and i havent talked to him but on the last day of school i wrote him a note about how i felt and gave him an invintation to a party and i gave him my phone number and email adress but i havent heard from him. i love him so much and i cant go the whole summer with out talking or hearing from him! what should i do?
2007-05-25 13:43:37 · 10 answers · asked by elena p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it took time and patience and sheer guts to let this guy know how you feel about him. He now has every opportunity to contact you.....you can not make any more moves! The ball is in his court he has to make the next move...remember...if you chase something.. it will flee....during the summer work on your tan ...get your nails done ...do something nice for yourself.
2007-05-25 14:01:19 · answer #1 · answered by Flynn 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok so here's the deal. You are gonna have to deal with it either way. Someone once told me don't wish or rush your life away. If he doesn't call or contact you it's not the end. Sorry to be the barer of bad news but he could just not be interested in you the same way. And then on the other hand he might not know how to approach you or have the the guts to call you. So just a while you'll see him eventually and you'll be able to tell his true feelings in his eyes and reaction to seeing you. "Good things come to those who wait."
2007-05-25 20:51:55 · answer #2 · answered by puddfoxx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you love someone you haven't talked to? It is lust (or a crush). Go out places where you might see him (just don't be stalker-ish). If you live in a small/ medium size town I'm sure you'll run into him. Shopping places, town events, etc. you'll probably see him there. Go to the memorial day parade or fireworks nearest you and you'll probably bump into him. But try to figure out what love really means.
2007-05-25 20:50:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, unfortunately all I can tell you is that you have to be strong. Maybe he just doesn't feel the same way and he prefers to leave it like it is so he doesn't hurt you. Believe me! You will get over him, it takes time and you will feel like you can't take it anymore, but patience is what you need and be very strong. Don't hurt yourself and let things happen, don't force anything and remember that "everything" happens for a reason... :)
2007-05-25 20:50:16 · answer #4 · answered by Pretty Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's not much you can really do but wait, or just try to move on and forget about him, it may seem impossible but believe me it is.. Perhaps you scared him off with the note about how you felt, maybe he doesn't feel the same so he doesn't want to confront you so instead he's avoiding you.. if you have his number you could give him a call..and talk to him yourself to see how he feels
2007-05-25 20:46:57 · answer #5 · answered by lilchikka2005 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him time - if he doesn't reply all summer (which it might take him longer than you'd like), then move on, but be happy knowing you told him how you feel...the ball is in his court now.
2007-05-25 20:48:17 · answer #6 · answered by calebskitten 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find ways to studie and go past what you did in school, give up boys you are to young.
2007-05-25 20:47:16 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him
2007-05-25 20:47:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
e-mail him, call him if you know them. send him a letter.
2007-05-25 20:47:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
( do you have his email ? )-EMAIL HIM FIRST.SiMPLE.
Call him first.
just make it seem casual
2007-05-25 20:46:35 · answer #10 · answered by anonymous 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋