Family & Relationships - 25 May 2007

Honestly, even when I've answered a question where I didn't agree with the person, I've always been polite. Perhaps Americans are just terribly harsh? I'm Australian and wouldn't dream of saying some of the things to others that have been said to me.

2007-05-25 06:44:03 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-25 06:40:52 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband has a history of ACTING OUT when frustarted. He has thrown tv remote, kicked shoes across room, beat on my car dash popping out the vents,rammed office chair into desk, punched truck steering wheel repeadtly, drive recoutlessy, threw a cell phone at me while i was driving, slams doors, slammed fist down on table infront of my face, hit a plate of cookies across the room, punched in a bag of potato chips and dumped it all over my living room floor, has told me to shut up in anger, and said F** you.He is in the MARINE CORP BAND, and went to anger management in NOV of 04..I am tired of it, and last night in an arguement in the car about how to drive he slammed on the brakes in the Jeep while going down the highway AT 75MPH!!!! I have told him that in our new home I am not putting up with him and his temper, but here it is AGAIN. WHAT can I do???? Should I go to his Superior? PLEASE HELP ME, he blows off his anger as nonthing.

2007-05-25 06:39:42 · 30 answers · asked by ilih2006 1 in Marriage & Divorce

wen u r goin out a guy always knows wat to do. like how they hug u, hold, u or kiss u...u kno wat i mean its like dey knew it all there life... but how do they know how to do everything...its a complicated ? i gues.

2007-05-25 06:39:05 · 7 answers · asked by if only he knew 2 in Singles & Dating

I am 24, amrried with 2 kids. I have been trying to be happy in my marriage since we got married. I know I rushed into it and that was not at anyone benifit but what is done is done. I recently revealed to my husband that I am not happy and I don't know if I love him. I think he is a wonderful father and he genuanly tries to make me happy. We have both done major damige in the trust department and I have not been able to see past those issues as faults in our relationship. Here is the other part, I am in love with my best friend ( a man ) he and i have a conection I have never had with my husband. I see my self being happy with him. I am at odds with myself right now- do I stay and live a copesetic life where the kids are happy, or do I divorce my husband and be happy. I know I am going to get the response that I need to take time away from men and I plan to be on my own with my kids for sometime before entertaining the thought of blossoming my relationship futher with my friend. Help

2007-05-25 06:39:02 · 8 answers · asked by Sun of the Dark 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-25 06:38:59 · 66 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

which would you prefer?

2007-05-25 06:36:05 · 22 answers · asked by G?ld?n ang?l 5 in Singles & Dating

I have been with this guy for 4 years on and off. He is married with a child which i have never met and been legally separated for over one year. We broke up for a period of 9 months, but he kept calling and haging up the phone. He finally decided to call and talk about our relationship and saying that he is a good guy and he cares for me. We gave it another try, however it did'nt work. We got back together about 2 months without any commitment and he keeps saying we are seeing each other. Why doesn't he want a commitment and still says we are seeing each other?

2007-05-25 06:35:22 · 4 answers · asked by nili 1 in Singles & Dating

Some one ask me out but, he is two year older than me. What should I do

2007-05-25 06:33:35 · 3 answers · asked by ASHLEY B 1 in Friends

My Girlfriend does not seem to want to get physical with me or ever show me signs of affection. I dont think she has ever cuddled me. She never takes the lead in anything. If i try to kiss her and get her in the mood for things she doesnt respond or just keeps talking about things. We have been togther for 9 months yet i can count on the fingers of my left hand how many times we have been intimate. She has recently started the pill and i thought things would improve but they havent she just doesnt seem to have any drive or desire i honestly think i repulse her. I also feel i am always second best when it comes to her friends.

What can i do to make her want to do stuff and be affectionate and close to me? Do you think its unreasonable that I should expect her to stop always puting her friends before me for once in a while?

2007-05-25 06:33:01 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-25 06:32:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-25 06:31:31 · 18 answers · asked by G?ld?n ang?l 5 in Singles & Dating

He says he prefers to work, but he still does not go out there to look for work. I have insisted that he look for a job, at least any job, until he can get something he is qualified for, instead he watches TV, and hangs out with his friends. Is this a phase with young men? Do they want to idle their life away instead of accepting adulthood? What should I do about the situation?

2007-05-25 06:30:32 · 29 answers · asked by cantgetnowordstouse 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

What do you think of a situation where a girl gets engaged and keeps calling her ex-boyfriend and telling him that she still loves him and misses him and "you're my soulmate". When the ex asks her why she is doing this (he's not going back to her even if he could, he's curious) she gets snippy and asks him why he needs to know. It would seem engaged girls who are a month away from getting married and alledgely so much in love with her fiance would be not calling their ex and telling him these kinds of things. Is this abnormal or is the ex out of date with how relationships are supposed to work with young womtn (this one's in her mid '20's)?

2007-05-25 06:30:23 · 12 answers · asked by Tiger 1 in Singles & Dating

i have this guy friend and we havent spoken to eachother for a month,the last time we talked we kinda had an unpleasant conversation but not really terrible and we havent talked since.i really would like closure on the situation which is why i need to talk to him but the thing is if we talk i want to just completely end the friendship which is why i think it makes more sense if he calls me.im angry and not sure what to do,what do you guys think?

2007-05-25 06:28:37 · 2 answers · asked by aleah2515 1 in Friends

2007-05-25 06:27:52 · 12 answers · asked by G?ld?n ang?l 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-25 06:23:38 · 15 answers · asked by thesunshineking 2 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend got married in Jamaica in 2001 and she split with her husband early last year and we got together last October, they both worked hard for the house that they bought and now they have split up. he dumped her, so is she entitled to a "normal" divorce and claim her financial side of the marriage even though they got wed in Jamaica. The marriage was organised through a reputable agency.

before people start i am not after her for her money, we have own own money and thats the way I like it.

Buit i am worried for her where she stands

All help is greatly appreciated

2007-05-25 06:23:03 · 7 answers · asked by Paul C 6 in Marriage & Divorce

How long should someone wait to ensure that the next relationship will not just be a rebound? How do I know that I may be just searching for someone to feel that "void"? Me and my ex just broke up last week, and a new guy just asked me out. Is this too soon to be dating again?

2007-05-25 06:23:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been together for 8 ys. I found some e-mails of his talking about sex and the past w/ this one girl form his childhood(the school slut) . I was really hurt by him talking to her "dirty". Would you feel hurt by this? Am I making a big deal about this? He has told me million time and express his love for me since. He told me he's really sorry.
The thing is this isn't the first or second it's the third time this has happened. Once before we first starting dating then when we got engaged and now. He doesn't go out and have sex but he talks about it and gets emotionally attatchd. I see it as cheating because it feels like he has betrayed me. Am I right to feel this way?
I don't think our sex life is bad it's actually quite good. If anything my drive is going strong but his seems to have lower.
I just don't know if I'm overacting or if maybe I should be more upset.
I'm more hurt then mad.
So ladies let hear your thoughts.
FYI My mother thinks I should leave

2007-05-25 06:20:48 · 25 answers · asked by blazinleti 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-25 06:20:11 · 11 answers · asked by Annette B 1 in Family

My ex and i weren't married, but we had a child together. He is an alcoholic, and was never there for me or my son. He wasn't even there when my son had surgery at 3 weeks old. I finally got the courage to leave him. Now after 6 months my ex wants to see him. i am going to let my son visit, but everytime i think about it I start crying. Is that normal? Should I let my son go visit? What do I do?

2007-05-25 06:18:31 · 12 answers · asked by steph86ely 1 in Family

i have a friend that keeps saying he is horny? i never understood what he ment by that, he always had a crush on some girl and he keeps saying that he is horny. i never felt horny before so i dont know what it feels, so im asking.

2007-05-25 06:17:30 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Are appointments necessary?

2007-05-25 06:15:29 · 5 answers · asked by Charlotte C 2 in Weddings

Hi,

did they use a body double for Tonie Perensky (Ms. Davis the teacher / stripper) in the movie Varsity blues or was that really her?

2007-05-25 06:14:46 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been with him for a year and he has helped me so much.I am not that strong to leave him i need him in ma life i don't know wat to do wiht out him.he is always on my mind,i would do anything for him.He is like ma baby.the next day he cried and begged for me to get back with him.I know he loves me it was my fault he hit me i mad hiom angry thats all but the only reason it bothered me sooooooo much is that he had promised he would never hit me.

2007-05-25 06:12:16 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is marriage a viable option? Her mom is retarded and her sister is a pretentious ***.

It's important to me to marry a girl who's family I get along with but I do love my gf.

This is tough seeing how increasingly attached they are to her. The mother calls everyday and always wants to be around/medle in our live.

The sister controls her. She has little sis syndrome and I can't really intervene. Her sister uses her, manipulates her and ditches all responsibility of the crazy mom on my gf. But she defend her pathetically so.

I hate it. I've had enough of it.

2007-05-25 06:09:24 · 20 answers · asked by 46&2 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-25 06:06:36 · 30 answers · asked by pinksky_froggy 1 in Singles & Dating

I want to do something REALLY special for my wife. She's a wonderful woman who caters to me in every way a woman can cater to her man! She's my baby and I love her more than words can say. What are some suggestions for showing my woman how much I care? (Money isn't a problem! I'm willing to spare no expense). Any suggestions would be appreciated. (No matter how big or small).

2007-05-25 06:06:29 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i love my husband,he is kind, very supportive and he loves me so much but i cheat him last year,i feel so guilty after that.am i bad girl? ofcourse i am yah ryt...

2007-05-25 06:04:03 · 22 answers · asked by valit 1 in Marriage & Divorce