ok i like a girl and she likes me, however i dont know how to be a good boyfriend when I evidently ask her out...im new to this whole dating stuff
2007-05-25 13:56:38 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Treat her the way you would want to be treated... Make her feel great.. always compliment her... open the door for her, let her walk in first... open her car door for her.. don't be afraid to show her how you feel.. and be yourself...
2007-05-25 14:04:11 · answer #1 · answered by Pn8yDr3aMr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im glad you dont have the typical male ego and are actually asking for advice! lol.
1. Always listen to her. Even if shes not saying a word.
2. prove to her that you like her.. tell her, do cute stuff, just dont keep her wondering. At the same time, dont over crowd her by sworming her.
3. Show affection
4. Treat her greatly. Choose her over other things.
5. Take her out. And make her your top priotirty.
6. Give up something you like for her. Like..watch a chick flick for her. It wont kill you. I swear.
7. Suprise her... with cute stuff.
8. Trust her and she will trust you. In other words be faithful, Dont lie.
9. Make her feel like shes on top of the world.
Believe me. If you are good to her, she will be good to you.
If she hints at things (say while ur watching a movie and se thinks something in it is cute) she wants you to do that! try it! She will love it. Or if she eyes something in the mall... save up and suprise her.
If you decide to play hard to get. ..at least let her know you are interested... that way she doesnt loose feelings on you.
good luck man
2007-05-25 21:03:36 · answer #2 · answered by staci 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the fact that you are actually asking this q makes you a good start to becoming a good bf.
Stay this way!!
You need to be a good listener, a good support when she needs you, be a protector and dont lie or cheat.
Make sure she is happy and that you are too!!
Be someone you can be proud of!!
All the best
2007-05-25 21:00:52 · answer #3 · answered by MichM 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make her feel pretty.. remember details, listen to her when she talks.. call her on the phone just to say hello.. It's not hard to be a good boyfriend, just don't do anything that would make you a bad boyfriend ie flirting with other girls.. cheating, lying, being a bad listener.. etc..
If you really like her, it won't be hard.. Good luck!
2007-05-25 21:00:23 · answer #4 · answered by lilchikka2005 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good boyfriends pay attention to what the girl says she likes. Get her a little gift of what she mentioned she liked and she will melt. Before I was married, all the girls were jealous of my boyfriend. He was always bringing me flowers, cards, love notes, balloons, etc. He spent time with his friends but he also oogled over me and wanted to take me out and spend time with me. Just going for a walk and holding hands was quality time. I also love Lilacs and my mom had tons of them behind our house that he could pick for FREE! You don't have to spend a lot of money to woo her.
2007-05-25 21:02:40 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Trying♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok so you realy wanna be a good boyfriend? well here's a tip, BE YOURSELF! Gurls hate guys who are always trying to impress and don't act the way they normaly do, just start out being her friend, but as time progresses, then you can get more "lovie dovie." but don't ruin it by going to fast, take it nice and slow if this is you first time. Ok? remember BE YOURSELF! Be kind and be open and just BE THERe! your friend -hammi
2007-05-25 21:01:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be a good boyfriend: be kind, considerate, open the door for her, buy dinner (don't accept her offer to pay.. believe me, she expects that you'll pay and chivalry isn't dead), ask her a lot of questions, get to knw her and then do the things she enjoys, make her laugh. Good luck!
2007-05-25 21:02:12 · answer #7 · answered by Keats45 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest. Put her before yourself. Always consider her feelings. Dont fight with her, talk it out. TREAT HER LIKE YOU WOULD WANT YOUR SISTER TO BE TREATED BY A MAN. good luck!
2007-05-25 21:00:16 · answer #8 · answered by kcleighb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Treat her like a princess. Unlike my boyfriend...
2007-05-25 20:59:05 · answer #9 · answered by :-) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that u're new at this and that if u screw up some time not to be mad I know she will understand. Well good luck =)
2007-05-25 21:20:19 · answer #10 · answered by ~Sarah~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋