Family & Relationships - 25 May 2007

I am 13 5'4 82lbs. brown hair brown eyes. I have always not been so happy about myself.today at school i was called ugly by 2 kids. they are a grade lower then me. one said my face was uglyier then crap. and then 2 other guys made a list of the hottest girls in our grade. My friend was number 5 and and i was number 10!! how sad! considering we only have 18 girls in my class. well i recently herd one of them said they liked me. and they later on rrealized they had made i mistake about where i was on the list ( after they showed everyone) they started arguing about who put me there. later on they put me at number 3. i also heard from a friend that that one who said my face was uglyier then crap said i was the prettiest girl. he said that to my friend. the one who liked me also it ALWAYS flirting with me or this other girl and he always tryes to link arms with me and stuff. but hes always talking about this other girl and stuff. im just so confused about them and what they REALLY think

2007-05-25 13:37:46 · 11 answers · asked by guys~r~confusing 4 in Singles & Dating

do you ever feel like you might be evil? that it wouldnt take much to turn you into a criminal. i dont know what im capable of. sometimes i worry when iread about things in the newspapers and i cant imagine ever being able to do really terrible things but i just dont know. do you think we have a natural mechanism to not be evil (murder, rape, assault...) ? Or do you think you could slide into being an evil person?

2007-05-25 13:34:42 · 2 answers · asked by splinter 3 in Singles & Dating

Given the choice between one sex or the other being totally in charge of a relationship, which one would be the best for everyone involved?

2007-05-25 13:31:23 · 24 answers · asked by Mister Shamrock 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-05-25 13:28:13 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-25 13:27:12 · 13 answers · asked by y-u-left-me-alone 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have this survery for school and I just need 4 women and 7 men who don't not have any childern to tell me what would they rather have a boy or girl if they were to only have one child. And what would they want the oldest to be if they were to have more then one child.

Thanks.

I did this before but I didn't get enough responses.

2007-05-25 13:25:46 · 17 answers · asked by Siberia_McLean 2 in Family

Is it bad to hate an ex if they put you through hell? I am just curious. When my ex and I were together, I remember him saying he didn't care what happened to her because she made a mess of his life. He cared for her, but from the way he talked about her, they weren't really in love. She had 2 kids and she neglected them. He cared for her kids and one time they had such a bad diaper rash they had to go to the doctor. She was a horrible mom. He just thinks she is a horrible person and they used to be friends back when they were kids so he thought she was better than that. I really don't think he ever loved her, but I think that she put him through hell. All they did was get drunk and she would never admit that she was cheating on him. He broke it off with her. They only dated for about 2 months. I know my ex. He is the love of my life and i am his too, we have known each other for 8 years. He holds grudges. This was 8 months ago, so he prob doesn't care to much now, but when we were tog

2007-05-25 13:23:54 · 13 answers · asked by Suzie Q 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Would you rather date a girl who always says "like" and giggles a lot and acts like a ditz or a girl who uses good grammar and acts smart?

2007-05-25 13:18:38 · 25 answers · asked by renegade 3 in Singles & Dating

My husband is usually running late after work. I will call him to find out whether to hold dinner or not. Lately, when I call he doesn't answer his phone. If I call 20 minutes later, he will answer but seem very distracted and out of breathe. Then he will tell me he will be late. This has happened nine times out of ten. I think maybe I am paranoid but there is this little voice that tells me to look into it. What do you think?

2007-05-25 13:16:29 · 24 answers · asked by 4532 3 in Marriage & Divorce

SOMEONE PLAYING GAMES AND JUST WANT THERE CAKE AND EAT IT TOO

2007-05-25 13:14:52 · 3 answers · asked by CHARM 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi. Guys I really would want to hear your advice. I'm obsessed with my bf. And I want to stop. Well here's the story. He's kinda a headturner. We've been dating for 3 years. I'm turning 19 and he just turned 18. I always want to be with him, I always want to see him, I never want to get him out of sight, I've already planned my future with him, I've already introduced him to my family and they know him. About the acceptance, I've been with several guys and told him the truth about what happened with those relationships (You know what I mean) and he told me and made me feel that he's bothered about that. And I feel it's because he grew up in a very conservative family. He never cheated. He made me feel he really loves me. But I'm really not into that and it's because when I see him looking at other girls I really get mad and because of that I really felt inferior. Help me pls. Try to understand my not-so-understandable problem/story. PLEASE.

2007-05-25 13:12:40 · 11 answers · asked by vaniLLa pLeasuRE 2 in Singles & Dating

I feel like we both have given up and I am open about my feelings with my husband. He knows exactly what went wrong, yet he does not take a responsibility of his contribution to our marital problems. We live like housemated, who care about each other, but past issues never been resolved and seems like a sexual chemistry never really existed. I don't blame him, I know my own flaws and at least admit to them. I am just sad that instead of being honest he would keep it all quiet and pretend that everything is great. I am not working at the moment and he tells me that I should be grateful that he is "being nice", that he takes care of me. What is the alternative? What if he was sick or unemployed? I would then take care of him and would not even think that I am going an extra mile. Anyway, what do you do with the husband, who keeps being defensive and unwilling to have an adult discussion about where we are and what we want?!? Tried counselling - no desired change.

2007-05-25 13:12:29 · 7 answers · asked by Alyssa Macey 3 in Marriage & Divorce

OK I NEVER FIGURED OUT IF MY EXX LIKEF ME OR NOT HE WOULD ONLY TELL ME " I LOVE YOU" IN LETTERS AND ALWAYS I LOVE YOU BUT HE NEVER TOLD ME IN PERSON WHY? ONE TIME HE TOLD ME HE LOVED ME MORE THAN WHAT I THOUGHT, NOW WE BROKE UP 1 YEAR AGO HE HAS A NEW GF HE LIKES HER BUT MY FRIENDS SAY HES HURT BACAUSE I DUMPED HIM WOW I DONT KNOW I THINK DAT HE DIDN'T EVEN LIKE ME IN DA 1ST PLACE

ok I saw him again 5-20-07
i had'nt seen him 4 a month Omg!!! i was shaking i said hi and he would'nt let go of my hand Why? WELL WE WENT OUT FOR 1 YEAR AND 6 MONTHS AND SOME DAYS AGO AFOUND OUT HE BROKE UP WITH HIS GF

2007-05-25 13:09:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

last wkend i was kind of embarassed by this boy's friends but i still kind of like the boy.i dont know why, but that's not the point. everyone says he and his friends were just playin(they are VERY popular, we hang out with the same crew so i have to see them a lot).even tho the school year is over, i still have to see them a lot. next wkend im going to my friends house and they already planned to come over. i dont know how im supposed to act around him or his friends b/c im not sure i should like him anymore b/c a.i have too much pride b.everyone knows about it and c.i dont kno if he likes me back. should i just be like"wats up"to him and his friends then like ignore them and act like im having the time of my life or should i try to get back at them for embarrassing me with him?any other suggestions?pleez help...i have to go to high school with them in the fall (they're freshmen, im in the 8th) and i dont want things to be awkward...i want to be friends with them. i have to for my rep

2007-05-25 13:06:31 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

One day my father decides that he is not happy with his life. So he moves somewhere else. But at the same time he does not think of his kids well being. One of the kids “A” has a fulltime job and the other is still in school (kid “B”). So they move and the father spoils kid “B” buy him new car and give him money because he has a girlfriend. About 6 months down the road. Kid “B” does not graduate high school while Kid “A” is jobless. Kid “B” is an idiot but does not realize it. Why does my father not talk to Kid “B” about his problems? Instead of just ignore it or just make excuses up why that happened. While Kid “B” feels hopeless and depressed. How does a family become like this? One day you are happy with your life the next day you wake up and everything is gone. A cloud of sadness falls over you.

2007-05-25 13:03:15 · 4 answers · asked by brad kang 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I had a friend at university last year, we were fairly close and used to go out alot, in my final year i found the workload, but i still always made time for her, phoning her and even going on nights out and shopping when i should have been doing my work. Then i moved home and didnt live as near my friend anyomore, and i found that over the past year i was the one always phoning her, and asking when i could visit, after some time i gave up because she kept saying she was busy with work. One of my parents unexpectedly passed away last christmas, and i obviously told all of my mates, loads of my mates were so supportive and they came to see me, and regulary kept in touch, but she didnt. Recently she has started texting and phoning me, asking to meet up, but i have been ignoring her i feel like shes getting in touch now its convinient for her, because shes finnished uni, but then i feel sad cos we did have fun. what wud u do forget about her or meet up with her and be friends?

2007-05-25 13:01:10 · 13 answers · asked by ANNIER 2 in Friends

i'm graduating 8th grade on friday and i usually write the same thing every year.."HAKAS"..have a great summer..etc. i need something different to write

2007-05-25 12:57:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

This is a seriös so that we know how to help other people in need.

2007-05-25 12:56:28 · 13 answers · asked by Perfect 1 in Friends

hi im 21 i dont have any friends im a very outgoing person but it seems know one wants to be my friend i cant figure it out im really depressed i dont know what to do every time i try and make a friend it seems like its all going good and then all the sudden everything gets all messed up i feel like i cant go on and on top of it all there was this girl she said she liked me everything was going great and then all the sudden she just stopped talking to me i dont know what happened im really lonely ive prayed about it and everything someone please help i need someone to be my friend i need someone to talk too im so bored and depressed i cant take it anymore im begging for help please all i want is friends i dont know why things are this way for my lifes just a mess right now i dont know what to do im every where i go i have to go by myself coz i have nobody i wish someone would care im just so lonely i cant even express how much i would love any help you can give god bless you all!!

2007-05-25 12:53:22 · 20 answers · asked by jj2424 2 in Friends

This happens in a tribe somewhere on Earth. A kid sits pouting when his grandfather, also the tribal chief, walks by and asks him what is the problem.

Kid: I don't like my name, I hate it.
Chief: Now, now. It is tribal custom that me, the chief, names the child according to what I saw at the moment he or she was born. Don't you understand?
Kid is still pouting
Chief: See, I named your father Flying Eagle, your good friend next door Running Wolf, and your older sister Light Rain.
Kid is still pouting.
Chief: Time to go to your mother now. So run along, Fxxking Dog.

2007-05-25 12:52:17 · 16 answers · asked by Sir Richard 5 in Family

i been in a relationship with a older man that is 13 yrs older than me and i am bored to death but i love him i recently met a younger man 6 yrs younger than me and i feel like stella who got her groove back... now i am torned between two men should i choose stability or fun help!!!!!

2007-05-25 12:51:50 · 4 answers · asked by hollywoodwblk 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-25 12:40:34 · 14 answers · asked by gmasta_flash 3 in Singles & Dating

This is understandable, right?

2007-05-25 12:40:05 · 32 answers · asked by Proverbial Quimby 1 in Singles & Dating

so I have trust issues and my boyfriend gave me his password to his myspace account so I went on and I found some girl from canada talking to him and telling him that she loves him and wants to be with him forever!! and he said the same back I called him crying and he said that he just said that to play along but he has been talking to this girl for a very long time and I dont know what to do!! what should I do?? because I feel so heartbroken and I dont know if he is telling me the truth or not because the email wasnt something anyone could just make up off the top of their head!

2007-05-25 12:38:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i dont knwo whats wrong with me but ill start liking a guy a lot and ill think about him and talk to him all the time but once we do anything like makeout i loose interest. and once they start like me i loose interest.. what its wrong with me i dont knwo what to do

2007-05-25 12:38:32 · 1 answers · asked by sarah 1 in Singles & Dating

Personally, I would rate mine a 7~ it's not perfect, but it's nice.

Just curious to see how other people feel:)

2007-05-25 12:36:55 · 31 answers · asked by Proud mother! 6 in Marriage & Divorce

The other day i came home early from work and my husband didn't work that day, didn't know i was coming home early. When i was pulling into our driveway i saw him coming out of the neighbors house fixing his belt, our neighbor is a women about 30 years old. I asked him over dinner what he was doing and he told me the truth. He said that he and the neighbor have been having sex for like 3 months now. Then he said they wanted me to join them. I really love him we have been together since high school. He said this was the first time he's ever cheated on me. I don't want to leave him but he keeps insisting that we have a threesome. What do you all think?

2007-05-25 12:28:02 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

many times and had fun. One night watching movies we ended up kissing. Since that night nothing really has been discussed between us. 1 year has gone by and we are with diiferent people but when we see each other those old sparks are still there. My girlfriend sensed something and asked if we dated each other and i said no. I really don't know what we were. Any suggestions?

2007-05-25 12:19:59 · 6 answers · asked by KID87 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi, I'm in need of some partial advice!
I've been with my partner for nearly 5 years now.
We are both professionals owning houses very near each other (don't live together). My partner is 32 was married and has a daughter - from what he tells me the relationship was quite bad. We generally have quite a good relationship but communication has always been a problem because he does not like to talk about feelings. I'm 30 and feel my life is good and feel ready to really commit. Just over a year ago we had a termination, I feel this was more his decision than mine. Recently he ahs asked me to stop birth control as he feels ready to have a baby, but not to get married. I feel that marriage is no where near as huge commitment wise as having a baby so don't understand. I really really don't want to have child out of marriage so my dilemma is do I wait & pray he'll change his mind or call it a day. 1st option worries me because of my age and the 2nd option will definitely break my heart.

2007-05-25 12:19:45 · 30 answers · asked by Sooz 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-25 12:17:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships