Do feelings u have underneath the surface always bubble-up to the top? This girl and i hung-out as friends?

Question

many times and had fun. One night watching movies we ended up kissing. Since that night nothing really has been discussed between us. 1 year has gone by and we are with diiferent people but when we see each other those old sparks are still there. My girlfriend sensed something and asked if we dated each other and i said no. I really don't know what we were. Any suggestions?

Answer 1

Well you guys seem close as friends so you should be able to talk to her about it.

Tell her you have been thinking alot about that night and you feel its still hanging in the air between you two and you would like to talk to her about it.

Then see what she says and then work with that from there.

There's no point in sweeping it under the carpet because it seems you both have that in your minds when you see each other.

All the best!!

Answer 2

It sounds like there's still something between you two, something better than what you have with your current girlfriend. Maybe this old girl was insecure about what happened. Such as, she was afraid if you thought that you two kissing was bad. Or maybe she's just like you, when you both know that there has to be something but you're just not completely sure about it yet. Maybe you should talk to her and see if she still feels the same way. Maybe there is something.

Oh, and just a comment on the entire situation, it sounds so romantic!

Answer 3

Dude, Friends is the way a love lasts ! Be honest with yourselves and each other always. Good luck, I"ll say a prayer !

Answer 4

The best of relationships start off as really great mates that is a good foundation for a healthy relationship well done go for it.

Answer 5

If you feel secure enough, you could tell your present girlfriend what happened. The feelings you describe sound more like lust instead of love.

Answer 6

not at first, but they will at some point.