One day my father decides that he is not happy with his life. So he moves somewhere else. But at the same time he does not think of his kids well being. One of the kids “A” has a fulltime job and the other is still in school (kid “B”). So they move and the father spoils kid “B” buy him new car and give him money because he has a girlfriend. About 6 months down the road. Kid “B” does not graduate high school while Kid “A” is jobless. Kid “B” is an idiot but does not realize it. Why does my father not talk to Kid “B” about his problems? Instead of just ignore it or just make excuses up why that happened. While Kid “B” feels hopeless and depressed. How does a family become like this? One day you are happy with your life the next day you wake up and everything is gone. A cloud of sadness falls over you.
2007-05-25 13:03:15 · 4 answers · asked by brad kang 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Your father failed to put God first, you kids and your mother second and himself third. Your father is the spiritual leader of the house and the head of the house and it sounds as if while thinking only of himself he lost his family.
Self-centeredness, divorce, separation, cheating on wife, ignoring responsibilities and failing to stay in his place. Hopefully you kids will do a better job with your life. When we fail to live like God tells us to live then the family is destroyed.
2007-05-25 13:15:11 · answer #1 · answered by Jeancommunicates 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both Kid A and Kid B have only two choice: either go to school full-time or get a job full-time. That's it! If they're smart, they'll choose school and get it while they can. Once you enter the working world, almost all of your paycheck will go to just pay the bills to survive such as rent, phone, electricity, water, car maintenance, insurance, etc. There will be very little, if any, left for any new clothes or fun. But if you get an education, you will have a better paying job and a better life. Then you can make your own life and make it a good one.
2007-05-25 20:08:18 · answer #2 · answered by D 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I haven't had such a wonderful life either. Don't let that get you down, though. Some of the sweetest people in the world have come from a "bad" background. What you can do is think of your future. Work hard, save your money, go to college. You, alone are responsible for your life.
2007-05-25 20:11:23 · answer #3 · answered by rubyred 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is full of challenges and there are selfish people only thinking about themselves these days. People will learn, but sometimes its too late and the same mistakes happen over and over again.
2007-05-25 20:08:57 · answer #4 · answered by Kim S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋