so i am going to prom with this really nice guy but he is not the kind of guy i would date but i really want to have fun on prom night but the problem is he is really really shy and i don't know how much fun im gonna have with him because of that i don't want to force him out of his comfort zone but i want him along with myself to have fun on our only prom night so if you could help by giving me an idea of what i could do to have fun with him!!!! thank you for the help if you need to know anything further let me know and i will post any additional info you may need!!
2007-05-25 13:59:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The problem with shy people is that they don't see the fun they could have if they just let go. You seem to be a bundle of joy and a very good friend. This date that you have to the prom hasn't a clue to any of your concerns. Does this make him a bad guy? not in the least! You wouldn't be the first woman on earth to provoke a shy gent into a world of care free and frivolous play. Just take him by the hand, cherish that you are a great friend and lead him into the time of his life. If your lady like, and positive, you may create the most wonderful memories for both you and he.
2007-05-25 15:41:10 · answer #1 · answered by Joanie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So here's the deal. Have you tried asking him what would be fun to him? If not then try and yeah he'll say well whatever you want. But let it be know like you said you want the both of you to have fun since it is your only prom night. And tell him to let you know whatever it is no matter how crazy. And you'll let him know if that's something your not interested in. Jus don't do something that you feel you have to do and makes you uncomfortable. Believe me that will put a bump in you memory for life. But remember jus to have fun even if you jus wing it. At least it's fun.
2007-05-25 14:04:53 · answer #2 · answered by puddfoxx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get him drunk. He will have a good time. Any other ideas I have I can't post. You the Answers Nazis. Like you said this is the one and only Prom. Do what ever you feel like doing. You don't want to be sitting in a rocking chair some day thinking. "I should have done that at my Prom"
2007-05-25 15:48:14 · answer #3 · answered by Mister Bald 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out what he is interested in and perhaps you'll discover you have more common ground that you initially thought.
Ask him what he considers "fun" on Prom Night. Then tell him your ideas. I'm sure the two of you can compromise on a strategy so that it will be an evening to remember.
In other words, talk to him.
2007-05-25 14:03:20 · answer #4 · answered by Beach Saint 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well try to get him to dance.. thats all you can really do at prom, besides some proms that offer additional entertainment.. my prom had a hypnotist and a fortune teller.. just try to get him involved, and don't let him sit in a chair all night..
2007-05-25 14:02:51 · answer #5 · answered by lilchikka2005 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm . . . I'd stick to dancing if I was you. Just curious, why isn't he the kind of guy you'd date? If you tell me, it would help me give better answers to guys who ask questions. Good night!
2007-05-25 14:09:58 · answer #6 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be nice and encouraging. Start out just talking and then ask him to dance to a fast song, and then a slow song.
~Kristen
2007-05-25 14:02:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you go only be with him, it is not nice at all to go in with one and get with another no matter where you are or how shy or not, you guyspicked each other leave it at that.
2007-05-25 14:03:46 · answer #8 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be palyfulk and flirty.
liek in a pic kiss him on his cheek.
2007-05-25 14:04:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a ********...
it will make everything better.
2007-05-25 14:03:21 · answer #10 · answered by schneid123 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋