There's this girl who has a crush on me, and doesn't really try to hide it. She's always asking me when we're going out, trying to make plans, telling me she's free, etc. She's pretty, but her attitude kills me...I don't see her that often maybe once a month. I however have always thought her cousin is so nice and want to see if something can happen.
So how to do the switch? Can I do it? If Jerry Seinfeld can't do it.....
2007-05-25 13:45:55 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Chigga u need to be open and frank with this girl u can't keep her leading on tell her ur interested in her cousin and see if she can help u get with her. If she says why ur not asking her out tell her simply that She "ins't ur type and thus I can't go out with u" u can't keep hedging it's no good for either one of u.
2007-05-26 01:43:46 · answer #1 · answered by kittana 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the bothersome one aside the next time she comes over to you and be honest with her. Tell her you think she's a sweet girl and that you are honored that she would like to go out with you. Then you hit her with the BUT.
Tell her you are so sorry but that you have always had a crush on her cousin and that you have found it difficult to tell her. Ask her if it will bother her if you ask the cousin out. She's going to respond in one of two ways: with cordialty or with anger. Be prepared for both and tell her you understand why she would be mad or sad. Of course if she's happy for you, then you are going to have to follow-up PDQ and ask the cousin out.
Good luck.
2007-05-25 20:53:17 · answer #2 · answered by Beach Saint 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, explain to the first girl in question that you're not interested in going out with her.
Let some time pass.
Ask her cousin out.
2007-05-25 20:49:46 · answer #3 · answered by Everybody's Favorite 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesn't matter who likes you...who do you like? it's not like you feed into the cousins attention. simply ask the person out that you're interested in. theres no "switching" to be done.
2007-05-25 20:50:32 · answer #4 · answered by kimm24seven 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who cares?? if you dont like her speak up! i hate it when guyz are annoyed by girls yet they still talk to them and w/e.
tell her to get the hell away and to give you her cousins number.
XD!!!...at least thats what i would do
2007-05-25 20:51:01 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Marilyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋