome, instead wherever we went he would feel proud of me, that he has a pretty looking wife and I never had to worry, even if he got home late, I could sleep peacefully, but then not all girls are alike and think like me.
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Don't go for looks; they can deceive.
Don't go for wealth; even that fades away.
Go for someone who makes you smile,
Because it takes only a smile to
Make a dark day seem bright.
Find the one that makes your heart smile.
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2007-05-25 06:21:57
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answered by Naaz 4
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you have the same chance of getting a beautiful girl that a male model does. believe it or not women want someone who's completely into them and not just into their looks. Why would we want someone who is gorgeous but treats us like crap? I'll take the less attractive guy every time.
2007-05-25 07:33:47
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answered by Sunshine! 3
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no...i ended up likeing a guy,that isn't my exact type...never thought i'd like him but when i saw his personality i became attracted to him. Im told im very pretty and very cute guys tend to like me. So no you should be able to have anyone, don't let ppl erase your self confidence and make your standards lower.
2007-05-25 06:09:24
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answered by Anonymous
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i'm 5'10, fantastically intelligent, and introduced! we are a statistically smaller ingredient of the inhabitants however, so which you have gotten some extra trouble looking a tall female who you in addition to could in high-quality condition with. i could propose going to college campuses, oddly sufficient. it sort of feels college females are taller, a minimum of in my journey.
2016-10-06 01:07:39
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answered by ? 4
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List, if hot chicks had sex with ugly guys.....then the equilibrium of the world would go to hell, and we would not have Jessica Alba's of the world.....so, just stick to your own class of people.....
2007-05-25 06:05:03
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answered by Anonymous
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like ya !
2007-05-25 06:08:47
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answered by Berdine B 1
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not really... personality baby
2007-05-25 06:06:22
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answered by Anonymous
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