Family & Relationships - 25 May 2007

I am a stay at home mom of a 3 year old, 10 year old (in school) and a baby one the way. Any ideas as to how to bring in some extra money each month? I can't work outside of the home as we can't afford daycare. I have considered keeping a couple of children after school....... any advise?

2007-05-25 12:15:54 · 11 answers · asked by rachel 2 in Family

and my daughters church sent us a check to help us as my husband missed several days of work, and we also had extra expenses due to driving back and forth to the hospital.I want to write a thank you note to the church.I wish i were good with words, but am not.was hoping someone could help me write an appreciation letter, thank you so much

2007-05-25 12:13:53 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

how young is too young for love (i'm 14 turning 15 this year)

2007-05-25 12:10:06 · 37 answers · asked by lilmzAI aka basketball shorty 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-05-25 12:08:33 · 10 answers · asked by Tomas H 1 in Singles & Dating

When one of my really good guy friends found out I liked him, he started to ignore me and badmouth me to everyone. This memory is deeply etched in me. I am scared to think of other guys because I don't want to get hurt inside again.

2007-05-25 12:03:49 · 21 answers · asked by Mia 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-05-25 12:02:24 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The people in question have become so toxic, fighting in front of my kids, and there is inappropriate joking, that I often can't help but blush.

2007-05-25 11:57:38 · 7 answers · asked by Rebagv 2 in Friends

Okay my Husband has been deployed for about 9 months. recently he has been just in the last week been doing things he has never been doing since we were together... like asking about have 3 somes and such and like ive never done it before. and he registerd for a porn website... and then alll that kinda stuff i duno hes just acting differently... please help.i dont want to lose him.

2007-05-25 11:57:21 · 35 answers · asked by jbairswifey9706 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I think I have decided to just deal with it cause I cannot break his heart . please tell me i am doing the right thing cause i really feel like crap just for thinking about breaking his heart and telling him . Read last 2 questions to understand and not there not long so don't worry about that ....

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2007-05-25 11:57:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My daughter has 4 kids, ages 1 yr to 10 yrs. She recently married for the second time and her 1 yr old belongs to her new husband. I really don't like the way the husband treats her other kids. I have witnessed him spanking, yelling and even arguing like a child with the 10 yr old. I have talked to both of them about this and she says that as long as he is helping to raise and take care of them then he should be able to discipline them. I do not agree, I had a step daughter for 9 yrs before my husband passed away and I NEVER layed a hand on that child. I live in Las Vegas and they live in Memphis. When I visit my son-in-law tries to be on his best behavior around me but he slips sometimes and gets the evil eye from me, then he backs off. Sometimes when I talk to my daughter on the phone I can hear him screaming at one of the kids in the back ground. It's usually my 10 yr old grandson. I think that my daughter is just as much in the wrong here as her husband, she is their mother.

2007-05-25 11:55:35 · 20 answers · asked by tn2vegas 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

hes really cute and my type of guy and he always smiles at me..........hm i dont know i kinda like him

2007-05-25 11:53:55 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, I've never had sex before but I masturbate alot! I think I've even broken my heimen, Since I've never had intercourse does that mean I am or am not a virgin?

2007-05-25 11:52:38 · 12 answers · asked by 17 years young 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-25 11:52:08 · 15 answers · asked by Kalidas 2 in Singles & Dating

i have tried all the being nice to her and crap like that and it doesnt work!

2007-05-25 11:50:01 · 10 answers · asked by Brian W 1 in Singles & Dating

I've bin with my girlfriend for 7 months and everything is going well but i need to go to mexico for a month and a half .....and we wont be able to talk or email or anything what should i do?

2007-05-25 11:48:43 · 17 answers · asked by poke fan 1 in Singles & Dating

I have known my wife a long time but we started seeing each other only 2 years ago and married in March 2006. I had never married & have no children, we yalked about having children and that is why we got married.
My wife had delibrately let me believe that her first child was from a relationship that "was made in heaven" and she had personally chosen her partner because he was so perfect. However after we had decided to get engaged she dropped the bombshell that in fact he was married with two children and he had left his wife and children to be with her.
Two years before that her previous 4 year relationship to another married man with children ended when he committed sucicide leaving his wife and children alone.
After leaving the father of her son of 15 years she had an affair with a married builder working in her house and used guessed yes behind his wife's back and risking his marriage and family too.
She has a 6 year old daughter to a dropout who she slept with while drunk

2007-05-25 11:42:42 · 29 answers · asked by mermaid 2 in Marriage & Divorce

When my wife and I were still dating, there were times when I would be on the phone with her and I hear her scrubbing the tubs in their family house (where she used to live with her brothers). But when we got married, she bearly ever touches the bathtubs. I have two jobs, come back home, fold her clothes, vacuum, pay majority of the bills, wash the bathrooms, take out the garbage and do any type of maintenance work round our apartment. It is VERY tiring and I feel really used. When I asked her why she never cleans the bathtubs and remind her about how she used to tidy up in their house, she says "I did that because I was the only girl in my house." There have been times when I come home after both jobs (around 11pm) and meet a messy place which I end up cleaning up. Meanwhile she only has one job and just goes to the gym after work. I have spoken up about this, but she seems to take it for granted that it has caused alot of inner resentment in me. Did she put on an act to marry?

2007-05-25 11:42:18 · 16 answers · asked by Blk Angel 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Why do men think we are superwomen. We do working a job, cooking, cleaning, looking after kids and pets and the husband. Men winge when they get a cold and they call it man flu.
Why are men like this

2007-05-25 11:41:48 · 25 answers · asked by littlepixie 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

What are somethings you've heard from girls and you can tell that they're saying one thing but mean a completely different thing and you don't want to say anything wrong for fear you'll end up in the doghouse?

Some things we say and really mean are:
-We say: "I'm fine. No really, I'm fine."
-We mean: "I'm not fine. In fact, things couldn't be any less fine, so you'd better do something to make it better, and fast."

-We say: "Do you think she's pretty?"
-We mean: "I think she's pretty and I think you think she's pretty. Don't lie to me."

-We say: "Let's cuddle."
-We mean: "Let's cuddle, get your hand out of my pants.

-We say: "You're right."
-We mean: "You're right this time...but don't have too much fun being right because you're without a doubt going to be wrong the next time."

2007-05-25 11:38:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He is in my grade, I am a senior in high school, about to graduate in a week and a half, and the time is ticking for me.. the wierd thing is that i've never really noticed him until now. he has been in some of my classes through out the years and ive never really spoken to him, i feel as though we are totally different and may have nothing in common at all, i talked to him a couple times this year, but they are were really meager conversations. haha. but i got a glimpse of his personality. he seems like a cool guy,Hes the loud one in class.(Im the opposite) even though he hangs with the 'preps'/popular kids and i with the 'misfits'/"losers" i have always been really quiet and reserved, its hard for me to be out there and let people know the real me? any suggestions on how i can build myself up im afraid to take the risk and be rejected. i feel like i dont want to disgrace him with my presence. i just wanna know more about him. any help would be GREATLY appreciated!

2007-05-25 11:30:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well 2 start with my bff took my ex b\f and didnt tell me. And on top of that he and I were going 2 go back out. He broke up with me momentarly because of problems happening at home and I know they r. So I still love my ex and I want to keep my best friend what do I do? Help!

2007-05-25 11:28:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband has recently been unfaithfull to me and i am giving him another chance but i still keep thinking of it and when i get mad i throw it up in his face!How do i stop?

2007-05-25 11:27:27 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm recently divorced and I live in Iowa. I moved 300 miles across the state after the divorce was finalized. I was thinking about moving to Texas where my Aunt lives with my kids. I was being nice and was going to talk to my ex-husband about it. He than stated that he can get it where I would have to move back to my original city. Saying that his lawyer said that he could get it where I have to move back to the original school district. I don't know any of the laws in Iowa but can I be told I can't move? Or even better can it be told that I have to move back to the original city? My ex husband is a complulsive liar so I never know what to believe. He plays alot of mind games...so anyone that can help me out with any information on this would be greatly appreciated. Thank you!

2007-05-25 11:26:06 · 12 answers · asked by brokenhearted 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my ex boyfriend tryed his best to break my heart and make fun of me

2007-05-25 11:26:04 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i really did like him and miss him so much!

2007-05-25 11:24:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ive been with this man for seven years and have literally been through everything you can think of with him the situation were going through right now is i was sexually abused growing up and my four year old daughter told me that my nine year old niece touched her private part with her underware on i have never trusted my daughter with anyone and i am so furious i want him to talk to both the girls but he works twelve hours a day its been three days we have to live in the same house together her mom my fiancees sister sais that she didn't do it my mother in law sais that its all me and i'm just trying to get my nieces mom and her kicked out of the house i know without a doubt she's telling the truth i got so mad i keep telling him to talk to them because either the girl goes to couseling or i'm going to call the police i'm so stressed out he needs to make time he shoved my face and said lots of bad things in front of his mom and my kids everytime we fight he hurt me what can i do

2007-05-25 11:24:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-25 11:16:50 · 22 answers · asked by waterzone 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Excuse me, you young handsome beautiful man. Can you please direct me to the nearest Opticians ??

2007-05-25 11:13:07 · 15 answers · asked by denis9705 5 in Singles & Dating

Could my mom get in trouble if she consents for us to get married?

2007-05-25 11:13:04 · 25 answers · asked by divafurlife 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i have no income and no where to go. any ideas on how i should go about this? by the way, we only moved to our new house 2 weeks ago and the thought of uprouting my kids again is killing me. i also have 3 pets to think of too. some of you may think this is trivial to worry about animals, but they are part of my family too. please write helpful answers only. i've sworn about him enough tonight! just need to know if anyone out there has any thoughts on what i can do. thanx

2007-05-25 11:12:48 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce