Family & Relationships - 25 May 2007

the best i can do is make her laugh....i also think she hates me...and dont tell me to confront me head on.

2007-05-25 14:08:06 · 5 answers · asked by tom h 1 in Singles & Dating

Please dont lie! Do you find big girls attracitve? If so, what is it? I dont mean someone that weighs like 600 pounds, I mean a girl that 200-300???

2007-05-25 14:08:06 · 14 answers · asked by Loca 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok, here is the issue. I recently got a new roommate. Him and I have been friends for a long time. Get along great and respect each others privacy. The problem is, he always has his BF staying over. I do not mind a night or two, but it seems like it is more and more. My questions is: Should I say something? Am I over reacting? I like his BF, but I also feel, it is kind of rude that he is there all the time. I do not feel completely comfortable, not to mention the living costs go up with the extra person there. I know as a roommate, he is entitled to have friends over and of course his BF. But all the time! And he even gave the guy a key? What do I do? The BF lives with his parents (is out) and once in awhile they stay there. Since they have only been dating for a short time, they plan on waiting a year or so to move in together. I own the house and really have no other issues with him
Thanks!

2007-05-25 14:05:16 · 14 answers · asked by bjad1973 1 in Friends

Say whatever you want.

2007-05-25 14:02:11 · 9 answers · asked by Smartee 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok this is my third time asking this. I just need 5 guys to tell me if they were to have childern what would they want their only child to be as well as their oldest.

Thanks

2007-05-25 14:02:10 · 4 answers · asked by Siberia_McLean 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a group of friends who have been very good to me; when I first came over to America from Australia I stayed with several of them and through them I met my girlfriend. We are all couples(my girlfriend and I are the only unmarried couple) and we fellows have all covered for each other when at various times we've cheated on our wives/girlfriends. Well, now I found out one friend's wife was herself cheating(I have a previous question about this), and, instead of keeping my big mouth shut, I met her at her home this afternoon & told her she needed to tell her husband or I would. She instantly turned on me and said that if I said anything she'd tell everyone that WE had been having an affair! She then said that with my reputation(admittedly the worst of the lot) no one would believe me innocent and that I would lose all my friends. She's got me there: no one would forgive me for crossing the line with a friend's wife, and my girlfriend wouldn't forgive me this time. I'm stuck.

2007-05-25 14:01:24 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

so i am going to prom with this really nice guy but he is not the kind of guy i would date but i really want to have fun on prom night but the problem is he is really really shy and i don't know how much fun im gonna have with him because of that i don't want to force him out of his comfort zone but i want him along with myself to have fun on our only prom night so if you could help by giving me an idea of what i could do to have fun with him!!!! thank you for the help if you need to know anything further let me know and i will post any additional info you may need!!

2007-05-25 13:59:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It's been 4 months since my ex took a break from the relationship to work on personal problems of his own. I let him know repeatedly that I am here for him if he needs anything. Well it's been about a month now since I've had any contact with him at all because I am trying to give him his space. He recently posted a blog stating (cryptically) that he has been thinking about me a lot lately, and that I have been the inspiration for a lot of songs that hes been writing for his band. If he is thinking about me that much, I figure there has got to be something there. He was burned VERY badly by his ex, I don't know if he just got a little freaked out because he started developing feelings for me and it started getting serious? But I just don't know if I should try to contact him, or continue to wait for him to come back to me? I know I should probably wait until he's ready to come back to me, but I don't want him to think that I dont care...

2007-05-25 13:59:10 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he's24 and i'm 35, is that to big of an age gap?He does'nt seem to mind,maybe I shoud'nt worry?

2007-05-25 13:58:50 · 6 answers · asked by ny 2 in Singles & Dating

My bf bought an engagement ring it's a 3 stone ring but i really wanted a solitare...he said he decided last minute because he went to visit me in paris...where he proposed...it was sweet and everything but he never talked about it with me or asked what kind of ring i wanted...should i tell him about it? if so how?

2007-05-25 13:58:32 · 3 answers · asked by Barbie 2 in Singles & Dating

I like someone else and I don't want too break his heart.

2007-05-25 13:57:34 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok i like a girl and she likes me, however i dont know how to be a good boyfriend when I evidently ask her out...im new to this whole dating stuff

2007-05-25 13:56:38 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Okay, if you're reading this right now, then THANK YOU!!!!!!!!!!!


but ... okkay... i really need to calm myself down, don't I??? but here's my problem: My parents have TOTALLY CROSSED THE LINE with their overprotectiveness M"ANY TIMES!!!!! i HATE them, i tell u: HATE THEM???? Any girls my age with the same problem who have a good solution for me??? or maybe something that you tried to do to rebel that DID or DID NOT work????? I NEEEEEEEEEEEEDDDDDDDDDDDDD HELP HERE!!!!! PLEASE HELP MEEEEEEE!!!!!!!!!

2007-05-25 13:56:10 · 14 answers · asked by ☺♥☻٭♫---Confused Much?---☺♥☻٭♫ 2 in Family

i think i have this right,i think.I dont know how to tell.any advice on dating

2007-05-25 13:54:57 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Please help.What should i do to make a guy intereted in me?

2007-05-25 13:54:48 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

For example, I moved only an hour away from my hometown and it's completely different here, the men and women both expect women to be submissive and stupid, and the men to be dominant and wealthy, it's so weird. But even in my family everyone gives a different answer about "gender roles", the weird thing about that is that these are the people that raised me, and they don't even agree with what they taught me as a child!?! What gives?

2007-05-25 13:54:11 · 1 answers · asked by Scatta 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

ive been in a long term relationship for many years and together although unmarried we share 3 kids. i haven't had sex for a very long time (think in years, not days) . Dude's poor. we're poor together and in one crappy situation.the thought of sex makes me want to hurl. but i dont know why i hate myself for it and i dont know what to do. anyone?

2007-05-25 13:53:15 · 18 answers · asked by ohsosad 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am in the process of planning a mid-December wedding and was wondering what would be the best type of artificial christmas tree to use for decoration. I am thinking of using 2. Thanks for all the help.

2007-05-25 13:50:56 · 11 answers · asked by justcatch13 1 in Weddings

i wont to enjoy it but i think im too sensative,any advise? :(

2007-05-25 13:48:28 · 15 answers · asked by shabbychic 2 in Singles & Dating

There's this girl who has a crush on me, and doesn't really try to hide it. She's always asking me when we're going out, trying to make plans, telling me she's free, etc. She's pretty, but her attitude kills me...I don't see her that often maybe once a month. I however have always thought her cousin is so nice and want to see if something can happen.

So how to do the switch? Can I do it? If Jerry Seinfeld can't do it.....

2007-05-25 13:45:55 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-25 13:44:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and i havent talked to him but on the last day of school i wrote him a note about how i felt and gave him an invintation to a party and i gave him my phone number and email adress but i havent heard from him. i love him so much and i cant go the whole summer with out talking or hearing from him! what should i do?

2007-05-25 13:43:37 · 10 answers · asked by elena p 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-25 13:42:28 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I never know what "dirty talk" to use get my husband in the mood, yeah foreplay works but dirty talk seems to work with him, he likes it... I am fine with talking dirty while we are doing it but I need some tips from the men, what makes you just want to get it on... I need to know what to say to make him get in the mood. Help me out guys!! Give me some good tips!

2007-05-25 13:42:01 · 14 answers · asked by di 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a boyfriend.He calls me honey and says he loves me.We have held hands and plan on hugging.the problem is I am 11 yrs old.I love him too.
Is this too deep for an 11 yr old?

2007-05-25 13:41:55 · 51 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i almost got beat up
i was skating by the road and i saw a car
so i walked to the grass by the road and these people
they called my a puss* (sorry for the word)
then they flicked me and my bro off
my bro flicked them off
and they turned around
then i told me and my bro to run to earls house
omg!

2007-05-25 13:39:07 · 6 answers · asked by Emkid13 1 in Family

Guys do you consider these to be signals that you like the girl? -
Never taking his eyes off her when having a conversation, literally, looking into her eyes the entire time
Waiting until the last possible moment to leave her, even if that means being late.
Going into too much detail as in covering up, explaining about his last date w some random girl, after accidentally bringing it up
When accidentally falling asleep together, subtly holding her hand, without trying anything else whatsoever... ( on a trip with some friends )
?
And yet all this time Never asking for her number... Confusing?!

Thoughts?

2007-05-25 13:38:58 · 9 answers · asked by Jackie 4 in Singles & Dating

With the right girl, of course. I am curious to finally get the honest answer, because an impression I get is from guys is as if there is nothing worse than that.

2007-05-25 13:38:55 · 8 answers · asked by Alyssa Macey 3 in Singles & Dating

I have been dating my boyfriend for 2 years and live with him for 1 year. Today while he was in the gym I picked his cell and checked is text messages inbox and sent messages, In the last 3 months alone, he went for drinks with another girls, lunch, dated, etc while I was at home or away in business trips.
Same deal when he was out of town, he was flirting and going out with several girls. I am very sure things went further than just inocent business lunch or dinner or a glass of wine with a female friend.
I just feel horrible! , when he came back I told him that I was leaving him, no show no fuzz, no nothing! I think he understood why and he said it was ok. I know he knows what is the real deal, well.... he took a shower, got dress and he is out enjoying Friday night!! Unfortunatelly I don't know much people in Charlotte - NC (none) and I don't have nothing to do but stay at home and feel horrible!! It is right to do something like that after 2 years?

2007-05-25 13:38:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she says she never liked him and just liked the thought of having a boyfriend. then i feel like a ***** becaause he really liked her and everyday she would tell me she liked him, and he would get worried she didnt so i would be conveying false **** she told me and i feel terrible. everyone is siding with her saying they understand.i dont. i think shes a *****. my best friend got his heart "broken" by a girl he thought really liked him but she just used him. i dont know what to say to him to make him feel better because he feels like **** right now and i told him she was not worth it and that she didnt deserve him and im just not really sure how to help him. i hate to see him so sad :[

2007-05-25 13:38:06 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends