I like someone else and I don't want too break his heart.
2007-05-25 13:57:34 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
YOu like someone esle and you don't want to break his heart, yoo hoo think about it this is the real world and hearts are broken everyday. It will hurt for a while but he will get over it, so don't string him along just go up to him and tell him.
2007-05-25 14:03:28 · answer #1 · answered by Always ready for anything 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to do. You have to be respectful and responsible. You wouldn't want him to find out any other way would you? What if he saw you two out? That would be worse, right?
Two years is an investment, however, you got to give it to him straight. The last thing you want to do is beat around the bush b/c it is very immature and will only make the situation worse. Let him know that it's not working...your feelings are not what they used to be...and you don't want to go on pretending and wasting his time all the while. Don't mention the other guy, it will only taunt him.
As far as you liking someone else, it's okay, but take it slow. I would never recommend someone to leave a boyfriend for another guy...this usually blows up in your face!
Ask yourself, how you would want someone to tell you this kind of news after two years. Would you want them to blow you off and avoid you? Probably not. So, whatever you say, be considerate.
2007-05-25 14:07:19 · answer #2 · answered by Ms.Cosha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi! Well, this is what I would do, tell him that you need some space and sometime apart to figure things out and you still want to remain friends, but your life is hectic and you just can't handle too many things right now. Your mind is all over the place and it is getting overwhelmed. Or just tell him the truth. Emotions change and time goes on. You just need something different, since it has been 2 years and you haven't had any changes...I know the same old things get to me a lot. There are times I would love to go out and flirt with other guys, but I can't. Change is good once in a while.
2007-05-25 14:03:28 · answer #3 · answered by InAHouseofBlue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the real quest would be, does the one u like know that u like him??? if not, then ur better off with the guy u have been together for 2 yrs. However, if ur heart isn't into the present relationship, do not linger n stay with him just so that his feelings won't get hurt, the longer ur together the painful it would get, not to mention the harder it is to let go. Good luck
2007-05-25 14:03:00 · answer #4 · answered by Lovemylifefriendsfamily 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like someone else, the only thing to do is end it as soon as possible so he can move on. You're wasting his time by dragging it out . . . if he could find someone else in the time you're still together, then that's hurting him worse than just breaking up with him. Just do it! Good luck!
2007-05-25 14:02:29 · answer #5 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that you need to talk and tell him there is no way around breaking his heart
2007-05-25 14:03:09 · answer #6 · answered by cathryn r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can u please give more info as to what happened to make you wanna dump a 2year relationship for another guy. Basically u was cheating if u haven't left your bf.
2007-05-25 14:03:17 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont leave the one u love for the one u like because the one u like will leave u for the one they love!
2007-05-25 14:01:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say its over and (if ure a grl) go out with me!!!!!! lol just kiddin but just say i dont want to be with u n e more
2007-05-25 14:01:23 · answer #9 · answered by circaskater56 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
repeat after me...."IT'S OVER"
2007-05-25 14:00:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋