Is a 11 yr old supossed to be in a deep love?

Question

I have a boyfriend.He calls me honey and says he loves me.We have held hands and plan on hugging.the problem is I am 11 yrs old.I love him too.
Is this too deep for an 11 yr old?

Answer 1

No...it isn't too deep.........
but in my days it was called
'puppy-love' !!!!!!

Answer 2

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Answer 3

Hun, I really don't think that eleven years old is mature enough to truly "know" what love is. He could call you honey, and SAY he loves you. You can SAY you love him back. But how long have you been together? Love is staying with somebody unconditionally, and being their one and only FOREVER.

Years from now if you two are still together, you can honestly say that what you two have is love. Until then, enjoy your time with him and do things that eleven year olds do. Don't fall too deeply for him though. Because you have your whole life ahead of you, expect the unexpected.

Best of luck to the both of you. I really hope that your relationship works out. If it doesn't, don't feel too bad. Like you said, you are eleven years old. You have a long way to go.

Much Love.

Answer 4

Anyone can love at any age, but at 11 years old I doubt that its true love. Right now both of you may be infatuated (liking each other very much), but being in love involves alot of understanding of one another. You have not yet reach your true potential as young adults, so you really are still developing. Emotions,levels of maturity and hormones are still unstable. When you get a little older you wont even have to ask, you will know. Take your time, you have lots of that.

Answer 5

Ya I think it is I mean you might think you love someone when you really don't but who knows maybe you do. In my opinion I dont think a 11 year old can fall in love. But just remember that they'll probly be ALOT more guys and when you find that one special person you'll NO in your heart that he's the one. Like I say the first one's are just practice so when you find the right one he'll be the most special to you and he'll make you happier than anyone else ever did !!

Answer 6

11 yrs old is to young to even be holding hands with a boy none the less plan on hugging.....boys are still suppost to have coodies at this age.

And what you think is love isn't you are in that lust stage of life, you have a long time to go.

and he probably wont be who you marry.

Bottom line go play with your barbies and your doll's chase your friend have fun but drop the boy friend thing.

Answer 7

It is what it is.

However, you are too young to be making any big
decisions on the basis of your feelings. That is,
you're too young to be considering sex, marriage,
babies, etc.

Your feelings may indeed be strong enough to hold
you for a life time ... but statistically, its unlikely.
You don't know one way or the other because you
have no perspective. Perspective comes from
experience.

Almost every teen out there has said that they know
exactly who they are going to spend the rest of their
lives with.

And the VAST VAST majority of them are wrong.

The fact that they say the same thing about
a different person 2 weeks later doesn't seem to change
their attitude. "But he's different!"

So ... have fun. If you're deeply in love, well ... that's
great, but don't DO anything on that basis until you
have more perspective.

Answer 8

Infatuation, maybe. Love, possibly. Love is patient, love is kind & not rushed (as I Corinthians 13:13 states in the bible.)

Some people find love right away. Some people find their true soul mate after 4 or 5 people! Each situation is different.

Good Luck and you may be too young for love, but then love knows no ages!

Answer 9

I suggest not being cliche and saying "i love you" when you're still so young.. Because believe me.. someday when you really fall in love, it wont' mean as much if you said it to every boyfriend you've had up until then..

Thats what I did.. so when I said it.. i knew i meant it.. in fact.. I stuck with the mentality that I wasn't going to fall in love, and wasn't going to say it until I couldn't help it..

Now i was 16 when I fell in love, and some might still say that is to young, but i'm 20 now and we are still together, so it was real..

P.S guys at your age are FAR to immature to know what love is. .. Hugging and hand holding is fine for an 11yr old..

Answer 10

i wouldn't call it love, its more like an attraction, or should i say that he really likes you alot. Your really young, so whatever you do, just take it slow...hangout with your friends, you have more years to go and plenty of other boyfriends down the road in your life to get together with. I don't think an 11 year old should be in "deep love"!! Keep your friendship with him, and take it slow, and maybe one day down the road yall's relationship will blossom into something great!

Answer 11

I know I'm going to sound like an old fart, but 11 years old is too young to understand what love even is. You have to go through a few boyfriends, crushes, and heartbreaks before you realize what love really is.