Family & Relationships - 25 May 2007

he says that it's just that he doesnt want to, he doenst feel like it... i know hes not cheating on me .. hes with me all the time and doesnt go out on weekends if its not with me so thats out could it just be because im pregnant?

2007-05-25 08:38:30 · 35 answers · asked by anonymous 2 in Marriage & Divorce

surely that is natures way.......

and it would help conserve water

2007-05-25 08:33:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

should i be grounded for doing this okay we were in our pool in the back garden then for a laugh i thought i would chuck my lil bro in the pool so i did then he started crying and went and told on me so I got grounded but should i be grounded after all it was only a bit of fun

2007-05-25 08:32:11 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I cant get my ex girl friend to stop bothering me and my fiance. She keeps texts messaging me. I dont want to let this bother me but it is. I don't give her any notions or reasons why I would even want to talk to her. Is there anyways that I can block her from texting and calling my cell or will I have to change it? Any answers or thought? Thanks

2007-05-25 08:31:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When a woman gets married in the United States, society expects that woman to give up her identity (change her last name), and take her husbands last name as her own. I am doing research, and would like to hear from people in every country in the world as to what their customs are regarding this situation.

2007-05-25 08:31:19 · 7 answers · asked by bingo babe 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i wanna know

2007-05-25 08:30:48 · 21 answers · asked by Lolly 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-25 08:27:57 · 9 answers · asked by 11 1 in Friends

2007-05-25 08:27:01 · 19 answers · asked by eliza l 3 in Marriage & Divorce

ok what do i tell my bf that i feel the way i do about his ex gf coming to town and living two houses down from him ....how do i tell him that im worried?

2007-05-25 08:24:47 · 27 answers · asked by Proud mama to a little girl<3 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-25 08:22:55 · 1 answers · asked by Marino 3 in Singles & Dating

I met a girl at xmas. I haven't seen her since but a couple of weeks ago i accidently text her. we then started talking and have arranged to meet up. I was really fit at xmas - but in the last few I'm not fat but i feel the extra weight i've put on and i'm scared she'll not fancy me anymore. Any advice??

2007-05-25 08:19:24 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He breaks up with me and then tells me he doesnt care about me but then he comes back to me crying ten minutes later! Why can't I just get myself away?!?!

2007-05-25 08:17:28 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Out of curiosity I have asked my BF to take me to a strip club (girls). I know he likes to go and it doesnt bother me so I figured this would be something we could do together. I have never been to one before and it is a completely nude club. What are some things I could do that would be a turn on for him? I am not bisexual but am open minded...

2007-05-25 08:15:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 7 months prego and the baby is kicking like crazy and moving around under my ribs and my husband doesnt seem to care or have any compassion. I feel like crap, i feel unattractive because i have no energy to fix my hair or put on make up. And he isn't helping. When we are sitting on the couch, i'm like " Wanna feel the baby?" and he rolls his eyes kind of and puts his hand on there for like 5 seconds and says " i didnt feel nothing". If i ask him to massage my back or scratch my back, all i get is a 1 minute massage or a complaint about how his hand hurts. My 6 year old son is more excited about the baby than he is. He wants to go shopping and feel my tummy all the time.
dont get me wrong, he's not a complete butthead. He does clean the house spotless and cook for me cause he's knows i'm tired from working all day long. It's just he doesnt feel my pain. He doesn't understand I can't push mow the grass or get myself out of the bathtub. I think he thinks i'm exagerating! Help!

2007-05-25 08:05:35 · 20 answers · asked by Cutie 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I am going to get married on July 19th. I haven't seen him for a year coz he's in the US and i'm half way across the world from him. I met this other guy at a party, and he's being so sweet... I feel different when i'm with him and I went out for coffee today..... He's funny and amusing. He knows i'm getting married in 2 months and told me that he likes me but will be my friend no matter where I end up at. But he warned me that once he falls in love with me, he won't let me go... I was disappointed that he doesn't love me yet.. you know.. my ego!... But for a moment I thought, what if he's in love with me for real? I can't talk about this with my fiance coz i can't lose him. I don't wanna do something stupid. I do love my fiance, but this new guy is getting me out of my senses...
I feel so confused and getting heart aches coz of that. What am I doing..Why..
It's getting more complicated every minute..
One mor ething, this other guy is from my culture, my fiance is from another

2007-05-25 08:05:19 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

how can i get a women that will love me unconditionaly? what is the chance to find a pure frienship...and sex and hormonns will come after?

2007-05-25 08:03:26 · 12 answers · asked by dan6 2 in Marriage & Divorce

okay . call me stupid whatever but i have been with this guy for 7 years and have a babay with him but we have a love - hate relationship and i can't take this no more how can i break up with him the nicest way possible. i hate break ups how can i do that.

2007-05-25 08:02:52 · 8 answers · asked by j&j 1 in Singles & Dating

with the funds going into her website maybe they can help find madeleine. what do you think.

2007-05-25 08:02:46 · 13 answers · asked by Sazzy 3 in Family

2007-05-25 08:02:26 · 12 answers · asked by older but young at heart 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am living in a situation that has been draining me for along time. My husband has cheated several times during our marriage, to the point where he decided that we needed an open relationship. I went along with it because I loved him. But it didn't seem to matter, things got worse, for the longest time, several years in fact, he spent all of his time w/friends, at the bar, or anywhere that wasn't home. He acted like he didn't care about his family. Finally, fed up with the whole senario, I became close friends with a neighbor. One thing led to another, and after months of being close we finally broke down and had an affair. My husband caught us. Now he is fuming because I cheated. But what about his request for an open relationship that he took advantage of? Why is it only good for him and not me? I have only stayed with him because of our daughter otherwise I would go and leave. I am just trying to figure out why I am the bad guy when I only did what he said was acceptabl

2007-05-25 08:01:23 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok so it's the first week in uni and we're on the bus.This girl sits next to me who i have to admit i thought was really hot the moment i saw her which was bout a few days back.We start talkin , get to know each other and it was a pretty long ride of bout and hour and a half.The more we talked the more we made each other smile.And since we were sitting next to each other our faces were real close and she was giving me this dreamy,ALMOST sensual smile,like u know her head resting on the seat cushion.Then just b4 we reach uni she tells me that i smile like a certain actor and turns around and smiles and says that was a compliment.Was this flirting or just normal beggining of the term making new friends chit chat?Shud i make a move on this girl?Or im just so confused.

2007-05-25 08:01:09 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i just wanted to make some new friends...i asked if anyone wanted to be a friend of mine..i got some replies and i added them......: (

2007-05-25 07:59:46 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

ok well yeah i always look great and its a frist priority fro me everytime i walk out of the house. the thing is everyone says im conceited and i really dont have alot of freinds i guess. What i wanna know is does guys want a girl with great looks and a ok personality or just ok looks and a stellar personality. thanks for the help. oh and how can i be more freindly toward people without looking stalkerish

2007-05-25 07:58:28 · 19 answers · asked by raw604_spongebob 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a white girl and I am married to a black man, we are in love and we are happily married and have been for over a year now. So what I am trying to find out is how many people out there still would treat a couple different because they are two people married and have a different color skin? I want all answers, even people who dont agree with it I know there out there. But I am just curious because every now and then we have some people just stare like they have never seen it before and then there are other people who act like it is nothing its not like its going to change anything we are just wondering and if you dont agree or do, can you please include in your answer what state you are from. Thank you.

2007-05-25 07:56:43 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a boyfriend who treats me great. He is kinda weird at times but i tell him that and he agrees. Everyone does weird things it's just some don't care to show it. Well, to get to the point, My friend was hanging out with us for a few times then yesturday she was saying how she thinks he is the type who would snap and hurt someone or something and that she thinks he is annoying. He isn't always annoying. He isn't even all that annoying. Maybe once in awhile but i tell him that and everyone is sometimes. She said today that he isn't the type of person she would hang out with. What should i do? not be friends with her because she is misjudging him and making him seem like a bad person? she seems like she doesn't even care anyways even about our friendship. My boyfriend never yells at me, controls me, or cheats or anything. I am used to getting hurt and for once i am happy but my best friend won't even hang out with us.

2007-05-25 07:56:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-05-25 07:52:14 · 19 answers · asked by sophybourne 3 in Singles & Dating

Do you just tell them? Does it make you feel better to bestow gifts? Do you do this regularly enough to make it boring or meaningless?
Just how do you convey this all important feeling?

2007-05-25 07:52:10 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

To waste less time... basically, hubby had a 10 month affair. It was recently discovered. I want to file for divorce. There are 2 kids involved. We are agreeing so far. I'm beginning to waiver in my descision. I miss my husband/ friend/ the kids' father, but definately don't trust him.

Is this repairable? Has anyone else recovered? I know that it may be very hard, but am I jumping the gun because I was hurt? I've heard plenty of once a cheater always a cheater.... I don't need to hear that. I need down to earth practical advice.

2007-05-25 07:47:25 · 31 answers · asked by Penny's from Heaven 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I am married for 12 years and have 3 kids. I work with a women who married and has 3 kids. We have always been very close friends. About 2 years ago I thought I was falling in love with her and it took me a while to get over it. The past 6 month or so she seems to be making little hints that she has feelings for me but sometimes it's hard to tell because she naturally has a flirtatious personality. Once a while be back were out drinking and we kissed. Now she keeps joking around saying that we should do that again. Both our marriages are in a little trouble and I honestly think we are 2 people that would be great as husband and wife. How do I address this with her without ruining the freindship?

2007-05-25 07:46:01 · 18 answers · asked by Regular Tampa Guy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

if i choose to plan my wedding, wer can i get a reasonable wedding gown n tuxedo for a price of 20-30K. How much wld i spen for a 100-150 guest if i hav my reception in taal vista hotel?

2007-05-25 07:44:37 · 13 answers · asked by courage 1 in Weddings